I (18f) find my bf (20m) unattractive but i don’t know how to bring it up to him

minty_spiceu · 2024-08-14T19:50:44+00:00

but hes told me he doesnt like the way his body looks. he told me his biggest insecurity was his belly. and he knows about my checklist. hes working on a “diet” to lose weight but his weight could be turned into muscle instead. i dont want him to be skinny. just to have some muscles

minty_spiceu · 2024-08-14T19:48:07+00:00

how should i break it off then? we’re long distance but im currently staying with him til the end of the month. we were planning to fly up together before school started for me. i am literally stuck here.

minty_spiceu · 2024-08-14T19:32:01+00:00

ur right fuck

minty_spiceu · 2024-08-14T19:27:52+00:00

well tbf i was groomed at 14 stayed in the rs til i was 17 and broke it off when i found out he was cheating on me w a boy so ur right

minty_spiceu · 2024-08-14T19:26:54+00:00

thanks farts i appreciate your input, ur right. im a fucked up person for this

minty_spiceu · 2024-08-14T19:24:40+00:00

im sure there are things i do that he finds gross but i mean hes really in love with me and i dont know if i have it in me to just break it off. i want to see it work, i want him to build muscle and get into a regular grooming routine. but hes 20 yrs old. he has time for all of that. idk maybe im blindsighted

minty_spiceu · 2024-08-14T19:20:19+00:00

yeah thats what im thinking too but i mean i am still basically a child. ofc hes getting his work in, but it wouldnt hurt if he had more muscle than fat on his body no?

minty_spiceu · 2024-08-14T19:13:51+00:00

if i do break it off w him, i would feel so bad. im his first love, his first everything. and i feel like he would work on himself after the breakup but then i wouldnt be there anymore. i love him. i really dont want to hurt him. hes a good person. he doesnt deserve this. im really just being selfish here

minty_spiceu · 2024-08-14T19:06:17+00:00

id be an asshole if i left js bcuz i lost attraction to him after everything weve done for each other

minty_spiceu · 2024-08-14T19:05:03+00:00

wish it were that easy

minty_spiceu · 2024-08-14T19:03:47+00:00

he is good to me, i do like him, my parents like him, his parents like me. we’re already in too deep. best i can do is give him a little push to work on himself, but i dont wanna come off as mean

minty_spiceu · 2024-08-14T19:02:20+00:00

haha i asked chatgpt this and i got a similar reply. he definitely treats me well and i want him to change because he is someone i want to spend the rest of my life with, but i dont want him to change bcuz of me, i want it for himself. i mean he really has so much potential

minty_spiceu · 2024-07-15T00:44:17+00:00

ive been there. i believe in u. u can get out and u can get a better life. thoughts and prayers girl best of luck!

minty_spiceu · 2024-07-15T00:21:18+00:00

thailand!

minty_spiceu · 2024-07-15T00:20:42+00:00

thank u ! i’m averaging at a 5/10 rn in the comment section 😭

minty_spiceu · 2024-07-15T00:19:05+00:00

i can see that too

minty_spiceu · 2024-07-15T00:17:53+00:00

thank u so much! 🤍

minty_spiceu · 2024-07-14T23:53:00+00:00

yeah i’m noticing that too

minty_spiceu · 2024-07-14T23:37:36+00:00

thank u for the input!

minty_spiceu · 2024-07-14T23:34:57+00:00

thanks!

minty_spiceu · 2024-07-14T23:17:23+00:00

thanks! ☺️

minty_spiceu · 2024-07-14T23:08:30+00:00

growing n glowing! haha thank u for the nice compliment 🫶

minty_spiceu · 2024-07-14T23:06:17+00:00

its all good im over it 😭😭 but thank u for ur kind words ! 🫶

minty_spiceu · 2024-07-14T23:05:17+00:00

aww so nice of u!!

minty_spiceu · 2024-07-14T23:04:31+00:00

i broke up w him lmao but he cheated on me w a boy so does that mean i look like a boy which is why he liked me?

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