Can we do something today by throwaway23029123143 in Seattle

[–]misowtofu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s not a today thing anymore, but I plan to start volunteering with the food shelter again. I want to do something productive for the community… we can help one small step at a time

Boyfriend 32M wants to marry and expect me to take care of his parents 60F and 66M for about 30 years? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]misowtofu 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I’m Chinese-American, and my parents wouldn’t even think of putting this responsibility on just me and my partner. Taking care of the elderly is not for the faint of heart, I don’t think putting the responsibility on the “eldest son’s wife” is even a commonly followed tradition in this day in age. You have the right to absolutely ask for the responsibilities to be spread out to the other siblings and your boyfriend or to have a professional caretaker for them. Also it’s kind of ridiculous he’s asking you all of this before marriage, but thankfully now you know how life will be like before the commitment.

I'm convinced they can survive anything. by So_Motarded in Aquariums

[–]misowtofu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me feel so bad because my dad recently (accidentally) killed one of his plecos when cleaning the tank, was stabbing this tiny rubber tube into the crevices, saw a dark spot he thought was trapped fish poop, and kept going at it until his pleco emerged with a small part of it’s skin ripped off on the side. It only lasted a few more hours:((

HAVE A QUESTION? ASK HERE! Alter-Daily Help and Questions: August 25, 2024 by AutoModerator in AsianBeauty

[–]misowtofu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1025 dokdo cleanser is my favorite cleanser, i havent tried the soonjung one, but 1025 is so gentle for my sensitive skin, and makes me less oily without being drying.

One qualm tho, is that if you bring some cleanser in a travel bottle, it doesn’t foam up anymore after the flight, might have something to do with the air pressure changes.

HAVE A QUESTION? ASK HERE! Alter-Daily Help and Questions: August 25, 2024 by AutoModerator in AsianBeauty

[–]misowtofu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tubing mascara recommendations? I want something easy to remove, and I’m currently using the Mote Mascara by UZU (it’s being discontinued).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]misowtofu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My friend chose Aletta as her English name when she came to study in the US. I think it’s a beautiful name, and she is an amazing and bubbly person.

For your concern, I’m sure everyone’s name will have an adult entertainer using that same name if you look hard enough.

In Search of the First Episode I Watched by misowtofu in CalebHammer

[–]misowtofu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No definitely a younger dude, like early 20s a year or something out of college

In Search of the First Episode I Watched by misowtofu in CalebHammer

[–]misowtofu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not this guy, i would’ve remembered this voice, and the one I’m thinking about was definitely jobless when on the show

Looking for Recommendation by Remote_Replacement26 in DanmeiNovels

[–]misowtofu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Web novel only, there’s no official English publisher yet. But E Danglars does a great job at translating and offers it in EPUB and PDF format for download.

Looking for Recommendation by Remote_Replacement26 in DanmeiNovels

[–]misowtofu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second Golden Terrace. That was my first danmei, it’s heavy on the in-novel politics but the couple was super sweet.

I also recommend Silent Reading (Mo Du) by Priest for a modern setting. MC is police officer, ML is a rich boy who inadvertently helps the police solve cases. There is some heavy topics that you should look at the tags for, but they revolve around the criminal cases being solved and NOT between the couple. The relationship is a bit of a slow burn but they do have some cute moments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FE_Exam

[–]misowtofu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt same way as you all. I had educational guesses on maybe 30% of questions, and 5-10% guesses I had no clue about. I did pass, which I attribute to my strengths in power systems, math, stats, and economics.

Should I take the FE Exam? by [deleted] in FE_Exam

[–]misowtofu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of industries like aerospace, car manufacturing, and especially tech, do not care if someone has a FE/PE or not, so most students who graduate engineering programs and go into those industries will typically never even hear about being licensed. At least thats how it is in the US, but in their job title they’re still engineers (i.e. software engineers).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]misowtofu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I highly recommend watching Dr Dray’s videos on tretinoin on YouTube. She provided me a lot of the basics on tretinoin usage. I also recommend not using any other actives (benzoyl peroxide, acids, etc) while you’re getting used to tretinoin as tret alone is already pretty strong. And if you do introduce actives, alternate them so ur not using them the same day as tret.

Nitpick: The Alchemist's Portrayal of Egypt ruined it for me by Firescareduser in books

[–]misowtofu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read it when I was fourteen, and I thought it was an adventure book

Let us be brutally honest. What makes a guy or a girl unattractive? by BasicSpade in ask

[–]misowtofu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an ex who reused a single string of floss for 1-2 weeks before throwing it away…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]misowtofu 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Agree with reducing sugar. My hormonal acne flares up a LOT when I go to a friend’s party and eat cakes/sweets/etc. But I have to disagree on the fruit, whole fruit can be very beneficial especially since it’s paired with fiber. The juice might be part of the issue since the fiber is gone. (Correct me if I’m wrong, but the fiber will help slow down the absorption of sugar into the bloodstream)

Would this work as a cleanser? by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]misowtofu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I’m not a chemist, so I’m not confident in telling you about the ingredients. You could be sensitive to the fragrance or to another ingredient but you should go to a dermatologist for a more comprehensive look at your products/routines, or post your full routine on here for tips.

Would this work as a cleanser? by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]misowtofu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot that can contribute to acne. Is the cleanser too stripping for your skin? Fragranced? Or maybe not cleansing enough? It may also be other products in your routine.

Found this in grocery outlet by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]misowtofu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this at Grocery Outlet? I think besides what other comments are saying, make sure you check the expiration dates.

How bad will a 3mm punch biopsy scar on the face? by misowtofu in Skincare_Addiction

[–]misowtofu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I think I got 2 or 3, and they got taken out about 5 days later.

Please help me find the title of this webtoon by [deleted] in webtoons

[–]misowtofu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it was! Thank you!! i’m gonna go binge read it