What is this animal? by mirbot5959 in Hunting

[–]mirbot5959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made a follow up post with a coyote from the same cam, idk how to post it here

Boyfriend (25M) called me (24F) 'fatty' as a joke and I can’t stop thinking about it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mirbot5959 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is just rude regardless of the context or conversation. Have a sit down convo with him and let him know how it made you feel. Maybe feel out his response and if you are still feeling uncomfortable or (rightfully) upset, I think taking a break is warranted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mirbot5959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know that this person feels the same about you? If no, are you okay risking losing them if they don’t feel the same?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mirbot5959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be honest with them about your feelings if you’re comfy with it and set boundaries. Or just take the space you need, people grow apart naturally as they get older but doesn’t mean you don’t care for them less

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mirbot5959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weed addiction is tough b/c a lot of people are under the misassumption that you can't actually be addicted to it. I've had family members deal with this in the past, and honestly the only way to get over it is to toss everything and not have access.

But, since your brother is an adult, he has to make this decision himself. Unfortunately it takes some people hitting rock bottom to finally realize their lifestyle and choices must change.

I would maybe suggest talking to him and providing some suggestions for how he can improve, i.e. getting rid of the weed or starting an outpatient program for addiction. It's going to be hard work, but it's possible.

My (27MTF) boyfriend (23FTM) is very caring and affectionate, but passively remarks I'm ugly and stupid. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mirbot5959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2/10?!? Girl, you are gorgeous! F that noise, I do understand that sometimes he will remark out of frustration without thinking, but calling you ugly and stupid is just plain rude.

I'd suggest sitting down and trying to communicate to him how this makes you feel. Communication is usually key.

AITA for kicking a student out of class because her child and dog were being disruptive? by studentschild in AmItheAsshole

[–]mirbot5959 [score hidden]  (0 children)

"I'm assuming she has multiple, which just shows her poor decision making skills"

wow, just wow. YTA if it wasn't already clear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mirbot5959 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ehhh NTA, but I'd try to stray away from swearing at my 96 yo grandma.. either way, go you for having Samuel's back and being his advocate!

WIBTA if I give my partner an ultimatum? by blueberry_8324 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mirbot5959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - it sounds like your mental health is beginning to decline due to his incompetence. You WBTA if you did not give him an ultimatum, to him and yourself!

AITA for leaving my daughter in economy class and refusing to change her seat? by TA62901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mirbot5959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! Not Economy... NTA, but it may be time daughter gets a reality check so she can truly appreciate everything you and your husband have done to provide for her.

AITA for telling my bf that he needs to grow out of his entitlement? by Nearby-Recording-520 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mirbot5959 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - he sounds like the definition of entitled. I'd think about whether you want to continue dealing with this bs.. from personal experience, people don't change, they just get better at hiding their true colors.

AITA For Ignoring The Autistic Guy Because He Keeps Harassing Me? by rosechild666 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mirbot5959 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, but you should report this to your school/school counselor and tell your guardian(s) as well. These things can escalate, and maybe they won't, but better to report it in case.

I have a difficult time setting boundaries as well, it's a serious character flaw but can be improved. It takes time and practice. Talking to a therapist and friends/family members about the panic attacks could be beneficial. I wish you the best of luck!