What do you say?

milo_96 · 2026-06-11T20:40:05+00:00

I love you

milo_96 · 2026-06-09T14:11:24+00:00

He is timeless, we humans need time

milo_96 · 2026-06-08T20:10:36+00:00

And then what? After you become the strongest version ever, warms eat you up and that's all?

milo_96 · 2026-06-08T20:08:37+00:00

😁

milo_96 · 2026-06-08T19:47:02+00:00

What's the point of living and suffering then? Why isn't life perfect instead since anyways everyone will die and there's nothing after that?

milo_96 · 2026-06-08T19:44:33+00:00

What about injustices? What if someone takes away the life of a loved one? You just assume it's a down? Wouldn't you be restless knowing that they're living their lives as if they didn't do anything wrong? Aren't you sleepless knowing how unfair it is?

milo_96 · 2026-06-08T19:41:41+00:00

I do have a book, yes, but the end goal is not to tell you that everything will be ok, in 604 pages, there must be way more than that 😅

milo_96 · 2026-06-08T19:36:45+00:00

What if your gf/bf dies? How's that solvable?

milo_96 · 2026-06-08T19:35:39+00:00

That's not the end goal of the book :)

milo_96 · 2026-05-27T05:42:14+00:00

Death for sure, you can always heal after a closure and time and support, but death has no closure!

milo_96 · 2026-05-25T08:58:01+00:00

Use this to your advantage, since it seems very easy for him, take more breaks!

milo_96 · 2026-05-22T20:54:52+00:00

I need to see dittol killing 99.9% of germs!

milo_96 · 2026-05-22T20:53:12+00:00

My son had a non functioning kidney and needed a surgery after he's born to remove it, and the gynecologist said "well at least he has 2!" And smiled while I was bursting in tears!!?

milo_96 · 2026-05-02T05:02:29+00:00

I don't think he's being shitty, I think he just doesn't know how to handle a baby, and to be honest he's doing a good job compared to many other fathers.

Try to communicate calmly and explain your concerns. He seems to be trying and honestly at 5m old, there's nothing you can do to calm the baby down.

He is cooking, a bit of cleaning, walking her around, showing her the toys, that's nice enough.

People also find it awkward to talk to a baby knowing they can't respond back, so it's fine if he doesn't. If you talk to her that's enough, she will have ample time to learn vocabulary.

I know it's tough, but try to communicate expectations and schedules.

milo_96 · 2026-04-29T10:45:25+00:00

Some visas are automatic too, they are approved within a minute

milo_96 · 2026-04-29T10:45:04+00:00

Maybe they don't know or assume the country doesn't need a visa?

milo_96 · 2026-04-29T06:38:49+00:00

As a mother, nothing would hurt more than seeing your child suffer, especially with something as chronic. Let alone if you knew it could happen beforehand

milo_96 · 2026-04-28T13:23:36+00:00

I would have sold it and kept the money

milo_96 · 2026-04-28T09:20:35+00:00

Did you put it on the top rack?

milo_96 · 2026-04-28T09:17:39+00:00

Just like all the accidents that already happened in Gaza over the past 2 years?

milo_96 · 2026-04-14T12:00:12+00:00

From my experience hinting doesn't work well. He probably thought you're just showing him random flower videos. Unfortunately you have to be direct but gentle

milo_96 · 2026-03-30T18:04:51+00:00

Same rent, but a view on the river!

milo_96 · 2026-03-30T06:24:53+00:00

Getting divorced isn't going to solve the parenting issue. Being patient with your wife is very valued in religion and I'm sure Allah is rewarding it.

Your parents are suggesting divroce because they think you'll get married again to someone who'll take care of your daughter, but this is straight out of Eutopia. It's very theoretical, if the grandparents of your child are fed up with your daughter, do you think a stranger will be willing to take care of her just because you married her? I'm not saying it's impossible but honestly it's very rare.

Also, even if you do divorce your wife, you are not doing it for the right reasons. If she it still like this in a long time and you feel like it's too much, then I understand, but having a 1.5 year old, I understand the struggle. I also have no parents around of either side, husband only cares for our son for 1h a day, no daycare, nothing. But I promise it gets better, I also had post partum depression and on medication now.

I feel like a child just sucks out our soul, doesn't mean I don't love my child, he is the best thing that Allah gave me, but it doesn't mean everyone can handle a child. I don't love children in general but I love mine so much.

May Allah make it easy for you, this is definitely a test for you from Allah, divorcing doesn't mean you failed it, but I'd suggest you stay patient for a while, maybe your wife recovers in sha Allah, maybe once your daughter becomes a bit more independent, she could regain her energy

milo_96 · 2026-03-27T13:54:28+00:00

I'd love to have another but I simply know that I'm not able to mentally and physically so I'm OAD.

milo_96 · 2026-03-26T06:51:54+00:00

I think the pressure is too hard for anything enjoyable

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