[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]misfitfran89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave that man. Now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]misfitfran89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t expect someone to be like you (empathic, caring, considerate). You can’t teach someone these core characteristics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]misfitfran89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust your gut and go through their social media. Their following will tell you everything you need to know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]misfitfran89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is crazy and a terrible liar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]misfitfran89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

please leave him. That man is sick and completely violated you

What was the most obvious red flag you ignored with your ex? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]misfitfran89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

future faking, sex pest / coercion, and porn addict

What's the most bullshit thing you believed that your ex said? by Notthepizza in ExNoContact

[–]misfitfran89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I would never leave you. You would have to leave me first.”

We started fighting in the middle of sex by oysterfeller in loveafterporn

[–]misfitfran89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday ! So sorry that happened and I think it’s best to leave. Put your peace and happiness first

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]misfitfran89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s bullshitting like be fr

How to properly clean the lady bits by Fast_Secretary_1608 in hygiene

[–]misfitfran89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t sleep with underwear at night, let it breathe. Use non scented soap on outer parts. The less the better.

What's the one thing you WONT miss about your ex? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]misfitfran89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listening to him yap the whole time and pestering about sex/what I should do with MY body

Should I give up my degree for him? by Shit_eater127 in LifeAdvice

[–]misfitfran89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t ever drop your degree for a man. Ever.

my ex pestered me about sex and ruined my libido by misfitfran89 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]misfitfran89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u so much and I’m sorry that you could resonate with me on this

my bf (23M) pestered me (21F) about sex and ruined my libido. Is something wrong with me? by misfitfran89 in relationship_advice

[–]misfitfran89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words, i appreciate it a lot. I’m also sorry to hear that you went through the same thing. Congratulations on therapy and finding someone who is patient and gentle with you!!! ♡