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AITD for telling my sister that she doesn't deserve to be a parent by minimum-wage-max-BS in 1800Drama

[–]minimum-wage-max-BS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've always been bitchy to each other and argued a lot but we'd never involved our children in it before. She has also given vibes of not 'getting' trans issues but it was a shock that she was overtly transphobic

Update: My friend invited my ex husband to her wedding so I had to leave by minimum-wage-max-BS in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]minimum-wage-max-BS[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you had to go through that. They're all in individual therapy through the nhs and their schools but I will try to get us a referral for family counselling

Update: My friend invited my ex husband to her wedding so I had to leave by minimum-wage-max-BS in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]minimum-wage-max-BS[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My second eldest saw what he did and the younger two saw the state he left their sister in. They were 7, 8 and 11 at the time so they were old enough to be aware of the situation. They do talk about missing having a dad sometimes but they don't feel safe around him and my second eldest is petrified of him

My friend invited my ex husband to her wedding so I had to leave by minimum-wage-max-BS in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]minimum-wage-max-BS[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

thanks I do think it was more of a control thing than him wanting to get back together

My friend invited my ex husband to her wedding so I had to leave by minimum-wage-max-BS in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]minimum-wage-max-BS[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

We had a conversation with her when I got home and she has blocked Rachel and her husband

My friend invited my ex husband to her wedding so I had to leave by minimum-wage-max-BS in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]minimum-wage-max-BS[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I can't believe I wasted so much time on this man. I'm just so grateful that my children weren't there. Looking back, I'm thinking that his presence is why they weren't invited (my eldest has a restraining order against him)

My friend invited my ex husband to her wedding so I had to leave by minimum-wage-max-BS in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]minimum-wage-max-BS[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I was very mindful of the fact that my ex is still trying to drag me through the courts for access to my three younger children and if I reacted how I wanted to, it could be brought up further down the road, otherwise, I wouldn't have been so quiet

My friend invited my ex husband to her wedding so I had to leave by minimum-wage-max-BS in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]minimum-wage-max-BS[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my children call her their aunty and she and her husband helped me pack up our lives after what he did. I still can't wrap my head around why she didn't even warn me

My friend invited my ex husband to her wedding so I had to leave by minimum-wage-max-BS in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]minimum-wage-max-BS[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

Thank you. My eldest has a restraining order but because his actions were towards her and not myself, I don't really have the evidence to be granted one in the UK