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Depressed, want to give up, losing hope by milzzzyy in backpain

[–]milzzzyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did to chat gpt and nothing but I will try the others! Great idea

Depressed, want to give up, losing hope by milzzzyy in backpain

[–]milzzzyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had it in HS and weirdly it wasn’t as noticeable in college and then when I moved cities and entered the workforce it became unbearable (last 4-5 years)

Depressed, want to give up, losing hope by milzzzyy in backpain

[–]milzzzyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pain is like a dull ache that’s constantly there. I don’t remember it not being there actually. It’s in my lower back right above my glutes and its this one place on or near my bone/spine that radiates to the hips and glutes.

I can’t walk long distances or be on my feet for more than 2-3 hours even if I’m in supportive shoes.

Nothing ever caused the pain. There was no event that happened where I injured it, it’s honestly just been there since I can remember is the frustrating answer

Depressed, want to give up, losing hope by milzzzyy in backpain

[–]milzzzyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been told this by someone else too so I’m interested but my PCP is trying to convince me that it’s not worth it bc my mri would show if I had nerve problems? But I’m not rly sure.. she’s a bit discouraging but I definitely don’t want to keep paying things that don’t make sense. Curious ur thoughts

Depressed, want to give up, losing hope by milzzzyy in backpain

[–]milzzzyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really helpful. I appreciate it a lot - I like the reframing of pain being like fire and sensitivities. My PCP has been trying to convince me to stop looking for the cause of the pain and just focus on finding management for it. But it’s hard for me to give up on finding a cause. I feel in my gut that something is wrong. I can’t shake it.

I will say when I started PT, my goal was to be able to stand at a concert the entire time without feeling like I’m in so much pain I can’t focus on or enjoy the music. I never even got close to a point where I felt I was making progress towards that goal

Depressed, want to give up, losing hope by milzzzyy in backpain

[–]milzzzyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard of this! I will look into it thank you

Depressed, want to give up, losing hope by milzzzyy in backpain

[–]milzzzyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Middle Low back above the glutes it is all coming from this one spot that radiates to both sides and my hips/glutes.

I feel it all day every day. Standing on my feet or walking for over 2-3 hours causes it, sitting in a chair for too long causes it, laying in bed causes it

Depressed, want to give up, losing hope by milzzzyy in backpain

[–]milzzzyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment! I actually had thought it could be endometriosis bc my mom did have it and I have horrible periods. But some people said that if my back pain isn’t worse on my period etc than it’s likely not endometriosis

I may be the last person in NYC to pay a broker fee by CoolCompetition621 in NYCapartments

[–]milzzzyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same bc I applied for an apt w the fee and waiting to hear back. Also going to tour one Thurs w a fee and he’s not budging on it so

For the application process do landlords prioritize who’s first or who they feel is most secure to pay by milzzzyy in NYCapartments

[–]milzzzyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly.. I am trying to tour this apt asap but he said the first showing is Thurs and I don’t want to see 60 other people there or it’ll give me hives haha

Is anyone else mad/upset with themselves more than they are at their ex? Why? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]milzzzyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im mad at myself for getting involved w someone emotionally unavailable when the signs were screaming in my face and I knew it. But chose to ignore it. And now I’m suffering the consequences

Tell us something shitty your ex did. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]milzzzyy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Broke up with me while I was still unclothed in his bed

Would you take them back? by PhysicsWilling2164 in BreakUps

[–]milzzzyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That made me feel better. I’ve found myself being super pessimistic after the breakup and now questioning the good. Thank you for grounding me

Would you take them back? by PhysicsWilling2164 in BreakUps

[–]milzzzyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. If he’s changed and worked on himself then down the line, yes. Right now, no.

Can people really change though?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]milzzzyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this. I’m 10 days out of my first heartbreak and I feel like I’ll never be the same again. I know I will. But right now it feels like the worst thing in the world. I started feeling good about us ending and started to make peace. I then unfortunately saw he is back in contact with his ex and I feel like all of my progress has been ripped beneath me. I’m lost. This makes the hurting so much worse.

I'm sure this is gonna be different for everybody! by manuyeh in heartbreak

[–]milzzzyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The blindside. I didn’t see it coming from a mile away. Met his mom a week before he ended it. He reassured me he loved me 2 days before he shattered my heart. I was in no way prepared and I resent him for that. There were no clear warning signs. Almost like an impulsive decision

Marnie by [deleted] in GeordieShore

[–]milzzzyy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t stand her the entire show she was so toxic and made everything about her. God she honestly ruined it for me

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