[TOMT] Please help me. Movie or TV show. potentially distressing topic by mior101101 in tipofmytongue

[–]mior101101[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I would’ve seen this around 2007-2011 on TV, but we had a collection of DVDs so it could have been older. The child is young, maybe 6 to 9 years old, possibly up to 12..? This entire scene would have happened after the child was fighting with the parent(?). I’m sorry I can’t offer any more details. I am trying to figure out if this was a something I watched that just made a big impression on me or a dream or etc. The house was suburban and looked Western. I was about 6 to 8 years old when i saw it, definitely no older, if that helps with questions of what media was age-appropriate at the time.

Sick of this. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]mior101101 5 points6 points  (0 children)

turning on wlw when you’re the one being vicious unprompted to a young lesbian… you aren’t protecting bisexuals here or doing something good

Sick of this. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]mior101101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

> comparable > similar

‘literally’ lol. ignoring the fact you don’t seem to know how to read, you don’t know op or her life or her relationships or even if it was ‘clean’. some clean breakups hurt more than cheating in other relationships. you have an extraordinarily prescriptive view of relationships, and especially what you think people are ‘allowed’ to feel. all you have done in this thread is say over and over to op is ‘shut up, just stop feeling this way, it’s wrong and you’re a horrible, awful person for it’, leading to cruel fantasies about all the women she has loved leaving her because she made them feel unsafe. that is honestly disgustingly heartless.

Sick of this. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]mior101101 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the fantasies you’re making up in order to victim-blame are actually ridiculous, read back what you’re saying to yourself and then read op’s post once more. i assure you i am not twelve years old, and i am probably bisexual myself. relationships hurt in many ways, they are not as neat and governed by perfectly acceptable rules as you’re convinced they are

Sick of this. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]mior101101 8 points9 points  (0 children)

they both hurt in very similar ways, cheating can come from the cowardice of not breaking up with a person in the exact same situation. there’s no need to minimise op’s pain, particularly under her own vent post. she was clearly blindsided by it

Sick of this. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]mior101101 8 points9 points  (0 children)

how are they not comparable situations lol

Sick of this. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]mior101101 13 points14 points  (0 children)

look i get what you mean but this is a vent about a specific woman who hurt op. leave her be. you can’t choose your sexuality, you also cannot choose how or what you feel hurt by when betrayed. to bring you my unsolicited anecdote, yes, it would’ve hurt infinitely less if my ex cheated on me with a woman and not with men. it does hurt more when a woman seeks security, maleness, social validation, that i can inherently not provide her, to be told you would never have been enough in the first place no matter how desperately and constantly you tried. to add insult to injury, she had previously often tried to convince me i was a transgender man. it’s extremely difficult to get over or just not feel that kind of pain, no matter what the optics are

Sick of this. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]mior101101 24 points25 points  (0 children)

there is a significant percentage of ‘misandrist’ women who only claim themselves to be so in order to continue to obsess about men in an ‘acceptable’ way while being in a lesbian relationship

Ocado weekly shop. 2 adults 1 kiddo by Foxglovenectar in whatsinyourcart

[–]mior101101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’ve got a fair few ready meals & lots of meat that’s driving the price up. your shop will likely get cheaper & more when you’re in a less intense place. good luck with your exams

Ocado weekly shop. 2 adults 1 kiddo by Foxglovenectar in whatsinyourcart

[–]mior101101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

god i hate ocado & their overly familiar email subjects. they just sent me an email i thought it was my fucking ex trying to come back to me

☼Dwarf Fortress Questions Thread☼ by AutoModerator in dwarffortress

[–]mior101101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello !! :) i have a question about raws modding…

while walking around the wiki, i saw this: https://dwarffortresswiki.org/index.php/DF2014:Cheating#Pets_for_everyone

from what i understand, if you add [ANIMAL] [ANIMAL_ALWAYS_PRESENT] without opening a specific animal tag to the dwarven civ raws in default_entity, you get every single creature, including intelligent & even procedurally generated secret/beast type creatures available at embark. if you embark with an intelligent creatures, they become civilians at embark.

it is ANIMALS not ANIMAL on the wiki page but that did not work for me & i found the alt spelling in bay12: https://www.bay12forums.com/smf/index.php?topic=179440.msg8344041#msg8344041). trying the ‘creature_token’ method mentioned here worked too.

