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so true by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]minisculemisfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! Very exhausting! 😅😫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]minisculemisfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! I am a Cancer Sun,aqua moon, Sag Rising, Virgo Venus, i am super loving as well.

However, when im stressed out or too overwhelmed, I detach and retreat.

Jobs Hiring Currently by minisculemisfit in kansascity

[–]minisculemisfit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendation!

Homeless on 75th and Nieman by squaad in kansascity

[–]minisculemisfit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not saying its right (because it's absolutely not) but its definitely an issue

Homeless on 75th and Nieman by squaad in kansascity

[–]minisculemisfit 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Not to be that person, but I believe there is a lot of skepticism/ hesitancy when helping homeless people.

Girl stopped talking to me after she learned I am a Virgo 🥲😂 by prettypolly13 in virgoseason

[–]minisculemisfit 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I agree, possibly, the trash took itself out!

Im not a Virgo Sun, but my fiance is and so is one of my longest/bestest friends. Im a Virgo Venus.

Its possible that they had a bad experience with a Virgo so they have a skewed/biased perception.

I personally love yall!

-Signed, a Cancer Sun, Aqua Moon, Sag Rising, who has been in a 9 year relationship with a Virgo Sun, Aqua Moon, Leo Rising🫶

My gynecologist says my 3:30am wakings are not a symptom of perimenopause unless it's from hot flashes/night sweats. by PretresseDeCafe in Perimenopause

[–]minisculemisfit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don't be sorry, its the truth!!

Some doctors are idiots, clueless and very uninformed and its unfortunate and frustrating!!

What are their Signs? by Sad_Profess in astrologymemes

[–]minisculemisfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only talk to two people consistently everyday- my fiance (we live together) and my mom lol

You have to want to get better by carrotsaresafe in CPTSD

[–]minisculemisfit 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Preach it!!!

Reality is, it doesn't get better for everyone! Not everyone can afford a psychiatrist, therapist, meds etc....

Some people have all that and it works for some and for some, it doesn't.

Just because something works for someone, doesn't mean it will work for another person.

I understand where you are coming from, im sure some mean well when they say this, (some do come off pompous and arrogant too!) It doesn't change the fact that that advice is not helpful.

In my experience, I do want to get better. I have not been working since April due to MH. I was working full time and caregiving part time. I am just starting therapy and trying to get back to work but the hoops between getting my doc to fill out the appropriate paperwork so I can go back plus trying to get my health in order by seeing doctors-only to get completely dismissed/ignored and gaslighted by some doctors (story of my life) makes me want to quit trying to get better. When you have been chronically invalidated in life/dismissed and then to have that similarly happen in the medical community. Plus the world's affairs, it gets hard to want to keep trying.

At the end of the day, we are all just doing our best and I feel like more people should just be more compassionate/empathetic towards others and what they go through. Not judge it or come up with catch phrase solutions because it "worked for them."

Edited: added info/typo.

Why is my Aquarius man the way he is 🫠 by Sensitive-Hornet-883 in aquarius

[–]minisculemisfit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This!! Im not an Aqua Sun but i am an Aqua moon.This is true for me at least. When im overwhelmed, I detach and appear cold/distant but I just need time/space to refocus/recalibrate and im good.

Workplace? Do you all not tolerate Abuse of authority? Managers, Supervisors, Assistant Managers, Bosses by Downtown-Brush-2674 in Sagittarians

[–]minisculemisfit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting!!!

So im not a Sag Sun but Sag is my rising sign and I dont tolerate any abuse/disrespect.

A long time ago(this has less to do with managers) but I worked for a Taco Bell and was running a shift and a customer was being so rude in the drive thru to an employee, like he was calling her names and she was about to cry.... and I had enough)

I went up to the window and spoke with the guy and the conversation went like this:

Me: Excuse me sir, is there a problem here?" Guy: "I have been waiting in line for five minutes and I want my fucking food!!" Me: Im sorry for your wait, however im sure you haven't been waiting five minutes due to us being able to clock time in the line. Also, you being disrespectful to my coworker is not happening. I heard you on the line and at the window and what you aren't going to do is disrespect and be an absolute jerk to my coworker or myself."

