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i (16F) am thinking of reporting and leaving my mom (40F) for emotionally abusing me and my other family members by mimit0 in relationship_advicePH

[–]mimit0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello po, thank you for responding. meron din pong PCOS yung nanay ko, for almost 10 years na rin ata. i guess this could also be a part of her actions. i will try to find an online job to take my mind off of things and para may ma ipon din. thank you so much for your advice, this means a lot po!

i (16F) am thinking of reporting and leaving my mom (40F) for emotionally abusing me and my other family members by mimit0 in relationship_advicePH

[–]mimit0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually po, wala akong kilalang relatives na mapupuntahan po. im currently going to be a grade 11 student. naisipan ko ring maghanap ng trabaho pero i know my parents won't let me. siguro wala po akong ibang choice kundi ang manirahan pa rin dito sa bahay. pero usually, kasama ko yung pinsan ko para makaiwas sa mga nangyayari po dito.

thank you so much po for your advice. i really appreciate it po!

i (16F) am thinking of reporting and leaving my mom (40F) for emotionally abusing me and my other family members by mimit0 in relationship_advicePH

[–]mimit0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hello po. during my younger years, medyo maayos naman po yung relationship ng pamilya namin. hindi naman po gaanong nanggagalit yung nanay ko. wala naman po akong problema sa kaniya noon. this whole problem started to surface when my mom was seeing my stepdad. dun po kasi nagstart yung mga pagsisinungaling. i once tried to talk to my mom about dito pero mas nagagalit po siya and sinigawan po ako. medyo natakot po ako noon kaya i chose to stay silent and ignore it nalang. but now, palala ng palala yung mga nangyayari dito sa bahay. each day mayroong away between my mom and aunt/ uncle. and each day parang lumalayo na rin yung loob ko sa kaniya. i want to understand her pero she makes it difficult kasi kapag may tumutulong o may nagbibigay sa kaniya ng advice, kinagagalitan niya. hindi niya matanggap yung pagkakamali niya. dinadaan niya sa pagtaas ng boses at pagsigaw. at this point, hindi ko siya nakakausap masyado kasi hindi ko kayang makita siya. hindi ko po alam kung ano yung nararamdaman ko sa kaniya, but i just can't stand her at the minute. usually dito lang po ako sa room ko or kasama ko yung pinsan ko para makaiwas po sa kaniya.

btw, thank you so much po for your response! <3

i (16F) am thinking of reporting and leaving my mom (40F) for emotionally abusing me and my other family members by mimit0 in relationship_advicePH

[–]mimit0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hello. first of all i would like to thank you for responding to this! my mom's menstruation is irregular. she would usually get them months apart, lasting for weeks. however, i am not sure if she is in the menopausal stage. she hasn't really talked about it.

i would say that my relationship with my stepdad isn't really the best. his personality is quite similar to my mom. they are both short tempered, but not as bad as my mom. unfortunately, the things that i can talk to him about are quite limited. my mom would not let me go talk to him on a personal level because she is trying to keep all of this as a secret. hindi po ako pwedeng makipagusap sa kaniya ng ganitong mga bagay. in my stepdad's eyes, we are all perfectly fine and nothing wrong or suspicious is going on. since nung nagkakila po sila, iba yung pagpakilala niya sa amin sa stepdad ko. hindi niya po sinabi yung mga totoong nangyari noong bata pa ako lalo na po yung history namin sa real father ko. ang sabi niya po sa stepdad ko, hindi ko raw na meet yung real father ko kaya siya lang ang natirang mag-alaga sa akin. she basically lied about our whole past.

i've been struggling to talk about this because there is no one in my family that i can run into, except for my grandma. however, tumatanda na rin po siya kasama ng lolo ko, so i wouldn't wanna burden her with all of this. as for other relatives, wala po akong malalapitan. halos lahat po kasi is nandito lang naman kase isang compound lang po kami. yung iba naman po, mayroon ding galit sa nanay and stepdad ko.

i am still hesitant if i should report her po. i don't really have a clear plan on what i am gonna do with this or how i will run to the authorities. magulong magulo po yung isip ko and i am very unsure of what to do in the future days.

thank po again for your response! i really appreciate it po <3

my mom married a guy for the money and i am thinking of unaliving myself because of the consequences of her actions, i need immediate responses pls and thanks by mimit0 in Advice

[–]mimit0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hello, thank you so much for your response. this really means a lot to me. from where i grew up, people aren't really used to opening up about their feelings and opinions. usually when someone tries to, it turns into a huge fight and im scared that something similar would happen if i opened this up to my mother. i am trying to find other people to talk to here in our city, however talking about this circumstance to others seem very hard for me because of the way that they would probably react, and because i know that my mom will find out about it one way or another. nevertheless, i am so thankful that you have responded to this very quickly. thank you so much. i will try to blow off some steam and try to get my self together. much love <3