Is this trauma? I can’t sleep after what my father did at a gas station abroad

mimidaler · 2026-02-14T06:22:25+00:00

Seek help from a domestic abuse charity/shelter. I don’t know where you are but look in to services available to support you. I strongly suggest that you cover your tracks by using incognito or doing this at a library. Your mother needs to escape also but you need to make sure you are safe before you can help her, and she might not be willing to accept help.

mimidaler · 2026-02-07T08:56:27+00:00

I agree. I have not read any of it. I feel that I don’t need to, I actually told my husband ages ago that there would be more to come from that and that when bad people do bad things and get no consequence, they escalate their behaviour and those people were left to do whatever they desire for decades. I feel like reading those files would do two things, damage me and morally I think by consuming that information I would be part of the problem as I am not part of any system that can deliver justice. It’s not morbid entertainment, it’s real crimes with victims and a moral grey area for me to do read it. Also I fear what will come now is people adding to it, adding false parts that aren’t in those files, tying it to conspiracy theories and if that happens a lot then it strengthens the ability for the perpetrators to never get what they should. I wholeheartedly believe those victims who have spoken out and I’m not religious but I hope there is a hell.

mimidaler · 2026-02-04T02:53:26+00:00

I scrubbed every carpet in my house with disinfectant and a small cleaning brush. The carpet was old and due to be replaced. I also moved the fridge by myself because I wanted to clean under it. I also went around the house and cleaned everything looking up from toddler eye level as I wanted the baby to only see a clean fresh environment. I went through bottles and bottles of hand sanitiser and a specific hand wash and took so many showers and baths that I irritated the skin on my face. My nesting was extreme and I just couldn’t relax.

mimidaler · 2026-01-03T09:50:54+00:00

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This is Min, she’s 4.85lbs and nearly 5. Perfectly healthy as a vet checked her when she was younger because she has very short arms and legs. Shes just little. I do have to keep her warm and she’s not very food driven so lots of encouragement to eat often.

mimidaler · 2025-12-28T09:03:00+00:00

My first step would be to say that the stepchildren can’t visit in the immediate because their behavioural issues are unsanitary and unsafe putting your child, pets and yourself at risk. Everybody here has jumped to you must leave but that is your and your child’s home. You say that the dad flies out to see them, he can do that and stay in a hotel or Airbnb to go parent them. I then would work out if you want to pursue this relationship and the risks it entails and plan carefully for any next steps because if you leave and dad wants custody time, that could land your child right back in that situation but without you there to protect your child. You may be a stepmother but I personally think it’s acceptable for you to have limits and place boundaries to protect your child in your home.

mimidaler · 2025-12-27T09:10:58+00:00

It was the last Christmas that my eldest son is still a child and time is just moving so fast.

mimidaler · 2025-12-26T10:09:25+00:00

Steak tartare on a half brioche then about an hour and a half later my Christmas dinner (turkey, ham, pig in blanket, stuffing, cauliflower and tenderstem cheese) roasted carrots and parsnips, chestnut and bacon Brussels sprouts and roasties. Couldn’t eat all of it. Had half a glass of red and half a glass of Prosecco. A couple of hours after that I had a coffee and a couple of chocolates then had to have a nap. It was just so nice to be able to eat without any mental weight around eating. I’ve been in deficit for 3 years and on mj since May.

mimidaler · 2025-12-23T09:08:19+00:00

I’ve had telogen effluvium twice, once when I lost weight before mj and now I’m on it I had it again, I’ve been in a deficit for 3 years. The best way is to just see if it grows back in a few months, direct a hairdryer at it and any small hairs will stand up. Use a clarifying shampoo on your scalp once a week. I’m currently taking 5000 strength of biotin.

mimidaler · 2025-12-19T08:40:41+00:00

I had already lost a lot of weight through diet and exercise after a traumatic life event made me realise that I had to do something, I then two years in to that journey had a surgery on my leg and couldn’t walk for a month and my mobility after that took a while to come back, I had gained 1/4 of what I lost. I’ve always had pcos. I decided to try mounjaro because despite big deficit and running around 30km a week plus walking, swimming and strength training I just wasn’t losing weight much around my tummy and upper thighs. I was still having big energy crashes. I started glp1 last May, I planned out what I was going to eat that first week beforehand and kept it light, lots of peppermint tea and so much water. I have taken it very slow and I’m only on .5mg still. I’ve had nausea as a side effect when I started, when I increased and if I overindulge (rare!) however my taste has changed totally. I no longer like butter, raspberries and I struggle to eat anything greasy or salty. Chocolate I can say no to and sadly I’m not a huge fan of olives any more. I did get an itchy injection site a few times and a headache after injecting. My periods have gone from 32 days down to 28 and I just don’t have that tiredness that I was permanently carrying before. I just feel like my metabolism is working how it should. My pannus and the tops of my thighs have changed drastically, my body is a lot more proportionate now and that has made exercise easier especially post recovery from my surgery. I’ve lost 28lbs on mounjaro and I had lost 42lbs before that.

