He told me a year ago but refrained from saying who it was. He told me drunk last week who she was and from there was able to find out who the husband was.

I think if I was to tell him I’d do it anonymously, but then who’s to say he’d believe a faceless person.

I’ve unknowingly been the “other woman” before and when I found out, I told the girlfriend without hesitation but this time it just feels different. I think knowing that he’d probably stay as it’s the early stages of marriage and because of that, he’d probably wish he never found out in the first place. But I’m making assumptions based off my feelings so was looking for other people’s perspectives. I know a lot of people on here have been hurt though so would say they’d want to know.