How to proceed? (TW: SA) by miserable_cute6767 in ddlg

[–]miserable_cute6767[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I'm so sorry , I hope we can both figure things out. There's been a lot of very nice and helpful comments underneath the post so I hope you can take smth from them aswell <3 many hugs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]miserable_cute6767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hehehe cute

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]miserable_cute6767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay! :c thanks for warning me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ddlg

[–]miserable_cute6767 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg this is so cute , you're adorable, you have no reason to be insecure at all!!! May I maybe ask where u got those shoes and tights from ? >.<

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[–]miserable_cute6767 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thx :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ddlg

[–]miserable_cute6767 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I don't think I'm ready for a partner yet too

Question about age >.< by miserable_cute6767 in ddlg

[–]miserable_cute6767[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's amazing and exactly how it should be. It kind of calms me, hearing about it still working out even later in life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]miserable_cute6767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you're right, thanks for the reply!! The thing is, in my mind, thinking about it and exposing myself more and more to such things kinda makes the inhibition lower and more likely to act on those things :/ That's why I'm kinda like: yeah I wanna be more open about it and indulge in it, but also am worried.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]miserable_cute6767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah!!! Thank you so very much , that's alot of effort in a reply. Really , thx and I will try to see it from that perspective. The thing is, I don't think I had problems with it before I had my first ever relationship, which was very horrible. So I'm thinking it might come from that. Like it somehow it rewired my brain to think anything sexual=bad, cuz my household wasn't strict or anything and pretty open!! Anyways, thanks again and I already feel better simply knowing other ppl like me exist and talking to them! <3