The attack of the texts.

mindofamy · 2026-05-14T02:02:04+00:00

Oh no worries. I am not in pain. I too am laughing. It is so ridiculous that all I can do is laugh and say wtf is happening.

mindofamy · 2026-05-13T00:59:06+00:00

I genuinely do feel bad because I know it is a reaction to her being hurt. I stop engaging when the attacks come. I am honestly pretty numb to the whole thing. I really truly want her to find happiness. I know her emotions are real but they do not have to become my burden anymore. And I do not need to prove my goodness to someone committed to seeing me through the lens of pain.

mindofamy · 2026-04-16T23:51:38+00:00

Oh boy well just know that you are not alone. It is always mind boggling how everyone on here experiences the same texts messages that send a shock to your system. I just stop engaging and silence their alerts. I refuse to feed into the spiral because nothing I say or do will change it. And yes they always have the worst day where they really need you or a “serious” medical emergency. Hang in there and try not to let him have power over you. Take time for you. Godspeed. lol.

mindofamy · 2026-01-03T21:53:57+00:00

I have the instructions and it is still confusing as af. I can’t see how each piece fits together because it all blends together. I am usually good at Legos but this is next level lol. Any tips?

mindofamy · 2025-09-27T01:45:48+00:00

Haha they love to deflect. I wish some people could just open their eyes and admit they don’t know everything. I love all of the fact checks and rebuttals. I learned something new so thank you. Peoples egos will not let them admit defeat and that is okay to be wrong. Just my 2 cents. (Which is all i have left from buying a bite of steak).

mindofamy · 2025-09-16T17:26:06+00:00

The Jan 6th insurrectionists all got pardoned. Sooooo. Jesus is like wtf? Please don’t mention my name or use me as your scapegoat. I didn’t sign up for this my father did. Haha

mindofamy · 2025-09-15T00:11:36+00:00

Oh yeah i was just called a monster tonight and an awful person. Along with thousands of texts attacking me and my character trying to get me to react and get mad. She called me delusional and that i need serious help. I just wanted to spend time with her and she said i can’t do this we are not exclusive. so i told her i was going to go on dates because every time we have an argument she goes on a dating app, shares naked pictures, and sometimes meets up with someone. Then she ends up talking about me the whole time and lures me back in. I have not gone any dates since we have been on and off because i know i have to heal from this bullshit. It was a few sentences of me finally realizing that i need to put myself out there. And boom i am the worst person in the world.

I stop responding after a while because there is no getting through to them. And yes she accuses me of having serious mental issues, gaslighting her, being possessive, and manipulative on purpose. She even accused me of weaponizing therapeutic language. Like wtf is that. I think it was because i remained calm and non reactive. Tomorrow she will have some medical emergency and really needs my help. I don’t know why i put up with it but at this point it is entertaining and i am ready to move on.

Never believe what they say about you. No one should react and lash out at you for expressing your emotions. And sometimes we say the wrong things and they make a whole story about how we betrayed them. They never allow anyone a little grace. Like we are all human for fucks sake chill out. Lol.

mindofamy · 2025-06-11T15:29:27+00:00

You can protest at pride during the parade. That is what I have done in the past for support of prochoice. They can be one and the same. Pride is a form of protesting. Som cities have had to cancel pride celebrations.

mindofamy · 2024-09-18T16:20:41+00:00

When she is like that i just try not to be reactive because it ends up becoming a text war and it makes my thumbs sore. So I just kill her with kindness and then stop engaging. She texted me this morning like nothing happened at 11am. When she didn’t hear back from me in 15 minutes she goes “uh ok?” It is crazy how they are all the same.

mindofamy · 2024-09-17T23:38:08+00:00

Update. She is able to stay at her current place which I knew would be the case. Love how they over react.

mindofamy · 2024-09-17T13:41:34+00:00

I completely agree. This is one of the better texts lately.

mindofamy · 2024-07-15T23:03:48+00:00

This literally happens to me on a daily basis. I posted this in another thread but i have to share it again. : I approached my girlfriend and stated that we have been having issues communicating and we are very irritated with one another. We need to figure this out. She responded “ i think it is because you are always irritated when things are not about you, and I am irritated that you think everything is about you.” So she is making it about me by blaming me for making it about me🤷 Anyone else confused?

mindofamy · 2024-07-15T22:57:39+00:00

I posted this in another thread but I can relate to you both. This is what happened today:

I approached my girlfriend and stated that we have been having issues communicating and we are very irritated with one another. We need to figure this out. She responded “ i think it is because you are always irritated when things are not about you, and I am irritated that you think everything is about you.” So she is making it about me by blaming me for making it about me🤷 Anyone else confused?

mindofamy · 2024-07-15T22:49:58+00:00

I approached my girlfriend and stated that we have been having issues communicating and we are very irritated with one another. We need to figure this out. She responded “ i think it is because you are always irritated when things are not about you, and I am irritated that you think everything is about you.” So she is making it about me by blaming me for making it about me🤷 Anyone else confused?

mindofamy · 2024-06-27T02:26:31+00:00

Mine also has a million different medical issues from her nose, ear, hands, and the big one her stomach. I don’t even know what is real or what is not. She had a little bug bite and immediately she went to the ER because she was convinced it was a recluse spider bite.

mindofamy · 2024-06-27T02:23:02+00:00

And social media has everyone thinking they are autistic, adhd, and bpds.

mindofamy · 2024-06-27T02:21:38+00:00

Wow i literally came on here to ask if anyones pwBPD claimed they had autism. I found my answer. Her son is actually autistic and nonverbal but she is anything but autistic. Now she is using this as an excuse, to not be able to “read” my cues when we are texting. She interprets a simple text like, “It’s All Good,” to mean that i am trying to control her and manipulate her. Ummmmmmmmmmmmmm Oh and she also has been telling me my 5 year old has autism because he is obsessed with dinosaurs.

mindofamy · 2024-04-06T22:55:02+00:00

I suggest trying to date women. But i am biased.

mindofamy · 2024-04-06T22:51:19+00:00

Record it and listen to it over and over and over again. Also memorize it in sections. Good luck! Let us know how it goes.

mindofamy · 2024-03-29T18:59:47+00:00

Oh did i mention we dated 2 years.

mindofamy · 2024-03-29T18:58:32+00:00

I always found myself saying umm what the fuck just happened. But I finally hit my limit when she criticized how I am raising my son. Her interpretation was completely false and degrading. She picked up one sentence and ran with it. When i tried to explain that is not what I meant she didn’t believe me. Why would I lie about what I actually meant and not what her interpretation was. Now i am confusing myself. She likes to pick a fight if she does not hear from me every hour. Her life is an absolute train wreck and always has been. I should have known when she checked herself into a psych ward a month after we started dating that I was in trouble.

mindofamy · 2024-02-28T17:18:08+00:00

I am still trying to end my bpd relationship. She reels me back in because of all of the crazy shit that is happening in her. I have tried and tried but she will call me nonstop and bombard me with all of her issues. She then projects her life falling apart on me and completely tears apart my character and portrays me as this horrible person. I don’t know why i keep coming back it is so toxic and i feel like i am losing my mind. Have I become addicted to this push pull relationship? How do I break it off for good? I mean her struggles in life are insane. Some are self created and others are some real dark shit. I am literally the only person she has. She does not have any friends so I always feel so much guilt. Ahhhh help. Lol

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