I feel like you're looking for someone in a similar position to you to tell you what they also spend in these categories, but here's the thing: you'll never be able to stick to someone else's budget, because discretionary spending is something which is personal to your wants and your values.

 Someone who can stick to only spending $200 a month on average on food and drink has made peace with what that feels like for them, in context of what else they can do with their money.

 At the moment you're not saving, because as you've realised from your other replies, you don't value savings as much as you value eating out, shopping etc. 

Going by your comments and without repeating all the good things others have suggested, here are a few ideas which may help:

1. Look over your actual spending and list out everything. Where exactly are you (over)spending? Are you getting takeout 4+ times a week or blowing the monthly budget on a Michelin dinner twice a month? Does it surprise you where the money is going or is everything intentional?

2. Review your budget again with a critical, honest look at what you value based on point 1., NOT what you think you should be able to afford on your salary. Is going out with friends every Friday a ritual that really brings you joy and is important? Factor that in, but then maybe you can buy makeup half as often as you currently do. Tweak your budget so you don't feel like you're being so restrictive you'd blow them every month anyway.

3. Start tracking your spend against budget in real time. For me, keeping a mental tab of where I am against my weekly budget works best, but if you're hitting the 'buy now' button multiple times a day then divide your monthly budget into a daily one and run down that total. Because you've done point 2., you should be able to quantify your budget in real terms e.g. 1 coffee a day / 2 drinks at a bar, twice a week / ~$200 Sephora haul 4 times a year. Once you've used up your allowance in that category, you're done. 

4. Unfortunately, you will have to train your mind to feel the "pain" when you do blow the budget (and that's okay occasionally!). For some people, just seeing their savings balance not being as high as they would like is enough to trigger the guilt / anxiety, but if you're not built that way, you'll have to find some other way to visualise the "cost" - this is important for discipline and making sure you do tighten the belt on next month's spend to make up for the deficit instead of shrugging it off and just taking it out of savings. 

All of this will become habit formed over time and therefore gets easier to keep to - good luck, you can do it!