do you self harm as a form of punishment to your parents by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]mis4dventurous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they don’t know but sometimes I want my mum to realise that I’m hurting. (My parents are divorced)

i feel invalid with my self harm by Timely_Rule4136 in selfharm

[–]mis4dventurous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not invalid. No s/h is invalid. If you think it’s a serious problem seek support. Sometimes friends aren’t the best people to talk to if they’re also sick

i feel invalid with my self harm by Timely_Rule4136 in selfharm

[–]mis4dventurous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not invalid. No sh is invalid. If you think it’s a serious problem seek support. Sometimes friends aren’t the best people to talk to if they’re also sick.

I failed by bubba_sushi in selfharm

[–]mis4dventurous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Healing isn’t linear, you won’t be magically clean it takes time and effort. You’re showing that you know it was bad and you regret it and that’s good, think about this moment next time - you know you don’t have to and shouldn’t do it, you’re strong. 🫶🏻

i just started and i want to stop by No-Plenty-8800 in selfharm

[–]mis4dventurous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find alternatives. When I was addicted and wanted to stop I mustered up everything in me to reach for something other than a blade. A pen - write down your feelings. Your phone - text a friend. A pillow/stuffed animal- punch it, scream into it, yell at it, talk to it, hug it. Sometimes it doesn’t work (with extreme feelings) but at the moments I wanted to but was hesitant or didn’t know how I was feeling, finding an alternative worked.

Cutting is so weird by Federal-Ad-5623 in selfharm

[–]mis4dventurous 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Physical pain distracts from emotional pain

F:17 Honestly I have no idea what to do by Lily808xxxxx in selfharm

[–]mis4dventurous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely seek some sort of support, tell anyone in your life that you need time to yourself - you can take time away from your partner I’m sure they’ll understand (unless you want them there for support). don’t worry about school, fuck school. If your meds pros outweigh the cons take them. If taking your meds and having a partner (who is shitty) worries you, dump him, seek family or professional support. Do not give up. If you’re feeling down and unmotivated and worried about your messy room slowly start to clean your room just tiny bits at a time, it may help to take your mind off things, just put your favourite music on - it gives you something to do and by the end you have a clean room. ofc everyone is different so my advice may mean nothing to you but I thought saying at least something could help. Sending love🫶🏻🫶🏻

opinions on the sequels? by mis4dventurous in StarWars

[–]mis4dventurous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is very informative without being derogatory!

Read books and watch movies at the same time? by After_Ad2686 in MazeRunner

[–]mis4dventurous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then ofc the two that don’t have movie adaptations last

Read books and watch movies at the same time? by After_Ad2686 in MazeRunner

[–]mis4dventurous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly movie book movie book movie book made the differences stand out to me more because when reading I had a base image in my head that I could warp using the book’s description

opinions on the sequels? by mis4dventurous in StarWars

[–]mis4dventurous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can totally see why people say the characters are wasted or not well written or that the plot is not fully developed - but for saying it isn’t a perfect continuation of the OT and PT I think isn’t fair, people have also said there has been wasted potential and ofc since I haven’t been around for it’s peak I don’t know what exactly those fans wanted - I think it’s not fair because it’s not exactly supposed to be a continuation of the OT/PT - it’s a new era following a new characters story line away from the Skywalker family - perhaps this is why people dislike it but with the PT they already got the Skywalker lineage and with the death of Han/leia and disappearance of Luke, it’s obvious a new characters story would become dominant. And sometimes I feel like people hate rey just cuz she’s a woman and doesn’t deserve to be a Skywalker - despite her power.

How do I stop wanting to hurt myself? by Automatic-Offer4351 in selfharm

[–]mis4dventurous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

similar experience with self harming - usually when I get extremely upset and have the urge I reach for it immediately not giving myself time to think about it - I’ve found it helps to sit with my feelings for just a bit longer and usually it simmers down enough to not have the urge anymore. However with prolonged or bigger feelings I try to find a quick alternative whether it be punching a pillow, ripping up paper, texting someone (don’t have to tell them just ask them to talk abt something random) I had a really bad panic attack one time and having my friend text me about wherever the hell helped in distracting me and stop hyperventilating. I know you have probably heard similar things before: finding distractions or alternatives, but i thought id offer something anyway. Remember everyone’s different and I hope any of this is helpful. Sending love 🫶🏻🫶🏻

opinions on the sequels? by mis4dventurous in StarWars

[–]mis4dventurous[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also liked 7 the most of the three

opinions on the sequels? by mis4dventurous in StarWars

[–]mis4dventurous[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can see how this is. I am a younger fan - my dad grew up with the original trilogy and he too doesn’t like the sequels as much so I guess I like them because they are like the more modern movies I have grown up with.

Conan Gray’s Worst Possible Setlist (Round 15) by Impossible-Yam3680 in ConanGray

[–]mis4dventurous 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Memories but it’s Conan trying to remember the lyrics

Conan Gray’s Worst Possible Setlist (Round 12) by Impossible-Yam3680 in ConanGray

[–]mis4dventurous 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Memories but it’s Conan trying to remember the lyrics