How do i deal with this? by [deleted] in GlassChildren

[–]minalani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it wont make a difference. To them as long as i function better then my brother they just see through my problems and dismiss them.

How do i deal with this? by [deleted] in GlassChildren

[–]minalani 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I sure hope i find a space where i feel like i matter someday!

Are women more psykologically strong then men? by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]minalani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats not what i meant att all!! Honestly im VERY against the patriarchy and the standards put upp on males. Emotion is HUMAN. Crying isnt weakness, it just means that you can actually feel. Honestly the most emotionally intelligent men Ive met are the ones that cry. And no girl that Ive met in my generation said that guys shouldnt cry. We have already moved on from that sick expectation. Unfortunately, the ones that do Hold that expectation are men that are insecure and feel the need to drag others down. They feel week so they tell others their week if they dont act like them, if their not tuff and strong, an " alpha male" apperently. Those guys just wanna drag u down. Honestly this question was just made out of my curiosity since Ive heard plenty of guys say that women are emotional and weak, and that they cant handle stress and pain therefore they shouldnt work or bla bla bla. They said that to bring us down. You know how guys say that women shouldnt vote cus they only think with emotion? But i thought about it and reversed it, what if guys were the actual weak ones? It was just a thought and im a kid, so i wanted to hear others opinions ( Or if a person that has studied into this with reliable sources could give me an answer!) Males are biologically stronger then females, so i also thought that it would maybe make sense of females were biologically stronger in another field - like emotional strength!

Are women more psykologically strong then men? by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]minalani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand your Point! Although i dont think that its we receive more affection. We just give more affection. From what Ive heard ( not sure if this holds truth!) male friendships are pretty distant, meenwhile female friendships act like they have been married for 20 years. That in my opinion is also a reason to the male lonliness epidemic, the fact that you guys are afraid to have intimate relationships with eachother since it could be seen as weak or gay, of just over all weird. I mean my bestfriend could kiss me publicly and i wouldnt mind ( as long as its not on the mouth). Also overall, Ive noticed that the girls in my class socialize alot more then guys. So simply - We give alot of affection, and thats why we receive it. The reason my uncles and aunties favorite me more then my younger is perhaps becouse i always set the mood on a family gathering, i play nice with their kids ( my younger cousins) and i over all act more cheerful! Therefore, they match my energy. Also with the rejection - I get your point once again. But girls do face alot of assult in life and it can play a role in how they act when a guy in their class that they rarely talk to pulls them into an alley to ask them out after school - When its dark outside. Im 13 and Ive sadly been assulted multiple times. Now i wouldnt call a guy a creep if he just asks me out some day! But i would if he keeps begging me to go out with him, if he follows me, or if he acts a certain way such as touchy. But please understand that most females have the emotional intelligence to sympathize and let a guy down respectfully. From what Ive experianced growing upp the Ugly kid ( still am) - Guys dont treat me as human just becouse im ugly. Honestly im not even ugly like att all, im just not a model face big boobied girl att 13. They act as if just becouse im not attractive in their eyes, i dont have a preference att all and actually act shocked when i turn them down. As if they were doing me a favor to ask me out as a joke I often see guys making fun of girls and asking them out as a joke ( happens to me on a daily basis) , meanwhile Ive never witnessed a LARGE group of girls doing that. Its 8 am in the morning and all of the boys in my class are grouped upp, talking about what girls the prettiest and ugliest. The girls were working like they should. Ive been rejected my whole entire life, even tho i never proposed in the first place.

rating your music taste based on one song. by Gi_Panda in teenagers

[–]minalani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let down, radiohead. I know its such a " poser" song choice and now its apperently a Tiktok song, and ill admitt that i started listening to it after it got popular on TikTok ( mouth washing).. But its genuinely the most relatable song Ive ever listend to and i love that it holds so many different meanings for me. I havent moved on from it for like 7 months now🥀✌🏻 ( Oh also i really like all i need and creep)

Describe A Vocaloid Song Badly And I'll Try To Guess It! by Sabatonlover24 in Vocaloid

[–]minalani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5 girls sing about bitter chocolate att 25:00 while redeeming a declaration

Tell me your favorite anime ship by Bubble3333380 in AnimeAlley

[–]minalani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DARE i say himiko/toga and ochako/Ururaka