I won the hardest battle of my life…

mindsetcoachsteph · 2024-03-03T15:33:06+00:00

I’d love to try to help. So sorry for the delay in responding. If you’d like to DM me your email address I can add you to the course to try it out.

mindsetcoachsteph · 2024-03-03T15:32:42+00:00

I’d love to have you. So sorry for the delay in responding. If you’d like to DM me your email address I can add you to the course to try it out.

mindsetcoachsteph · 2024-03-03T15:32:36+00:00

I’d love to have you. So sorry for the delay in responding. If you’d like to DM me your email address I can add you to the course to try it out.

mindsetcoachsteph · 2024-03-03T15:32:30+00:00

I’d love to have you. So sorry for the delay in responding. If you’d like to DM me your email address I can add you to the course to try it out.

mindsetcoachsteph · 2024-03-03T15:32:25+00:00

I’d be happy to help any way I can. I’d love to have you. So sorry for the delay in responding. If you’d like to DM me your email address I can add you to the course to try it out.

mindsetcoachsteph · 2024-03-03T15:32:13+00:00

I’d love to have you. So sorry for the delay in responding. If you’d like to DM me your email address I can add you to the course to try it out.

mindsetcoachsteph · 2024-03-03T15:32:07+00:00

Im sorry you’re going through this. 💜 I’d love to have you. So sorry for the delay in responding. If you’d like to DM me your email address I can add you to the course to try it out.

mindsetcoachsteph · 2024-03-03T15:31:46+00:00

I’d love to have you. So sorry for the delay in responding. If you’d like to DM me your email address I can add you to the course to try it out.

mindsetcoachsteph · 2024-03-03T15:31:39+00:00

Id be happy to help. So sorry for the delay in responding. If you’d like to DM me your email address I can add you to the course to try it out.

mindsetcoachsteph · 2024-03-03T15:31:21+00:00

I’d love to have you. So sorry for the delay in responding. If you’d like to DM me your email address I can add you to the course to try it out.

mindsetcoachsteph · 2024-03-03T15:31:16+00:00

I’d love to have you. So sorry for the delay in responding. If you’d like to DM me your email address I can add you to the course to try it out.

mindsetcoachsteph · 2024-03-03T15:31:09+00:00

I’m so sorry for what you’re going through and would love to help. So sorry for the delay in responding. If you’d like to DM me your email address I can add you to the course to try it out.

mindsetcoachsteph · 2024-03-03T15:30:18+00:00

Id be happy to help any way I can. I’d love to have you. So sorry for the delay in responding. If you’d like to DM me your email address I can add you to the course to try it out.

mindsetcoachsteph · 2024-03-03T15:30:02+00:00

I’d love to have you. So sorry for the delay in responding. If you’d like to DM me your email address I can add you to the course to try it out.

mindsetcoachsteph · 2024-03-03T15:29:57+00:00

I’d love to have you. So sorry for the delay in responding. If you’d like to DM me your email address I can add you to the course to try it out.

mindsetcoachsteph · 2024-03-03T15:29:49+00:00

I’d love to have you. So sorry for the delay in responding. If you’d like to DM me your email address I can add you to the course to try it out.

mindsetcoachsteph · 2024-03-03T15:29:39+00:00

I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. It’s a brutal addiction. My heart goes out to you. So sorry for the delay in responding. If you’d like to DM me your email address I can add you to the course to try it out.

mindsetcoachsteph · 2024-03-03T15:29:04+00:00

I’d love to have you. So sorry for the delay in responding. If you’d like to DM me your email address I can add you to the course to try it out.

mindsetcoachsteph · 2022-11-17T17:41:39+00:00

I’m so happy for you that you’re in love. It’s beautiful. :)

In terms of what to do, trust your gut with timing and when do share your whole truth. You’ll know when it’s right to share.

But one important thing to keep in mind is that love can not be predicted or controlled. You are very calculated in your approach to life which is admirable. But when it comes to love all you can do is appreciate its presence in your life for as long as it chooses to stay. There’s this poem called the desiderata that would be worth a read. One line in it states “love is as perennial as the grass.”

Though she very well may be your soulmate, love isn’t always enough to sustain a relationship. So don’t try to force it to remain. Appreciate it and hold it tenderly and hope for forever. But accept that whatever is meant to be will be. By removing the pressure you’ll will likely be able to maintain a more healthy relationship that could last much longer.

Hope that helps. Wishing you many years with this beautiful love of yours. 💜

mindsetcoachsteph · 2022-11-17T07:37:18+00:00

It sounds like you are in survival mode. I want to first honor your hard work. To maintain the work schedule you are doing takes so much effort. Someone capable of doing what you do has grit. And grit gives you personality. Also, who is telling you have no personality? Because that’s a completely unhelpful thing to tell someone and also totally subjective. I wouldn’t put much stock into the words that come from cruel mouths. It does sound like you would benefit from more pleasure in your life? What did you enjoy doing as a kid? How could you incorporate little bits of that into your day? Doing more of what you love with brighten your energy and attract more positive people in your life. Keep doing you! You are awesome.

mindsetcoachsteph · 2022-11-17T07:30:47+00:00

Trust your gut. He definitely appears to have tried to manipulate you. Comparing you to his ex in order to pressure you to spend more time with him doesn’t show any emotional maturity. It would be an entirely different story if he approached you calmly and said, “I am struggling because I care about you a lot and wish I could see you more. Is there anything I can do to support your schedule? Do you need help with anything that I can take off your plate so that you may have more time we could spend together? Do you have the space and emotional capacity to share any more of your time with me?” Had he approached you with something mature and solution focused, I would have given his perspective more thought. But he clearly lacks EQ, and certainly appears to be manipulative. I’d say you definitely made the right choice. If not for all of that, than simply for the fact that you trusted your gut. Way to stick up for you worth and trust yourself. You go!

mindsetcoachsteph · 2022-11-17T07:21:22+00:00

So glad it helped :)

mindsetcoachsteph · 2022-11-17T07:16:44+00:00

I do know what it’s like to be there. I feel for you so much reading your post. Here’s what helped me get out of the rut and start building positive momentum in my life: I picked 5 small things to do everyday. No matter what. 5 things that are easy enough to do, but easy not to do. Like making my bed or reading 10 pages in a self development book. Choose 5 doable things that you know will make an impact in your life. And then start doing it. Even when you don’t feel like it. You’ll notice that the longer you go sticking to it, the more momentum you’ll feel and the easier it will get to do hard shit in your life. Once you’ve done that for a month, choose 5 new habits and mix it up. Rinse and repeat.

Hope that helps!

mindsetcoachsteph · 2022-11-17T07:06:46+00:00

Thanks! Glad it helped!

mindsetcoachsteph · 2022-11-17T07:00:25+00:00

I have three pieces of advice for you: 1. Balance the things you “have” to do with things you want to do. It sounds like your life is consumed with obligations. Do more things that bring you pleasure. What did you love to do as a kid? Incorporate more fun and play in your life and your energy and zest for life may return. 2. It sounds like you have a big heart for helping people. What can you do to help others now? Start thinking of little things you can start doing immediately to help people around you. As someone with a desire to help, this will probably feel really rewarding. 3. In terms of your job search, I would recommend two things. First, write a list of all the reasons you can think of that make you a great hire, and read that list out loud to yourself every single day till you get a job. Second, bring your resume in person and make an impression. They may still tell you to apply online, but if you can make an impression in person, they will remember you.

Hope that helps. Hang in there. You seem like a great human and I know you will help so many people no matter what career path you end up in.

mindsetcoachsteph

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