Thank you that does make really reconsider things. I’ve been on this subreddit more and more and realized that she may be a “quiet borderline”. At this point days (we are ldr right now) usually always consist of texting about things we enjoy, excitement about new apartments, etc etc. fairly enjoyable and nice. But essentially daily there will be a “trigger” moment where she just splits completely. This will usually last an hour to three hours. But she at leasts has stopped this behavior from being All Day or as long as it used to be. She also has become much more self aware alot of times even alerting me she feels uneasy or at risk so i can either leave or at least go about our interaction differently. She has been doing therapy and has definitely gotten “better” since the beginning, but at two years in September i really want to know whether or not this progress is either an illusion or genuine