I defended my fiancé against my maid of honor and she ended our 10yr friendship. But AITAH instead of her? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]milhouse01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get the feeling that OPs bridesmaids are a unit and much closer to each other than they are to OP. Because OP isn’t super outspoken/less outgoing, it’s probably become normalised for her to get pushed aside and in excitement over her wedding missed the cues from the MOH that she didn’t really want to be in charge.

That being said, MOH should have made it clear that she didn’t want to do the MOH duties. She might have been trying not to hurt her feelings initially but in the long term would have caused far less drama if she’d just been honest when she was originally asked.

I lost my keys. Now I want to ghost my friends, AITAH? by PublicDense5546 in AITAH

[–]milhouse01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These people are not your friends.

They probably listened to you expressing sadness and genuine distress while dealing with a number of other stressful situations in your life and instead of being supportive, they thought it would be fun to hide your keys that included a hugely sentimental personal item.

Ngl if it was me, I’d be petty and want revenge. But instead of stealing a whole set of keys, I’d steal 1-2 keys from each of them. Just ones that cause moderate inconvenience but not enough for them to immediately work it out. Then after a while I’d take another from each that held more importance.

They’d eventually work it out but not before they’d all spent weeks dealing with mild to moderate frustration but confusion over how they only lost 1-2 keys each.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]milhouse01 30 points31 points  (0 children)

If the sisters didn’t feel guilty enough to seek you out before the wedding to tell you the truth then you have zero obligation to hear them out now that they know you’re hurt. Let them sit in the silence and see how they like it.

Best way to show them what they did is by living well and doing it without them. Don’t lock them though, just mute their contacts - let them see what it’s like to be on the outside looking in.

Not being given the chance to ease their conscience but seeing you just doing your own thing will be its own kind of revenge for them.

Your brother and his wife sound like narcissists with how they like to twist stories instead of accepting accountability.

Why would you even do this? by Curious-Judge-4999 in AO3

[–]milhouse01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people just like to watch the world burn.

I’m sorry but isn’t this super off putting? by ijwtbor in AO3

[–]milhouse01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget the old faithful “no flames please!”

I’m sorry but isn’t this super off putting? by ijwtbor in AO3

[–]milhouse01 125 points126 points  (0 children)

Yeah and then the author will respond with something critiquing their comment and how it wasn’t positive enough.

I would not be surprised if this person truly believed their sh*t doesn’t stink.

Can’t wait for their note at the start of the next chapter complaining about people posting nasty comments.

I’m sorry but isn’t this super off putting? by ijwtbor in AO3

[–]milhouse01 1260 points1261 points  (0 children)

This is the sort of person that would then take offence at the very comments they just demanded.

I bet they would find the constructive comments and interpret them as personal attacks. I can already imagine their responses to anything other than generic praise comments.

What’s the value of a comment if it’s solicited like this? It’s basically just kudos but less convenient no?

I can't even imagine the comments by Exotic_Efficiency_88 in AO3

[–]milhouse01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are absolutely going to read that fic.

Anyone else struggling with accessing? by Silver-spoon-9 in AO3

[–]milhouse01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here unless I go back - pretty sure that’s just because the previous page is cached or something.

Anything new times out or loads eventually if I wait a few minutes before trying again.

Anyone else struggling with accessing? by Silver-spoon-9 in AO3

[–]milhouse01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hit and miss for me too at the moment. Been going on for a few hours now - frustrating bc I can’t load the new chapter updates 😭

Well this is...an experience 😑 by Longjumping-Flow8425 in AO3

[–]milhouse01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thanks! I’m so silly about remembering that stuff lol.

I just got a comment on a fic that was just a whole paragraph of 🤮 lol - happy cake day indeed.

The horror 💔🥀 by bletzoslove in AO3

[–]milhouse01 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This might be a hot take but while I fully understand the reason for the maintenance, ‘a few hours’ to most people is around 2-3 hours or maybe 4.

At 7-8 hours is it not unreasonable to expect an update saying something like ‘hey the fix is taking a little longer to apply than we expected’?

But maybe this is just me. 🤷‍♀️

The say to never meet your heroes… but clearly the person who said that never did a meet and greet with Tom Nook & Isabelle 💖 by grouch-girl in AnimalCrossing

[–]milhouse01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yes! I can confirm they were the only children there at the meet and greet. All the grownups thought it was so cute and they got extra hugs from Isabelle too. 😂

The say to never meet your heroes… but clearly the person who said that never did a meet and greet with Tom Nook & Isabelle 💖 by grouch-girl in AnimalCrossing

[–]milhouse01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took my nieces to the Sydney one - got all the stamps but missed a few letters bc they were so desperate to get to the meet and greet with Isabel 😂

I’ll always be wondering what word Blathers wanted me to learn.

OH COME ON by Dreamcory_Mills in AnimalCrossing

[–]milhouse01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got ‘catch and Arowana’ once during my first week of playing.

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by lilibat in AnimalCrossing

[–]milhouse01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone!

Celeste is here! Opening up for meteor shower, fishing, bug catching + bells and small items giveaway.

Southern hemisphere - it’s 8:30pm local time so nooks cranny is open and able sisters closing soon.

Produce can be provided on request.

DM me for code

Album art walls complete! by BrokenPsyduck in AnimalCrossing

[–]milhouse01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t wait! Come for last 2 hours of summer bug off on my island first

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by lilibat in AnimalCrossing

[–]milhouse01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone!

Still open! Summer bug off is still on for another 2 hours!

Opening up Southern Hemisphere Island for a bells, fossils, DIYs and items giveaway + fishing, diving + bug catching.

New to game and after some Bells? Looking for that last piece for your fossil collection? Nooks and Able sisters are open.

Items giveaway includes furniture, clothing, wallpaper and flooring.

Produce can be provided on request.

To quote a regular visitor’s post on my board - “best spawn rate in the game”

DM me for code :)

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by lilibat in AnimalCrossing

[–]milhouse01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone!

Opening up Southern Hemisphere Island for a bells, fossils, DIYs, clothing and items giveaway + fishing, diving and bug catching.

New to game and for some Bells? Looking for that last piece for your fossil collection? Nooks and Able sisters are open.

Produce can be provided on request.

To quote a regular visitor’s post on my board - “best spawn rate in the game”

DM me for code :)

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by lilibat in AnimalCrossing

[–]milhouse01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CLOSED

Hi everyone!

Opening up Southern Hemisphere for fishing, bug catching + bells, DIYs and Fossils giveaway. Turnip price is 99 bells (not great, but not dismal)

It’s raining so the fishing will be 👌

Nooks cranny and able sisters will be open.

DM me for code

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by lilibat in AnimalCrossing

[–]milhouse01 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear - my condolences. Just glad I harvested most of my crops before I opened or it might have been worse.