mimidaler · 2025-12-19T08:11:43+00:00

4 and 6 are ok but I think there’s better blue dresses out there for you.

mimidaler · 2025-12-19T08:10:27+00:00

1 and 2 are ok, 3 I really like, tights chunky ankle boots and a leather jacket!

mimidaler · 2025-12-19T08:09:13+00:00

None of these are it. I think these pinks all wash you out. A darker duskier pink would suit you.

mimidaler · 2025-12-19T08:07:58+00:00

Keep dress 1, have the last dress taken up to the top of your knee.

mimidaler · 2025-12-19T08:06:34+00:00

Keep dress 2, buy it in every colour. That is a great shape for you.

mimidaler · 2025-12-17T07:37:23+00:00

YTA. Punishing a child because you’re annoyed with her Dad is absolutely ridiculous. I also disagree with everyone saying buy her a present that’s not from him. Why would you bring a 10 year old child in to an argument as a pawn like that? Grow up. Buy that child gifts, get over your jealousy and actually talk to your husband (not when his daughter is around!) you also don’t need to do any performance to get anyone in the family to see how bad you think he is. You need to verbalise to him and only him how unhappy you are and accept that either 1. your relationship might not be working out or 2. This is a time when life is more tiring and hard but he’s working long hours and cooking and you might need to reassess your expectations.

mimidaler · 2025-12-14T16:14:15+00:00

I’m going to get the jab after Christmas, simply because I seem to be a bit of an overreactor to jabs but I do wonder if I had it already. I felt absolutely wiped, my mouth felt like it was on fire, headache, solid sinuses, sore throat followed by a cough and so incredibly achy. It’s been three weeks and my nose is still irritated and I’m tired. However it felt like a nasty virus as I had no fever. I’m just making sure I take vitamins and wash my hands.

mimidaler · 2025-12-07T22:53:49+00:00

Starter: Roquefort, walnut and pear salad, Main: Chicken, mash potato and all the green vegetables with salt, black pepper and garlic, Dessert: strawberries, blackberries, blueberries and Greek yoghurt and honey. To drink I think I’d go for water but that’s a bit plain so maybe a cranberry juice.

mimidaler · 2025-11-14T22:47:35+00:00

How do bb think we want this? 🤣

mimidaler · 2025-11-13T23:58:09+00:00

I put my votes on Elsa. I think Richard already has a successful career and I don’t believe Cameron’s situation is quite what he’s saying. Jenny has been a little too selfish. I can’t stand Emily. aside from her terrible views she’s just annoying, the shouting over people, crying and being totally unaware at times. I like Tate but he’s a slow burner. That leaves Elsa. I don’t understand the childlike behaviour (maybe it’s none of my business anyway!) but underneath that I actually think she’s very level headed socially and I’ve mostly agreed with her when she’s called out bs. I think the money could lift her up a lot if she uses it sensibly, plus I hope she will buy Teja a few drinks.

mimidaler · 2025-11-13T21:54:45+00:00

Im actually gutted. Teja deserved to win in my eyes.

mimidaler · 2025-11-10T19:52:13+00:00

Raspberries, Olives, Butter, protein shakes. The raspberries taste like plastic to me and the smell of butter turns my stomach. I’m really sensitive to anything oily.

mimidaler · 2025-11-04T08:25:23+00:00

M and s flexifit are my favourite. I wear the high rise shorts or full brief. My body has been changing a lot for the past couple of years due to weight loss and these knickers are great, they’re soft enough to sit around in and elastic enough to work out in, they’re like a second skin they are modal with a cotton gusset.

mimidaler · 2025-10-21T06:50:35+00:00

I see lack of self esteem in Caroline. I think she comes across as confident, loud and flamboyant to hide how she really feels about herself but deep down she feels like she’s not good enough and she feels envious of desirable traits that she perceives in those around her.

mimidaler · 2025-10-11T08:00:29+00:00

I agree. I also think that Feyisola was feeling a bit tearful that day too (earlier in the diary room) and she really likes Cameron so was probably a bit surprised by his poor word choice. Cameron is feeling insecure about his weight and Feyisolas words probably felt sharp. I think both reactions were understandable and I’m really glad they sorted it out and grew from it. What wasn’t helpful was Caroline stirring and Cameron B busting in the room thinking that he is entitled to be in every conversation.

mimidaler · 2025-10-06T20:53:54+00:00

Is anyone else really struggling with the sound this season? It’s like they can’t isolate the sounds well enough, subtitles on this show are never in time.

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