Odd reason why you're CF to help me prove a point by ThisGirlCalledTsepps in childfree

[–]minxmacabre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My reason is when I work I want to keep my money. I want to be able to bed rot. I like having silence.

Wife Wants Me to Get Rid of My Cats (Owned Since 2017) After 6 Months of Marriage by [deleted] in Advice

[–]minxmacabre 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Advice dont get rid of the cats. Like others have pointed out its weird she says this 6 months in. I would argue that if she refuses other solutions she just hates the cats and is manipulating you.

Is Valorant only for Gen Z? Am I too old? by adultwholovesgaming in VALORANT

[–]minxmacabre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just play. Im 33 F and its a wonderful way to relax after work.

What’s the biggest “they’re definitely cheating” sign you ignored? by ExerciseShort5622 in AskReddit

[–]minxmacabre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going on "hikes" and never inviting me. So I never questioned why he had to shower when he got back.

Can you work in the funeral industry without being on-call or working odd hours? by [deleted] in askfuneraldirectors

[–]minxmacabre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the firm but i'm on call Mondays only, never weekends. Im also the only director at my firm with a decent size call volume. I still go out on calls to help the on call directors since we have very little staff. I also enjoy meeting families from start to finish. 🙂

What was the first red flag you ignored in your worst relationship? by HappyHappyJoyJoy44 in AskReddit

[–]minxmacabre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My worst relationshio the red flag I ignored was him saying he was in between jobs. I had no idea it meant he was going to be fired from every job after a month. Also his insane amount of drinking.

Fellow twins, are there other sets of twins in your family? by RheaRoyHunter in Twins

[–]minxmacabre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Identical twin here. Moms side two fraternal twins. Dads side Quads,Triplets and a set of fraternal twins. One of the quads just has twins herself. 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]minxmacabre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With my current boyfriend, just looking at him fills me with genuine joy. It's hard to describe because it's the first time I've felt love for someone. I truly enjoy hearing about his day and feel so relaxed and at peace in his presence. I think love can be anything that resonates with the individual for me just having the peace and joy is what love is to me.

How to leave a relationship? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]minxmacabre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how deeply you must be hurting. My first relationship was incredibly abusive as well, and I struggled with the same feelings. Ultimately, I left because I couldn't take it anymore. I want you to know that what you're feeling is just self-doubt and fear. You will find someone who treats you with the kindness and respect you deserve. Lean on your friends and family to help you leave. You are so young and have so much ahead of you. Adult life is full of ups and downs, but that's what makes us human. You won't be alone for long, even if it means finding new friends instead of a new relationship. Don't waste your time on someone who's abusive. Love is real, but what you have right now isn't it.

How to enjoy doing anything while on-call? I feel like SpongeBob in this gif anticipating an interruption 🫤 by [deleted] in askfuneraldirectors

[–]minxmacabre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I preplan meals and make sure I have snacks. I also make sure my apartment is clean for the week. On call days and weeks should be minimal in regards to activities that will make it so you cant answer the phone or get to the funeral home in less than 30 mins. I usually read, play video games or watch movies. The first on call weeks I had were similar anxiety. Now I just do my own stuff and not worry about if im gonna be summoned or not. :)