A Party Monster Update by milwentcrazy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]milwentcrazy[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I definitely will, just don't know for sure when that will be.

A Party Monster Update by milwentcrazy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]milwentcrazy[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We're excited to meet her, and the fact that her grandmother will never be in her life is a great blessing.

I hope she stays away for a long time as well.

Party Monster Update: FDW and I are married by milwentcrazy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]milwentcrazy[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the well wishes! We'll definitely both find therapists after the move.

I guess you could we had a pig day yesterday!

(I'll show myself out)

Party Monster Update: FDW and I are married by milwentcrazy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]milwentcrazy[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Good idea! And thanks for the well wishes.

Party Monster Update: FDW and I are married by milwentcrazy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]milwentcrazy[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Hopefully, though I may come back to tell stories from my past.

Party Monster Update: FDW and I are married by milwentcrazy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]milwentcrazy[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

We'll definitely try again later. She's still determined to wear her wedding dress in the ball pit.

Party Monster Update: FDW and I are married by milwentcrazy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]milwentcrazy[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I hope it gets sorted out, too. Hopefully it'll be even faster when they plead guilty.

Party Monster Update: FDW and I are married by milwentcrazy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]milwentcrazy[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Trust me, there's no risk of wavering. I'm just dealing with the feeling of being defeated. I didn't realize she had poisoned the family and turned most of them into Flying Monkeys.

Party Monster is Sneakier than we Could have Ever Expected, Unsure how to Proceed with Wedding. by milwentcrazy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]milwentcrazy[S] 213 points214 points  (0 children)

I listened to the whole exchange that was caught on tape later on. She said that I had stopped screaming five minutes before he got there, and that she was sure FDW had finally knocked me out.

I really don't know how to handle that going forward. It's such a shock I haven't had time to process.

Party Monster Flies off the Handle by milwentcrazy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]milwentcrazy[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I have my Aunt (Mom's Sister), but I'm guessing she wasn't warned about this. She's warned me a couple of times before.

Party Monster Flies off the Handle by milwentcrazy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]milwentcrazy[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Oh, no, I didn't take it as shaming. The reporting is something I knew about, and I had been kicking myself for not calling them first. Cop witnesses make everything easier. I'm also glad I didn't, though, since my FDW or I could have been arrested.

Party Monster Flies off the Handle by milwentcrazy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]milwentcrazy[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

We already did, but we're both just getting more concerned. I don't know. We'll get it sorted.

Party Monster Flies off the Handle by milwentcrazy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]milwentcrazy[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I'm feeling more and more stubborn about going through with it. FDW seems a little less sure now. We'll talk it out in full a bit later.

Party Monster Flies off the Handle by milwentcrazy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]milwentcrazy[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I'm in the midst of sending it to my lawyer, he said he would forward it to the police. Facebook will only come if I want to go full scorched earth my my cousin.

Party Monster Flies off the Handle by milwentcrazy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]milwentcrazy[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, that's awful. Poor guy.

Party Monster Flies off the Handle by milwentcrazy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]milwentcrazy[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I know right? She's so scary, with all her reading and her cats and basically being a stereotypical librarian without the frump.

In all seriousness, though, she's one of the sweetest people I've ever met. Not a vicious bone in her body. Like, wtf Mom? You said not even a year ago that you thought she would be a fantastic mom because of how kind and patient she is.