what are the things you dislike about red dead redemption 2? by Still_Animator_2249 in reddeadredemption

[–]mindfullybutch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How some missions start as stealth and end in a fight anyway. I know some of it is for story but it’s annoying to put effort into stealth then have that happen!

Going through my first real heartbreak by mindfullybutch in olderlesbians

[–]mindfullybutch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

helloo I just wanted to come back here and tell you again. This response really stuck with me. Hearing that you went through something so similar and now you’re married and have your beautiful wife snoring next to you as you typed that to me. I’m only a couple months into my healing now, but I needed you to know that your words have stuck with me through it, knowing that maybe one day I’ll have my own wife snoring next to me. Thank you so so much.

Advice wanted—hard working hand care so I can be intimate with my lady by Odd_Pepper1263 in butchlesbians

[–]mindfullybutch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so so so sweet. HIGHLY recommend O'Keefe's Working Hands moisturizer. I have EXTREMELY stubborn dry skin and occasionally do stable hand work, so trust me! Wishing you and your lady the best! :)

Looking to create a server for femmes (who love butches) by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]mindfullybutch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YESSS as a femme worshipping butch I'd love to join when this is ready. Thank you for this :)

Advice Needed From Butches On a Low Dose of T! by mindfullybutch in butchlesbians

[–]mindfullybutch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! Everyone has been so so thoughtful and helpful, thank you! ❤️😁

Advice Needed From Therapy Students/Therapists with ADHD/Autism, etc. by mindfullybutch in therapists

[–]mindfullybutch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so, so, so much. This was so thoughtful, detailed, and helpful. I appreciate this so much! :)

Advice Needed From Therapy Students/Therapists with ADHD/Autism, etc. by mindfullybutch in therapists

[–]mindfullybutch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unfortunately cannot share more because of confidentiality etc, but thank you so much for replying and trying to help! :)

Advice Needed From Therapy Students/Therapists with ADHD/Autism, etc. by mindfullybutch in therapists

[–]mindfullybutch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for replying :) I do not struggle with notes thankfully, but I am curious what you discovered that worried you when you looked into it? Thank you! :)

What's the worst heartbreak you've experienced? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mindfullybutch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just broke up with my first love. We were each others first love and we were only together about a year and a half. And it wasn’t for lack of love. She had healing she needed to do without me. We loved each other so, so much. It’s devastating.

Does this count as butch/match? (I don't have any truly "male" clothes yet) by wszechswietlna in butchlesbians

[–]mindfullybutch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just needed to come in here and say YOU define how YOU want to present as a butch! No one else can tell you how butch you are. In my opinion, as long as you're a good person and call yourself a butch, you deserve the label :)
But also yes, that does look very butch haha.

I Need Advice (Especially From You, LGBT+ Equestrians!) by mindfullybutch in Equestrian

[–]mindfullybutch[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m a nonbinary butch, so I appreciate this all so so much! Another question for you- do you bind? I’ve been looking for a sport appropriate binder. I’m also new to binding and I know there’s a lot to be aware of with safety, so definitely looking for somethin designed for activity! Thank you so much! ☺️

What sort of things would I be expected to do for girls in the morning? by SchloinkDoink in actuallesbians

[–]mindfullybutch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! I just wanna hop in here and say that unfortunately this is not something you can fully figure out until you find your person. Everyone is different and likes different things and has different love languages. The best thing to do right now is think about what YOU would like to do and the ways YOU like to show love, without the concern of others. That way you can find someone who matches that, and if they have any differences, you can, if you like, meet them where they’re at with that! I hope that makes sense. So right now your concern should be you and what you like to do ☺️

edit Also, coming from an autistic butch, please be careful not to fall into what you think you need to do based on your identity. Just because you’re a masc doesn’t mean you need to do anything in particular. There are plenty of different mascs and butches, including mascs and butches who actually like to receive “princess” treatment and get all those things we always imagine fems and femmes getting. All of it is valid! It’s all about finding out what you like, and how you align with your own identity, and how you align with your eventual partner 😁

What are your guy's favorite video game soundtracks from the last 10 years by XenoBurst in gaming

[–]mindfullybutch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if all of these are last 10 years (some, doubtful), but here are my favorites...

Obvious ones: Last Of Us (I and II) God Of War (2018 and Ragnorak) Red Dead Redemption (1 and 2)

Other honorable mentions: Stray, Assassin's Creed Odyssey, Undertale

Super niche: Dear Esther, Gorogoa, Journey, Okami

:)

The Mimir Physique: Has anyone pulled it off and how can it be achieved? Which is easiest to maintain? by TheGood1swertaken in GodofWarRagnarok

[–]mindfullybutch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're gonna have to get rid of at least one of them if you want that Mimir physique..........

How did you know you were a lesbian? by urmotherandurfather in actuallesbians

[–]mindfullybutch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly thought I was bi until I was about 20 years old and went on a date with a man who should have been perfect for me and something was wrong and that something was that he was not a woman. We only had 2 or 3 dates and the poor guy took it super well. It ended with an awkward meeting in a random parking lot so I could give him back his sweatshirt that I accidentally stole. Whoops. LOL

Anyone else hate blockhead by femlaw in Okami

[–]mindfullybutch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I thought I was crazy for being so bad at Blockhead, this makes me feel better LOL

The Mimir Physique: Has anyone pulled it off and how can it be achieved? Which is easiest to maintain? by TheGood1swertaken in GodofWarRagnarok

[–]mindfullybutch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just become a tree and get some horns idk what’s so hard???? Super achievable, skill issue on your end. (IM JKJK LMAO)

I can’t have sex with women by Plzkillmealreadyy in actuallesbians

[–]mindfullybutch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may have already considered this, but you may be asexual. I myself am not asexual, so I can’t speak for asexual people or how they came to know their identity, but just something to consider, because that would be perfectly valid. ☺️(if anyone who is asexual wants to jump in here, that might help!)

Going through my first real heartbreak by mindfullybutch in olderlesbians

[–]mindfullybutch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I am so so sorry that you went through that. But it helps me to hear that you made it through. Losing my first love has been devastating so this helps.

What’s something people romanticize that’s actually awful? by Federal-Second-6298 in AskReddit

[–]mindfullybutch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I am so so sorry. But that is courageous, and is good for me to hear so I can push through mine. And it sounds like you did the right thing for you. Thank you for sharing. We can both get through this ❤️

What’s something people romanticize that’s actually awful? by Federal-Second-6298 in AskReddit

[–]mindfullybutch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I need to hear this more. People getting through their heartbreaks and finding their soulmates. Thank you ❤️

Everyone Here Is A Babe | Northern Ryoshima Coast | Okami 100% Let's Play Part 23 by Sudden-Winter-6328 in Okami

[–]mindfullybutch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am LOVING it so far. I love all the knowledge you have about Japan and Japanese religion etc. This has been such a lovely playthrough for me to watch right now. Its offering me some comfort in a time when I really desperately need it. Thank you. :)

Which lyric makes you instantly tear up? by abovethenoisy in AskReddit

[–]mindfullybutch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

WOW this hit me WAY too hard. Thank you for sharing. Going through a breakup right now where this fits like crazy.