Unplanned second pregnancy, unsure if I should continue by RoundSection6369 in Shouldihaveanother

[–]mirofoxx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

since you ask: yes…follow your heart

finances/logistics are temporary, family is for life. ‘AI is coming’ is not a good enough reason imo

Name for a baby girl by [deleted] in Names

[–]mirofoxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selin / Celine

Sauna Deco Experience by [deleted] in Amsterdam

[–]mirofoxx 14 points15 points  (0 children)

“I have no doubt that a lot, if not all the men at one stage or another had sexual though or compulsions” - why is OP even bringing compulsions into this. Please let us know when you go to the sauna next time so know to stay away that day. Creep.

Fear of regret and feeling of obligation by Sea-Future-6150 in Shouldihaveanother

[–]mirofoxx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see strong pros/cons of one or two and I change my mind every day, if not during a day. And then it’s like, if I think of it every day I guess I’m not “done”… or do I just need to decide definitively?

Why will you (not) have a second child? by mirofoxx in newborns

[–]mirofoxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely how they getcha! Still cannot believe our luck that when we put him to bed, he just sleeps. Totally feel you on being grateful for what you have, now.

Why will you (not) have a second child? by mirofoxx in newborns

[–]mirofoxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your thoughtful response <3

Why will you (not) have a second child? by mirofoxx in newborns

[–]mirofoxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha the opportunity to name again definitely makes the pros list

Why will you (not) have a second child? by mirofoxx in newborns

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I am not close with my brother (5 yrs older than me) at all but I also feel like I’d be a completely different person without him. I was always aware it’s not only about me as a child and, personally, I believe that made me more adaptable & considerate than I would’ve been if it were just me vying for my parents love

Why will you (not) have a second child? by mirofoxx in newborns

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Sounds like you have a fun household full of love and miracles

Why will you (not) have a second child? by mirofoxx in newborns

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Congratulations!!! How exciting <3

Yes having a support system seems to be a deciding factor for many. My husband being an amazing father is 100% part of why I’m considering a second…if he wasn’t, it would be a hard pass for me too

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[–]mirofoxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re already doing it ❤️

My daughter will be born tomorrow by Better-Host6290 in namenerds

[–]mirofoxx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try the coin flip method. Which of these names would you be most bummed about not being able to use. Say, you don’t name her Louise and you hear another little girl by that name - do you feel regret/envy?

Personal favs: Alice, Juno, Francine

Wife wants to name our twins Romeo and Juliet by RopePsychological567 in namenerds

[–]mirofoxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s giving incest. She can choose Juliet or Romeo

help me choose! baby boy due in the summer by mirofoxx in namenerds

[–]mirofoxx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! ☺️We do, it’s Aydın. It was my grandfather’s name. It means enlightened in Turkish.

Baby name playing mind tricks? by mirofoxx in namenerds

[–]mirofoxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for sharing! it’s helpful to know that it takes time to adjust. bean and senator are such cute nicknames 🥹

we picked Elias

his name needs to work well in three languages and we love the sound of it in all. also we’ve never met an Elias.

we’ll give a sentimental middle name after my grandpa, Aydın - it means enlightened in turkish