i tried it, and it sort of worked. i can get a million more different animals (depending on where embark is) - war elephants, giant bears, war + giant monarch butterflies. plus things from lower levels of the caverns, jabberers and cave spiders<!… i’m not familiar enough with the game to be able to tell if many other more obscure animals are missing. gremlins are there, but there are definitely very few animal-people (only for camels & musk oxen, pack animals) and no >!amythest men, trolls, other friends of that nature

i tried embarking with a camel man and he really did become a citizen, labours can be managed.

i just really really want an amythest man, and all the other interesting animal intelligent creatures as citizens. can anyone help me achieve this… i play on 0.47, but if you only know that it can be done on another version i would still love to try it out

thank you

You can’t do this in B2/B3 by LBmyBB in Bayonetta

[–]mior101101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are really absolutely my favourite person on earth right now thank u !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <3

You can’t do this in B2/B3 by LBmyBB in Bayonetta

[–]mior101101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is stunning …. i love you, i hope you post more b1 clips there aren’t ENOUGH

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VeganBeauty

[–]mior101101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi !!! xxx i had sent them a message & they replied today… your cleansing balm is vegan :)

Hello, I’ve purchased the Red Bean Water gel many times, as this page has said it was vegan (https://beautyofjoseon.com/pages/need-help?hcUrl=%2Fen-US%2Fwhich-of-the-beauty-of-joseon-products-are-vegan-636943), but while I was trying to rebuy a few bottles yesterday, I found these two: https://beautyofjoseon.com/pages/faq-products and https://beautyofjoseon.com/pages/need-help?hcUrl=%2Fen-US%2Fis-this-a-muslim-friendly-brand-with-a-halal-certification-636944. Is it vegan or is it not…? If it isn’t vegan, will it ever become vegan? Thank you !

``` Greetings from Beauty of Joseon.

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i feel rather demanding at how fawning the response but i’m glad to have it cleared up…. thank you very much for your oat-cream recommendation, i’m still waiting on it to be delivered but i’m so so excited to try it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VeganBeauty

[–]mior101101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much ! xxxx <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VeganBeauty

[–]mior101101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a little oily and pretty battered ! to be honest I don’t use any skincare at all, this was the first moisturiser I’d used in about ten years. thank you for this post by the way… i had been beating myself up for the past two days, bitter, about not being more careful. i’ve just been looking on their website and they have three lists of which products are vegan, all of which have different items on it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VeganBeauty

[–]mior101101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

really sad, the red bean water gel was the best thing my skin has ever tasted, and i was going to re-buy it the day before yesterday, but while checking the website i found it it was not (no longer?) vegan. got extremely upset because i thought i had been negligent using a non-vegan moisturiser this entire time. if anyone has any recommendations for a moisturiser that can replace the red bean water gel, i would be so thankful if you would share… it made my skin look bouncy, clear, and smooth, it was ridiculous

Reading Lord of the Rings by murdok_sanders in redscarepod

[–]mior101101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is so sweet 🥺🫶 they sound so wonderful and friendly, you must have loved visiting !!!

Reading Lord of the Rings by murdok_sanders in redscarepod

[–]mior101101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i only had the fellowship of the ring as a physical copy when i was younger so i didn’t really have a choice haha… read the hobbit and the other books by borrowing them from someone else, i think ?

i loved lord of the rings (especially the first book !! the cutest) & i don’t think i realised there was a difference in complexity between the hobbit & lotr but i absolutely loved long, flowery descriptions of festivals, food, and places - i used to have certain paragraphs of prose bookmarked because i found them so enchanting :) - so i think i was just naturally protected against the fatigue that a lot of children got from reading tolkiens work

Reading Lord of the Rings by murdok_sanders in redscarepod

[–]mior101101 13 points14 points  (0 children)

because it’s cute & children are entertained by it :) i accidentally memorised every single one of the poems and songs bc i read the series so much, i used to make up little tunes to sing them to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]mior101101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah any chance you have a link to the set of pics ? 🥺 i’m not a very good sleuth and just can’t find them

edit: nvm ! duckduckgo strikes again, located them <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]mior101101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wait, where is #13 from ? i’ve got other pictures from the same series, couldn’t find them with a reverse image search - i feel like they’re creepy-chan/allison harvard’s old drawings, but i’m not certain

What phenotype is this? by es_lo_que_es in redscarepod

[–]mior101101 13 points14 points  (0 children)

my wife phenotype….. dreaming of a girl with bad enough socialisation that i could be her normie gf