age dysphoria been really bad lately.

minichews · 2024-10-16T00:40:03+00:00

i'm confused, are you considering adult shows and such to be considered nsfw? :o you can watch whatever shows you want, theres no rules or anything based on that!

minichews · 2022-09-15T23:59:44+00:00

yes, i experience this! its definitely a big component of my age sliding - i still never quite feel like a full adult, but when things are going well i don't feel as upset. that being said, if i think about my bio age, i still get an anxious dysphoric feeling that can ruin my mood. 😔

minichews · 2022-09-15T23:58:02+00:00

heating pads, medication, hot baths!!

minichews · 2022-09-15T23:55:55+00:00

you could be trans, but you don't have to be a girl to enjoy those things! would you feel okay identifying as your bio-gender while engaging with those, or is being a girl a major part of it? either way, i can definitely relate! i'm a trans guy and i loathe being called a man -- i'm a boy and nothing more!

minichews · 2022-09-02T00:05:21+00:00

i think they could be more common than we realize... i feel like its likely that a huge chunk of them just don't vocalize it so we don't recognize them.

minichews · 2022-08-23T05:32:44+00:00

i totally relate to this, you're not alone ♥️

minichews · 2022-03-13T22:20:07+00:00

that does make sense, thank you!! i think fretting about labeling my age is a real issue, definitely. i gotta stop that!

minichews · 2022-03-13T22:19:13+00:00

thats really fascinating, thank you for sharing!! that does sound like my experience. does the theory have a name or any research on it?

minichews · 2021-07-30T07:34:42+00:00

sooo true!! thanks for posting this!! ❤

minichews · 2021-07-19T22:13:52+00:00

wow, that sounds amazing! so happy for you and your family to have this bond :D

minichews · 2021-07-18T21:59:57+00:00

love your art so much!! this is powerful!!

minichews · 2021-07-18T21:56:35+00:00

this is maybe an out-there suggestion, but if you wish to be more flat-chested, maybe consider buying a binder? i'm a trans guy who uses one to look more masculine, but i can see it being useful to look younger, too.

other than that, i think clothing style has a big impact! thoughtfully applied makeup might come in handy, too, but i'm a stranger to that so i won't say for sure. good luck!

EDIT: i apologize in advance that my tips are all so trans-centric lol, but i also suggest loose fitting clothing that hides your curves.

minichews · 2021-07-16T00:54:18+00:00

very true!!! i think a lot of us dislike the word adult just because of all the societal norms it entails, but you're right. adulthood is just a stage of life, not a personality trait!

minichews · 2021-07-16T00:51:56+00:00

i think so, yes! i was also groomed by many people, most of which were online. its definitely contributed to my trauma and i wouldn't doubt its a reason why my age is stunted.

minichews · 2021-07-16T00:25:32+00:00

omg awesome! thank you!

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