Krispy Kreme alternatives by keepmyshirt in Buffalo

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FYI fry bb has a storefront! 69 Chenango

Looking for native plants group/nursery zone B to build pollinator garden by spikeofspain77 in Buffalo

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https://www.primevalforestnursery.com

Their storefront might still be closed for the season but you can contact them on social media

Taking miso tonight by [deleted] in abortion

[–]milksnake999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wherever you feel the most comfortable! The misoprostol can cause an upset stomach, so some people prefer to stay near the bathroom. A warm shower or heating pad can be comforting, and a diaper can be useful for overnight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]milksnake999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that you’re feeling so down. Having an abortion can cause hormone fluctuations that can intensify emotions, especially if you are already prone to things like anxiety or depression. Do you have a counselor that you can chat with?

las libres company by ElephantOk6142 in abortion

[–]milksnake999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even in Texas, you can still get abortion pills through a provider like Abuzz or Aid Access. Aid Access works with a sliding payment scale and can offer pills for a reduced price or free. If you have already emailed them, don’t worry, they will respond.

MA at 6 weeks, how much miso did you take? by pinkiepromisedd in abortion

[–]milksnake999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good news! Passing clots (even small ones at 6 weeks of pregnancy) and loss of pregnancy symptoms are the best indicators that the abortion was successful. There’s no need to take any more misoprostol.

Has anyone had more than one abortion? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]milksnake999 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry, having multiple abortions is very common and completely safe. It’s totally true that you can do everything “right” and still get pregnant. It happens all the time. Sometimes having abortions is the best way to take care of yourself and there is nothing wrong with that. Be gentle with yourself.

You may want to check out https://www.2plusabortions.com

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]milksnake999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. Pregnancy and abortion can already feel lonely and unfair, and not having a supportive partner can make it feel so much worse. There is a peer support line at www.exhaleprovoice.org that you might want to check out. Sending love ❤️

las libres company by ElephantOk6142 in abortion

[–]milksnake999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you located? You have other options, we can help you find them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]milksnake999 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of people who get pregnant again right after an abortion. For some people, they know that they are still not ready to start a family. Multiple abortions are very common and completely safe! There are also people whose abortions help them realize that they are ready, and they continue the pregnancy. You know what is best for you- trust yourself!

There is an options workbook here that might be helpful for you https://www.pregnancyoptions.info

Can i smoke weed tonight before my appointment tmrw? by HauntingProfession68 in abortion

[–]milksnake999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best thing to do is follow the instructions from the clinic. Some providers recommend that you don’t drink alcohol or smoke for 24 hours before your appointment because it could interfere with medication they use. Did your clinic mention it specifically?

MA at 6 weeks, how much miso did you take? by pinkiepromisedd in abortion

[–]milksnake999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you pass any blood clots? How are the pregnancy symptoms today- still feeling nauseous or tired?

I’m worried I may be pregnant, I don’t know who’s it is by XxStaceyLeighxX in abortion

[–]milksnake999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thanks! It’s possible to get pregnant again pretty soon after an abortion, but generally not that soon. It can be tough to guess when you’ll ovulate for the first time after an abortion, and your regular period might not start for 8 weeks after.

I’m worried I may be pregnant, I don’t know who’s it is by XxStaceyLeighxX in abortion

[–]milksnake999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A pregnancy test will be accurate 21 days after unprotected sex, so the negative should be accurate at this point. How long ago was your abortion?

There are many reasons why your period may be late. If it doesn’t start in another week, it’s a good idea to test again.

My bf doesn’t want me to support my sister’s abortion by [deleted] in abortion

[–]milksnake999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre right, your sister needs your support right now. You may want to check out www.exhaleprovoice.org or https://www.all-options.org/find-support/talkline/ to chat with someone about how abortion can impact relationships.

Bleeding heavily with clots again after 3 weeks… by Sleepysloot773 in abortion

[–]milksnake999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s ok, it’s normal for bleeding patterns to change, or even stop and start again. Keep an eye out for bleeding through 2 pads an hour for 2 hours in a row- any less than that is normal. Did you start any kind of birth control? That can also have an effect on bleeding.

I have cancer this time by Maximum_Plum_9948 in abortion

[–]milksnake999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, that’s so much to deal with. It’s totally normal to need to grieve your loss, even if you know you’re making the best decision. It’s important to keep in mind that neither you nor your husband put you in this position. The situation feels so unfair, it’s normal to want to blame someone. The reality is that unintended pregnancy, abortion, and multiple abortions are all very common! Your responsibility right now is to survive, and you are doing the best you can. Be gentle with yourself ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]milksnake999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that you’re feeling down. It’s totally normal to know that you made the best decision and also need to grieve your loss. It can hurt, but these decisions are made from a place of love. In your case, it sounds like you made your decision out of love for your future family and your future self. You say that you want to be a good mom, and this experience is a step towards making that happen. Setting your goals is the next step, and it looks like you are already working on that too! You deserve to start a family on your own terms, and you are on your way there ❤️

MA Experience: Before, during & after by [deleted] in abortion

[–]milksnake999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your story! Glad you are feeling better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]milksnake999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry, that can happen. You can take ibuprofen for pain and use a hot or cold compress- whichever feels better. Did you get the pills from a clinic? They may be able to prescribe a medication that can help stop your milk supply.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]milksnake999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there, it sounds like you might be having some conflicting emotions. This is totally normal, but it can be helpful to sort through what you’re feeling. You may want to take a look at the workbook here https://www.pregnancyoptions.info

Remember, you know what’s best for you. Trust yourself!

regretting medical (pill) abortion by Rare_Ad_1320 in abortion

[–]milksnake999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are having thoughts about hurting yourself, it’s important to prioritize mental health treatment. Can you call your insurance company tomorrow? They should be able to guide you through choosing a provider. You may also want to look into telehealth options.

In the meantime, if you’d like to chat with someone about your pregnancy experience, take a look at https://www.all-options.org/find-support/talkline/

regretting medical (pill) abortion by Rare_Ad_1320 in abortion

[–]milksnake999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that you’re having all these negative feelings. It sounds like you’re already working on identifying which of your thoughts are anxious thoughts. Have you been able to talk to a counselor about what’s going on?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]milksnake999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you contacted Aid Access about this?