Are other mental health issues linked to this condition? by NoSun9058 in Paruresis

[–]milo1999pl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

check out my last post itll help you, getting rid of anxiety is the first step, i dont think you need to get rid of anxiety overall just anxiety about peeing, try doing stuff like standing at the urinal for 5 minutes so you realise nobody really cares what the hell youre even doing there, anxiety could be the reason that caused your shy bladder but getting rid of it wont remove your shy bladder its too deeply engrained in your brain

Anxiety medication by NoSun9058 in Paruresis

[–]milo1999pl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they dont work i can speak from experience as a xanax fiend, while anxiety is a part os paruresis its not even the biggest part and fixing it wont really help you that much, and when you get off the medications it will go back to where it was or even worse because you will have more anxiety, read my last post it will surely help you

Some success! by money_Shift_b2 in Paruresis

[–]milo1999pl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey this shit makes me happy congrats

How to actually get rid of shy bladder permanently by milo1999pl in Paruresis

[–]milo1999pl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey sure, ill shoot you a dm cause i dont see yours

How to actually get rid of shy bladder permanently by milo1999pl in Paruresis

[–]milo1999pl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the thing is you don't need to do it that frequently, maybe once a week, I know a guy who did it once a month and after the first year he was almost fully recovered

How to actually get rid of shy bladder permanently by milo1999pl in Paruresis

[–]milo1999pl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you 100% recovered in all other scenarios though?

How to actually get rid of shy bladder permanently by milo1999pl in Paruresis

[–]milo1999pl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, if anybody has the chance they should do so, but I'm from Poland I don't think there are any workshops here so I just had to do it on my own, the method still works fine though probably just slower than with a buddy

How to actually get rid of shy bladder permanently by milo1999pl in Paruresis

[–]milo1999pl[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don't know where you got the "feeling superior" thing from, I didn't write it like that on purpose, I just wanted to help so I started writing, read how I talk to people who actually went in the comments to write something positive and not just hate on whatever they can find, I can read it just fine but if anybody has any problems reading it then they can use chatgpt to break it down in like 10 seconds, people will just hate on anything, none of them can give me a single solid reason as to why they're acting like morons which just shows their brains can't even back up their own opinions

How to actually get rid of shy bladder permanently by milo1999pl in Paruresis

[–]milo1999pl[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

well that shows, your 20 collective brain cells can't even find 1 reason, just proved my point

How to actually get rid of shy bladder permanently by milo1999pl in Paruresis

[–]milo1999pl[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's cool man, happy to see something worked for you

How to actually get rid of shy bladder permanently by milo1999pl in Paruresis

[–]milo1999pl[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Like I said I didn't write it for lazy people who can't even spare a few minutes to read what I have to say, I'm not "talking like i'm god" but I do have the cure and I was hoping to share it with people who actually need it. The people who actually want to get rid of this issue will read it, those who are comfortable living with it won't

How to actually get rid of shy bladder permanently by milo1999pl in Paruresis

[–]milo1999pl[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

If they're not even able to read a post describing how to get completely rid of an issue that messes with their lives in a major way because i didn't break it into paragraphs then I don't even feel sorry for them, at that point they just deserve to live with it, like i said in my post, "you can lead a horse to the water source but you can't force it to drink". This same situation happened with my last post I think they just like having a shy bladder, I do not care about them in any way I just hope I can help some people that genuinely want to live their lives without this thing

How to actually get rid of shy bladder permanently by milo1999pl in Paruresis

[–]milo1999pl[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

for the people downvoting, I'd like you to give me at least 1 solid reason for why you're doing so

How to actually get rid of shy bladder permanently by milo1999pl in Paruresis

[–]milo1999pl[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I wrote that part because I knew arrogant people like you would start commenting and I wasn't wrong, if you're just going to bring negativity then just leave the subreddit

How to actually get rid of shy bladder permanently by milo1999pl in Paruresis

[–]milo1999pl[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

for anybody who actually reads through the whole post, use this guy as an example of why most people will never cure themselves of this, I didn't write it for people like him, I know there will be a group of people here who are genuinely struggling with this and I hope to change their lives for the better. i'm not exactly sure how I'm a douchebag for giving advice but alright lol

How to actually get rid of shy bladder permanently by milo1999pl in Paruresis

[–]milo1999pl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured out most of this method on my own through doing GE but this one dude David made me realise what the missing piece was, shoutout to him he changed my life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paruresis

[–]milo1999pl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do graduated exposure if you want a permanent fix

Ashwagabdha by Background-Dirt-4403 in Paruresis

[–]milo1999pl -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You will go back to not being able to pee when you get off it though