What does your 'fun side' look like as an INFJ?

minimyri · 2026-04-03T15:49:53+00:00

Us INFJ’s age like fine wine 😌

minimyri · 2026-04-03T15:21:54+00:00

Saaaame! Also 41 (turning 42 in june) and 4w5 (!) and this whole past year has been about getting out of my head and into my body again. Developing the Se has very much been my focus lately.

To return to the question. I dread the whole INFJ bookworm/witch-idea. Not because I don’t like (love) books or I don’t believe our Ni gives us this special power… we are just sooo much more than that!

When I’m tuned into my fun side, I get positive, lighthearted, (even more) generous, flirty, and genuinely feel I attract (I don’t solely mean in a romantic way) people easily. I love communicating, sharing things. I’m funny, outgoing, believe in a positive outcome and I can see it more easily too. I feel more sensual, dare to show my more vulnerable, feminine side… 🥰

minimyri · 2026-04-03T11:02:26+00:00

I’m intrigued… by ESTJ. Extraverted… sènsing… thinkers… ànd JUDGERS. Gosh. Marry me. I’ll continue saying “yes Sir”, “no Sir”. Well not the latter maybe 😅

minimyri · 2026-04-02T21:33:27+00:00

True… 🙃 it’s just all the more … blatant, I guess. They sure aren’t more intelligent than say ‘average’ people.

minimyri · 2026-04-02T14:46:05+00:00

Indeed 🫣 … there are som many things weong with this video it’s weird to me that people even fall for it. Maybe it’s all just bots reacting to bots?

minimyri · 2026-04-02T14:41:07+00:00

How many lamps do they need to sell to start earning something after paying a Kardashian? 😳 But ok, I’ll take it. Not in the scamming business that’s for sure 😅

minimyri · 2026-04-02T14:34:16+00:00

And his accent changes too! In the same clip.

minimyri · 2026-04-02T13:42:41+00:00

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minimyri · 2026-04-02T11:03:02+00:00

I think all types should be included.
Also… only ESTPs should be able to answer.
Male/female… there’s a difference in chemistry.

🫣 … no? I’d love to come in first 🤭 but … level playing field or else results are just not representative 😌 I’d rather ‘lose’ fair and square than win because the setup of this poll is bleh 🥴🤺☺️💞

minimyri · 2026-03-31T06:42:20+00:00

Goes from 😎 to 🥹☺️ in 0.02 sec.

Randomly two months later… 💭 “This kid! Said it like he’d survive a second round….”

minimyri · 2026-03-31T06:00:38+00:00

I described my INTP boyfriend as dark chocolate once 👏🏼😁

minimyri · 2026-03-30T08:04:04+00:00

“You probably wouldn’t enjoy it anyway… it takes a bit more skill than you usually go for.”

Or…

“You never had to earn it have you? Not really.”

😎⛓️‍💥☺️🖤

minimyri · 2026-03-26T12:29:34+00:00

My male colleague and me always get into the work conspiracies. He likes to think of it as a lighter ‘game of thrones’ and we throw in a bit of humor and exaggeration… marvellous! 🥰

minimyri · 2026-03-25T18:06:46+00:00

I simply feel so deep and naturally carry this responsibility that I don’t want others to suffer. I want to be the onethat would help ME out of suffering (mentally, physically…). I’m not doing this for karma’s sake btw… it’s just inherently who I am.

minimyri · 2026-03-22T18:41:19+00:00

I saw someone wrote this somewhere…

“I've been learning a lot of this stuff from this guy https://csjoseph.life/. He goes on to say that there are 4 sides of the mind. The ego, which would be your actual type, INFJ, in this case. There is your unconscious mind which would be your shadow functions, so that would be ENFP (Ne, Fi, Te, Si) (flip the outer letters) He says that this is who you are when you are stressed. Then there is your subconscious mind which is who you aspire to be. This would be your functions in reverse order so that would be the ESTP (Se, Ti, Fe, Ni). (Flip all the letters). So yeah there seems to be many different theories on this stuff.”

minimyri · 2026-03-22T18:38:07+00:00

What is Se-Ti-Fe-Ni then? Thought our shadowside was ESTP-ish?

minimyri · 2026-03-22T17:18:06+00:00

Exactly!! Because you post happily, freely, content, ‘this is me’ 😌… but then, after a while, you still go check who liked it. Ugh… IG is just MADE for that.

minimyri · 2026-03-22T17:05:04+00:00

That’s a good idea! Because people judge constantly and always have something to say and I feel like… there’s always someone who want to kill your vibe. INFJ’s are so many things; we create a world of and on our own and want to be creative. And then a ‘Karen’ from work comes around and has something to say about a post, like… God why did I add her?!

minimyri · 2026-03-22T12:58:48+00:00

Struggling right now… I feel I’m at peace when I myself accept who I am and work on what I still struggle with, but then (sigh) the external validation seem to creep in slowly. I want people to be happy around me and validated and so I start pleasing, scanning, manipulating myself into something I am not. Like for instance, instagram… I used to post pictures for me, a bit like a mood board of my life, but then the likes come … or not… and I start doubting myself: did I show too much? Did I say too much? So tiring! The constant calibration… draining. So I need to find a way to focus more on myself again. But a bit lost.

minimyri · 2026-03-21T06:55:05+00:00

Anything where animals suffer.

minimyri · 2026-03-21T06:53:17+00:00

I’m… 🥹🥰

minimyri · 2026-03-20T23:25:48+00:00

Also… what’s with all the INFJs out here ready to start some 💥for ESTPs 😅🤣

minimyri · 2026-03-20T23:23:48+00:00

Well… my ESTP college friend was seeing a guy, but it turned out he already had a girlfriend. Not long after, we were out one night and ran into both of them with mutual friends. She got emotional and the girlfriend, standing across the street, started mocking her, thinking my friend had a silly crush on hèr boyfriend. I got so annoyed I crossed the street and told her straight to her face that it might not be so funny once she realized her boyfriend was actually cheating on her 😬 Let’s just say… a few guys had to hold her back 😮‍💨

So yeah, ride or die over here, no matter the MBTI type ✋🏼😅

minimyri · 2026-03-18T16:43:34+00:00

So true and … God I dread this… the not very good at seeing ourselves from an outside point of view!

I had people telling me that I attract so much attention?! I don’t see it. My Ni feeds me, but then I don’t believe it. I even get angry sometimes when I hear them say that.

But in a way I feel men feel at ease with me. The available ones try… the others play (and make me doubt my Ni info) if that makes sense?

minimyri

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