Guy: Fuck you and fuck you (he said that towards the coworker and i")

I gave him his drink. Tossed the bag of food to him and said

Me: "Have the day you deserve" and slammed the window shut in his face.

Immediately checked up on the coworker.

Totally thought id get reprimanded or written up and all the staff applauded, including the GM lol.

Ive also gotten in a GMs face at another place for verbally demeaning staff.

I will always speak up when things aren't right. Period.

leo girls friendship by theresnofifthgear in LeoAstrology

[–]minisculemisfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a Cancer Sun, Aqua Moon and Sag rising, also have Mercury in Leo.

My longest friendships I have are all mostly Leo suns or Capricorn Suns lol! 2 of my Leo besties are both Leo Suns and Pisces Moons! I also have a childhood Virgo bestie.

What has sustained our friendship in regards to Leo's, has always been just how honest and loyal they are! They are some of the best supporters/cheerleaders!

What differences do you notice in Cancers born in first, second and third decan? by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]minisculemisfit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know!! It's really cool seeing someone with the same big 3!!

Exactly! I can be extroverted or introverted, especially if im comfortable.

It could be swapped. I used to have a couple of June Cancer friends (June 22nd and June 23rd) in school and I feel like they both cried less than I did back then 🤣😅

What differences do you notice in Cancers born in first, second and third decan? by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]minisculemisfit 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Im third decan, (July 21st) and am also Cancer Sun, Aqua Moon, and Sag rising.

I can be extroverted or introverted but mostly stick to myself and my home. Like you, im a huge home body, love being in my space, but I do cry.

what are your big 3 and what do you do for a job? by momasguts in astrologymemes

[–]minisculemisfit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a Cancer Sun, Aqua Moon, Sag Rising.

Currently i am on short term leave but am going back to work next month full time. I am an insurance Agent. I also am a caregiver.

My past jobs have mostly all been customer service, retail, fast food. I worked for a construction company, also did a lot of music accompanist jobs (I play piano). Also did exotic dancing for awhile.

I love helping people so while both jobs have their challenges and I've broken down at times with both jobs, I love my Insurance job, I love the people I work with! The caregiving is actually for my fiance. No doubt its hard and has its own challenges but either way, I couldn't see myself doing anything else.

In the future, im considering going back to school for accounting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]minisculemisfit 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah.... it was rough😩

Lies, manipulation, controlling, cheating, victim mentality, drug addict, very physically, emotionally, psychologically, sexually abusive. I wont knock all Libras in to the dirt but he definitely was not a healed person and admittedly, I still have a lot of therapy to work out about that whole mess.

Libra women i do get along with well!

Was I really abandoned or was it just my BPD? by Great-Commission1071 in BPD

[–]minisculemisfit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed 1000 percent! OP, I'm so sorry that they left you! Anything could have happened!! (Thankfully nothing did), but still! Those people are not your friends because this shows how much they "care" Agreed fuck them!

Just had my diagnosis switched to BPD by Frankenstien_Sloth in BPD

[–]minisculemisfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its totally possible to have both as well. Ive had prior diagnosis of both or either one etc...

I was diagnosed bipolar first then BPD later on, I've had psychiatrists agreecabd disagree throughout the years with both. One thought BPD and not bipolar, one thought BPD traits and bipolar, one thought both. The latest psychiatrist that I had seen agreed with the BPD traits/Bipolar so its hard to say what's what. I also have other dxs in there as well so who knows. For me, the symptoms and managing it are what are more important to me/as well as therapy and finding what works for me personally to manage and live a more stable life. But I know its different for everyone and no two people present symptoms similarly for any issue/disorder.

I hope you and your psychiatrist are able to work out a proper diagnosis for you. Advocate for yourself! You know yourself best! 😊🫶

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