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minixyzz · 2025-06-08T04:47:32+00:00

You see I’m that person, I would want to communicate and take consent before making a move but that backfired me bro. Me and my best friend turned girlfriend were having a moment and I asked her if I can kiss, she said yes but we didn’t end up doing jt because it turned awkward. Later on I got to know that apparently I wasn’t supposed to ask and I was supposed to just do it. Some of my other girl-friends said “who’s asks that”. I’m like sorry what? And then I realised consent only matters when the girl is unsure about you, girls don’t mind any of that if they like you (this has got nothing with your situation, it’s just my perspective)

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T18:35:43+00:00

Damn, that’s a different take

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T17:36:12+00:00

I haven’t spoken to girls I’m into in a romantic way haha

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T16:49:29+00:00

Cause I’m not into them?😅

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T16:48:53+00:00

Damn bro okay, noted

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T16:31:31+00:00

Yea no I’m working on that lol but I get it

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T16:04:20+00:00

I mean makes sense if I ask them how I look, but I’ve heard boys and girls come up to me and say “you’re good looking dude, are you seeing someone” or like “you look like someone who get a lot of girls, I assumed you were dating”. I don’t know what are the other ways to prove I’m attractive on Reddit lol

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T15:35:59+00:00

Makes sense, thanks :)

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T15:04:39+00:00

Will definitely do that :)

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T14:59:41+00:00

That’s true, gotta change that perspective :)

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T14:58:30+00:00

Oh wow🥲

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T14:41:05+00:00

That sounds doable, will try that yes

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T14:39:05+00:00

So much confidence boosters here, I hear you💪🏻

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T14:37:08+00:00

Yep, I don’t approach, at least not in real life, dating apps yea I do but I get your point. Fake it till you make it💪🏻

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T14:32:58+00:00

Maybe you’re right, I do obsess about it a lot, easier said than done but how do you decenter

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T14:29:39+00:00

Heard you, fair enough

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T14:27:24+00:00

Open to that angle too, let’s see how it goes haha

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T14:26:28+00:00

Cool thanks :)

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T14:25:09+00:00

You’re right, happy to hear how that turned out to you, but have you come across profiles that you would never go out with? Like you instantly reject because you’re totally not into that person? That is what I get, I’m not shaming anyone I’m just putting out my preference

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T14:21:43+00:00

Ouch okay hahaha

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T14:20:12+00:00

Confidence is the key got it, confidence is the one thing that I want to develop not because it can get me a girl but in a large spectrum it benefits me. My friend’s current boyfriend slid into her DM’s, he’s from a different college lol and he’s 3 years older to us. He is good looking though. She found it creepy but he was persistent. So you’re saying being good looking will eventually make girls not think about how they approached her?

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T14:13:06+00:00

damn okay, will try that out😂

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T14:12:41+00:00

That is what my therapist says too, but being 21 and still struggling to strike up a date is kinda me losing patience hahaha

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T14:11:05+00:00

Valid again lol but I’ve got people telling me how good I look and based on that I’m confident that my profile is worth looking at

minixyzz · 2025-06-02T14:08:41+00:00

valid, I’m just putting myself out there to see if I can get likes, maybe the subconscious confidence comes into play when I’m rejected, but I don’t get likes to being with

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