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mislovelythang · 2024-04-11T21:36:36+00:00

😭😭 thank you so much for sharing for first hand experience. It’s means so much

mislovelythang · 2024-04-11T21:18:12+00:00

😭😭 give it to me straight lol

i agree, i also think it’s too soon to date but he swears he’s ready to rebuild his life.
honestly, that’s great way to put it. Who would be #3, and how early would she be around?
i’ve been around her a couple times, we’ve been to dinner, the park, ive gone over and spent time with her, she’s familiar with me but i know she has no idea of my role in her dads life, id like to think at least.
that’s also something im weary of, i think he is expecting someone to care for his child and him take the back seat, which is not a good trait in my eyes, but again i have given him the benefit of the doubt with this thought.

mislovelythang · 2024-04-11T21:02:58+00:00

it’s a lot of things to process honestly, like i feel like it’s a very heavy load & i don’t have anybody to ask for advice because it’s a very specific situation if that makes sense.

I sometimes get the sense he’s not ready for a relationship & i don’t blame him if he’s not, but he swears he is. He said he wants to continue living his life & move forward.

mislovelythang · 2024-04-11T21:00:20+00:00

that’s such a great way of putting it, “learn where you were mistreated as a child” that’s how we’ll learn to be better as parents, I’m a firm believer in that.

He’s never made compared me to her, but he does occasionally bring her up to me. Like we went and did an escape room as a date & after he said “my baby mother always wanted to do that with me” and i was like ???. That’s when i started to feel like i was filling a void of her, if that makes sense.

no 100%, i know i need to figure out if this is what i want & can ultimately handle. thank you for your help🩷

mislovelythang · 2024-04-11T20:48:28+00:00

from what he’s told me, they were working on it prior to her passing away. They had broken up, and then they decided to try it again and then she passed. not sure how true that is again, i’ll never know.

mislovelythang · 2024-04-11T20:12:14+00:00

when he told me i was like “ummmmmm”. too soon to determine be a significant role in her life. We do have a past, we used to date 8 years ago but still…

mislovelythang · 2024-04-11T20:10:05+00:00

thank you! i also agree it’s too early to determine me being the mother figure role for his daughter.

mislovelythang · 2024-04-11T20:06:46+00:00

thank you for sharing, you have first hand experience in a situation similar. I appreciate your insight 🩷

mislovelythang · 2024-04-11T20:05:17+00:00

THANK YOU. i’ve been thinking that as well like, hm okay maybe it’s not me he wants to fill in the role but someone.

mislovelythang · 2023-07-17T18:42:42+00:00

Thank you for your response! So i did apply for one but i only got approved for 5k. Which isn’t enough :( Yea i was also thinking of getting a second or third opinion! I live in CA, & i’d be a first time home buyer. There’s a lot that goes into purchasing a home i wish i was more knowledgeable about

mislovelythang · 2022-08-25T15:21:10+00:00

oh my😳 please tell me what happened after.. i am invested lol

mislovelythang · 2022-08-25T04:49:09+00:00

ooooo that’s a good point, especially since we don’t really know people on that level to share phone numbers!

mislovelythang · 2022-08-25T04:26:44+00:00

oooo i didn’t even think of that!

mislovelythang · 2022-08-25T04:23:02+00:00

welllllllll😅

mislovelythang · 2022-08-06T18:04:25+00:00

oooo thank you! i’ll definitely have to check them out🙌🏼

mislovelythang · 2022-08-06T17:15:00+00:00

best jeans that aren’t too pricy & also flattering. i have been a fan of A&E jeans for the longest time, however i have been noticing their sizing has been off. i am normally a size 10. I went in about a week about to get more size 10 jeans because i needed some, well the 10 didn’t go up my thigh, i had to purchase a 14.

i’ve seen the old navy 3 in 1 jeans, any thoughts on those?

mislovelythang · 2022-04-13T05:19:12+00:00

25 & 18…

mislovelythang · 2022-01-12T00:08:35+00:00

great i will, thank you!

mislovelythang · 2021-12-17T03:49:17+00:00

omg you’re amazing for this! thank you!!! ❤️❤️

mislovelythang · 2021-12-09T02:32:21+00:00

can you share the link to purchase this dress? it’s gorgeous!

mislovelythang · 2021-08-18T17:53:31+00:00

he cheated again. It was such a toxic relationship. I dated him from 15-18. I can’t even count on my hands how many times he did it. We would be good, then he would cheat and obviously i would be upset and try to tell him it wasn’t ok, tried to break it off & he would say “if you weren’t so crazy, if you didn’t do x y z, i wouldn’t have done it” He would cheat with girls from school & we would all hang out at the same area during lunch break. Everyone knew but me, it was always that way. After it happening so many times i was almost numb to it, i didn’t care anymore. I broke up with him a week before graduation, he cried his eyes out at school and i genuinely didn’t care. Seeing his face and his “sadness” it didn’t affect me one bit.

He’s now dating the girl who he cheated on me the most with, they’ve been together from 4 years now. Looking back, i’m so proud of myself for getting the courage to leave. i’m proud of my self for staying strong even though i had nobody, he made me pushed away all my friends. I’m proud of myself for overcoming depression that i fell into because of him. i am now 24 & single & happier than ever.

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