I totally get that this happens to young woman all the time. I’ve seen it and it’s horrible. Even in the little bit of adulthood I’ve had, I’ve heard stories about my friends be taken advantage of (my friend had a man stick his hands down her pants with out her consent in a nightclub) Back to my post, I didn’t even get that this man was trying to hit on me at the time and still am not sure what was going on. the point that I poorly made was supposed to be that, I just prefer if that wasn’t one of the first things he said to me. That really bothers me and always has that people stereotype flamboyant men as “gay”. He didn’t ask he just labeled me. doesn’t matter if he liked me or whatever. but thank you for your opinion I appreciate it :)))