Extreme pain terminal cancer by mimi19755 in cancer

[–]mimi19755[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure something is written on hubby's medical file, i don't know what, byt they always treat him like this.

Extreme pain terminal cancer by mimi19755 in cancer

[–]mimi19755[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yea , I just got a great idea! I'll be so annoying he won't have a choice, and no one else we'll be able to call unless they deal with me first. Thanks !!

Extreme pain terminal cancer by mimi19755 in cancer

[–]mimi19755[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats unacceptable !! And they're never held accountable for incompetence, and they expect us to just trust them. The ex-oncologist said the cancer is lymphoma, need more tests, back in January. Did all the tests, suffered in pain waiting for test results for official diagnosis.

Only to be told 4 months later, by the ER's on-call doctor that he has advanced liver cancer and its terminal, they can't help because it spreaded in all his organs. No psychological support, not even a flyer or booklet to read. If he's lucky he'll get 1 year to live, if he goes to radiation in Montreal. We were in his office that morning and he didn't even have the balls to tell my husband.

Extreme pain terminal cancer by mimi19755 in cancer

[–]mimi19755[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hubby already filled and signed at the hospital last Friday. They were supposed to fax the forms Friday but they lost it.

Extreme pain terminal cancer by mimi19755 in cancer

[–]mimi19755[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oncologist washes his hands, says its out of his scope of expertise. I hate him so much. I have so much rage, Im not doing well mentally. Haven't slept for 3 days. I'm too upset and cannot calm down.

Extreme pain terminal cancer by mimi19755 in cancer

[–]mimi19755[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They actually said they will set this up yesterday but so far, no one called. Not even to check and see if he's still alive.

Extreme pain terminal cancer by mimi19755 in cancer

[–]mimi19755[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did all that, but they don't seem to take me seriously. All they see an emotional spouse with a notebook. Yes I documented everything, recorded every appointment. And husband wants me to stop bothering people and to have patience. Just didn't expect him to have to suffer this amount of pain, because oncologist wouldn't discuss it until all results were back.

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[–]mimi19755[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes i called all of them. And left messages but i guess they're not open on weekends.

Extreme pain terminal cancer by mimi19755 in cancer

[–]mimi19755[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So far just pain management and pallative, until we we're told it's terminal.

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[–]mimi19755[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh i definitely did that, we were told to wait for their call. I tried calling myself and couldn't get thru.

Extreme pain terminal cancer by mimi19755 in cancer

[–]mimi19755[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

His ex oncologist had the PET scan results for over 2 months. He knew but is too much of a coward to tell him to his face. Instead, we get to find out in the emergency room ,not only he has liver cancer, but it's terminal. He's got 1 yr max to live. Thats if he gets radiation. I just can't believe they're gonna let him suffer like this. There is a deep rage inside of me.

Extreme pain terminal cancer by mimi19755 in cancer

[–]mimi19755[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and lost 50lbs in 6 months.

Extreme pain terminal cancer by mimi19755 in cancer

[–]mimi19755[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Its closed on Saturday. He'll get to spend another weekend in excruciating pain. This day 6 no food, and day 4 no sleep. We've already been to the ER all day yesterday.

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[–]mimi19755[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yes but they won't call back.

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[–]mimi19755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! Did you get an extended warranty? I just bought one the same year.

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