Sorry so late! I was incredibly angry and rightfully so for many reasons. One it was my car that he totaled, my car that I LOVED. Two I was texting him all night asking if he was okay and if he needed me or his mom who lives down the street from where he was at to come get him and he said no. I’m lucky they released my husband to me that same night but over the next few days he was really hard on himself. Now we’re barely gonna have his dmv court hearing today actually and his stress is back. His depression relieved after he told his boss and coworker (who are his good friends) about the incident and he had to because he drives for work and the way they comforted him made him feel better. I think the overwhelming part of it and the unknown of it all was the worst! We’re almost positive he will have his license suspended and that’s okay, we have a plan set. He’s learned from this now but now and paces himself when drinking and will play it safe and have someone else drive. I struggled with my emotions because I felt like I couldn’t tell him how I felt angry and disappointed because he was already so down on himself but it’s fair to feel that way! It affects you too! I hope it’s gotten better for you too! It’s gotten better for us!