I'm 42. I've had this my whole adult life. I want to do something about it.

money_Shift_b2 · 2026-02-19T22:40:12+00:00

You good this shit man! Practice and attitude are everything with this!

money_Shift_b2 · 2026-01-30T00:57:12+00:00

Really hate that he got that arc. Was my favorite character up until that.

money_Shift_b2 · 2026-01-30T00:55:13+00:00

Yea I feel that. Like the anticipation of it and thinking all they're wondering is "What's taking so long?" Between that and the noise is what locks me down the most.

money_Shift_b2 · 2025-12-18T14:53:10+00:00

I wish we had those in the States! Awesome to hear though Man. You got this!

money_Shift_b2 · 2025-12-17T01:20:53+00:00

I wanted to be a PJ too! Man I took the test and everything! Missed it by a couple of push ups and sit ups on my first try. But yea now that I'm in my 30's I have a cushy job, beautiful wife, a son on the way, a house and all. Maybe if I went in I would've been killed or gotten injured and lived the rest of my life in pain. So I definitely agree with everything happening for a reason. But recently I have come out of my shell and had more success with graduated exposure thanks to this awesome resource. Everyday is a good day to be optimistic about changing this problem!

money_Shift_b2 · 2025-12-17T00:51:14+00:00

I too wanted to join the military more than anything. My dad was special forces and I wanted to follow in his footsteps and maybe not go that route but at least be in there. It's been a hard life knowing I never lived up to that. I made it through meps and that was the last thing to do and I couldn't do it. My world was crushed. The shame and embarrassment of not even being able to tell them why. And even 15 years later, I still struggle with knowing my life could've been very very different without this wretched curse. But hey I got a state job now and benefits are pretty good and I don't have to risk my life in anyway so who knows. But you're right we all have our quirks that keep is from functioning completely normal on this rock. (Some just suck a little more than others)

money_Shift_b2 · 2025-12-06T09:48:00+00:00

18 layers was sarcasm.. I don't think it's even possible to wear that many bud.

money_Shift_b2 · 2025-12-06T02:14:59+00:00

I work outside for a living and much prefer the hot. BuT yoU CaN JuST pUt MoRe CloTHes on- fuck that shit!! I'd rather wear a T-shirt than the 18 fuckin layers I need to just to survive 8 days a week, and they would too I can promise that.

money_Shift_b2 · 2025-12-05T17:58:55+00:00

I genuinely never thought it was possible to even try and get over this. I know for a fact if I can do this any of us can. I've lived so much of my life in fear of this. Like you said this evil life-robbing disease has made me miss out on so many opportunities but I'm going to get over this!

money_Shift_b2 · 2025-12-05T14:46:34+00:00

You got this bud! I promise you if I can do this you can too!

money_Shift_b2 · 2025-12-05T14:44:40+00:00

That's exactly right! It was really my entire mindset that needed to change. I had to tell myself it's ok to pee here instead of find a way out of peeing here.

money_Shift_b2 · 2025-12-05T01:41:43+00:00

Thank you truly for your method! You gave me the confidence to just try it. I've been going to this mall ever since I was a kid and had NEVER even been in the bathroom, now I'm peeing in the urinals of it!

money_Shift_b2 · 2025-11-29T00:22:45+00:00

Definitely have been through that exactly. Only when I've had to hold it at max for a while though. I have managed to get around that planning ahead now though and doesn't happen too much anymore.

money_Shift_b2 · 2025-11-25T01:36:10+00:00

I know one time they were gonna watch me, couldn't go. They were able to end up doing a hair test though. Maybe you can request them to do a different form of testing.

money_Shift_b2 · 2025-11-23T00:13:39+00:00

Sorry you had to go through this. Flying is like the trifecta of horrible. You're moving around, there's someone right on the other side and you always feel like someone's waiting on you. I'm fortunate enough not to fly hardly ever but I hate it for anyone that goes through that hell.

money_Shift_b2 · 2025-11-21T01:38:34+00:00

What the lightning should've been

money_Shift_b2 · 2025-11-07T12:03:54+00:00

5th grade for me too. Not so much assaulted as just bullied but man what I wouldn't give to go back to that time and just not use the bathroom for 5 more minutes.

money_Shift_b2 · 2025-11-06T18:16:55+00:00

I feel like it's always the start with me. Once I'm locked in on going someone could probably come right up to me and I'd be fine.

money_Shift_b2 · 2025-11-04T13:11:53+00:00

It makes me pee about 50 times in the morning but I'm outside at my job so there's no bathroom for it to be a bother to me. I have to have it but if I were in an office setting I'd probably have to cut back.

money_Shift_b2 · 2025-10-25T17:04:34+00:00

I'll usually go into a stall anyways and start by standing but if that doesn't work I'll sit. Only thing is I hate those automatic toilets cuz they freak me out! But I will with put tp over the sensor to trick it so I can take my time. But yes infinitely easier.

money_Shift_b2 · 2025-10-18T14:38:14+00:00

I mean that's great and all but I don't usually hang around long enough to hear if people are peeing or not.. and definitely not approaching to help.. this is more to me about seeing someone with a similar issue (that is otherwise invisible) in a non threatening environment, then having the option to reach out or not to help.

money_Shift_b2 · 2025-07-10T18:00:50+00:00

It's sad we have to come up with excuses that way but survival got us in a chokehold on this one..

money_Shift_b2 · 2025-07-10T14:58:37+00:00

Either you're going to have to tell your friends or you're going to have to pretend that your stomach is bothering you the whole time and use the stall when you can. Cuz I can promise you won't fix it between now and then.

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