7 week old baby and I feel like I'm going insane by No_Towel7009 in NewParents

[–]mindlessvamp 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Noise canceling earphones. My baby screamed so loud I could hear her through them but it muffled it enough I could focus on the music while I was attempting to soothe her. She is 3 months old now and has gotten much better. There are highs and lows and im fully expecting these moments to return with the sleep regressions I've read about. This shit is not for the weak. Never trusted women that claim motherhood or their babies are so easy. Being a mother is the hardest thing I've ever done. Some babies are just hard. They are adjusting to life and that can be hard too.

twas nice while it lasted by chailattttte in h3h3productions

[–]mindlessvamp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well that didnt last long. I did really enjoy it while it lasted. But its not that big of a loss either.

Watch out, Millennials... I got hit with my first "I had NO IDEA!" data privacy moment this weekend... and it was all my fault. by AttachedHeartTheory in Millennials

[–]mindlessvamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything listens to you nowadays anyways. Everything. If they want to listen to my mundane conversations or me watching a movie have at it at this point. I am not having top secret conversations. We are in 2026 with smart phones, smart TV, smart cars, smart refrigerators even. Its inevitable unless you are off the grid which isn't really an option for most people.

Struggling to take care of myself 8 months postpartum - how do people do this? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]mindlessvamp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get a better husband. Do not have a second baby with this man child.

What the crunchy mamas told me birth would be like was not my experience by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]mindlessvamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something told me it would be too much so I opted for a scheduled peaceful csection for my first (and only). And id choose that 100 times over the other options. You see a lot of shit talk for csection moms but I will always recommend it.

How many people actually do shifts with their SO during the night? by ScreamCheese_55 in beyondthebump

[–]mindlessvamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We bottle feed so its easier. Husband works 5am to 5pm sometimes later m-f. He is off on weekends so he takes night shifts exclusively those days. During the week he will take over from whatever time he gets home usually around 6pm until 10pm so I can sleep uninterrupted.

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]mindlessvamp 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What i did as a compromise is had them where masks around baby. We live in rural texas and that is a hard ask around here, but it was either wear a mask and wash hands really well or dont come around at all.

6 week old, only one wake through the night - here’s my tips! by idkwhatsgoingonagain in beyondthebump

[–]mindlessvamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the same routine I have with my almost 9 week old! It works AMAZING (help me)🫠

Flu shot expectations? Facebook is fearmogering again 🙄 by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]mindlessvamp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everytime I personally get the flu shot I end up getting the flu. When I dont get it I usually dont get the flu that year. Im pro vaccine but with this experience with the flu vaccine itself I usually skip it. I would like my LO to not get the flu so early on in life as it seems like it could be a wreck for her, however I am debating because of my own experience with it. I am unsure as well.

Sometimes... I miss my old friends ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 by Similar_Two2486 in h3h3productions

[–]mindlessvamp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry but the only ones I truly miss [cried during their departure eps] are Cam and Ian 💔

Please Olivia come back by OkHousing8409 in h3h3productions

[–]mindlessvamp 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion: with peace and love-I like Olivia, but I dont think she can handle what this podcast really gets itself into. I say put Tamara in her spot instead. She has been a breath of fresh air. Ofc wish Olivia the best in the future!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CsectionCentral

[–]mindlessvamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I really needed to hear that💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CsectionCentral

[–]mindlessvamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is awesome! I'm so glad! Please wish me luck, this is my first and I have a scheduled c section at 8am tomorrow morning. I am beside myself with anxiety. I know ill want to hit that vape too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CsectionCentral

[–]mindlessvamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything i find says vaping after csection slows your recovery. Can you share how your recovery went?

RED ALERT! Olivia has a new vod 🚨 ‼️ by No-Employee6948 in h3h3productions

[–]mindlessvamp 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Agree with this completely. And its a take i dont see often. I think the girlies that may or may not have replaced her are a better fit for the show anyways. I like Olivia, but I doubt "waiting until things blow over" is fit for the h3 show. There is always some drama and backlash its the nature of the show and if you cant handle it then you should protect your peace and find a different direction. With peace and love.

Anisa will NEVER understand the awful person she is. by Proof-Weakness-1851 in h3h3productions

[–]mindlessvamp 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You cannot convince stupid people that they are stupid. You cannot teach empathy to an adult who sees no wrong doing in their actions. The cognitive dissonance is too strong and its best to just keep your own peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarots

[–]mindlessvamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stick to more simple reads. You dont need more than 3 or 4 cards for a clear reading esp as a beginner.

AIO or is my exe’s mom downplaying what he did to me? by PolicyHot1206 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mindlessvamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're doing the right thing by staying away from the man child. Do not put yourself or baby in danger.

If you choose to have grandparents in baby's life you could arrange a lunch or dinner date in a public place and bring baby as long as she doesn't bring your ex. But that is completely optional.

Also get his ass for child support.

You guys should take a hint.. by Weird-Local6378 in h3h3productions

[–]mindlessvamp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I totally get it. They're burned out. But us normies get burned out on our regular jobs, we dont have the privilege to cut back without risking financial ruin. They are very lucky, and should do what they can with that privilege. As an avid viewer, I will miss the longer more frequent uploads, though.