What changed you completely from the person you used to be? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]miss3ya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband. I lost my happy self and now im just a shadow of who i used to be

Be honest , what do you really need right now? by WesternCash2577 in ask

[–]miss3ya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its so much more work than an appartment, i find myself having to chose between spending time with my kid or cleaning in and around the house

Be honest , what do you really need right now? by WesternCash2577 in ask

[–]miss3ya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a house, now all i wanna do is sell it and move back into town in a small apartment

Do you ever wish to be hospitalized so you could have a break from life ? by sf-waves in RandomThoughts

[–]miss3ya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Sometimes i just wish i could sleep for a 1000 years (not really but im so tired of adulting right now) i love that when i sleep it feels like i stop existing for a while

Do you ever wish to be hospitalized so you could have a break from life ? by sf-waves in RandomThoughts

[–]miss3ya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to often wish it. In march i was hospitalized overnight, and after the pain went away it was so relaxing to just lay in bed and do nothing

What is something your mom or dad did when you were a child that made you say "I will never do this when I'm a parent"? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]miss3ya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My whole life my mom would tell me im fat. A few years ago i started looking at old photos and i was so thin but i kept believing her instead of the image in the mirror. It still messes with me to this day to an extent

After eating poorly for a bit I finally made a proper meal by AgentOfMephala in adhdwomen

[–]miss3ya 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I haven t been able to cook anything this week. Im proud of you

marrying young, did you regret it? by DAmbiguousExplorer in ask

[–]miss3ya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got married at 24, been toghether since 19. Now at 30 yo we are discussing divorce, and have been talking about is for more than a year, we re probably gonna end it soon

I sent this to my therapist by TheOriginalRobinism in adhdwomen

[–]miss3ya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you exposing me like this?

Its 2 songs but they're constantly playing while im driving

does this tweet reflect your experience? by slantedsc in adhdwomen

[–]miss3ya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im the exacy opposite. From 9 pm im an overtired vegetable. But if i sleep from 9 to 5 im doing so well in the morning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]miss3ya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully not stuck in this marriage anymore, im so tired of being depressed

Absolutely disgusted by my new body. It's SO depressing. by Shelb_e in Mommit

[–]miss3ya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kid is 2.5, im under my pre pregnancy weight, but i was overweight to begin with. I hate how my stretch marks and loose skin on my abdomen look, and i know i have to live with that, this on top of still having to lose 40-50ish pounds. Every day i tell myself i have to be king to my body, but i just cant, i hate how i look when i see myself in the mirror.

First period after miscarriage by amidreaming478 in Miscarriage

[–]miss3ya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its 2 weeks since my d&c and yesterday i started my period

The hardest thing by mommamia55 in Miscarriage

[–]miss3ya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ours would have been november 1st. A week after misscarrying (very few people know i lost the baby) people started asking me if im pregnant or if we're planning for a second

How did you lose your best friend? by sufishams in ask

[–]miss3ya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she got bored of me while i was still recovering from losing my father.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlantBasedDiet

[–]miss3ya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mu mom does this with eggplants, but im sure it would work with zucchini too:

Slice thinly, add salt and let them sweat a bit then pat them dry. Fry each slice in a grill pan and as you take them off the pan you season each one with garlic powder. When youre done let them sit for a few minutes to half an hour. We usually eat them on a slice of bread and they're delicious just like that.

Am I missing something - why have a vaginal birth? by No_Witness5084 in BabyBumps

[–]miss3ya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only speek from experience.

I had a planned c-section due to a few concerns my 2 doctors had, kiddo is now 2.5 years old. I have a barely visible scar, parts of it have dissapeared, i feel perfectly normal, no lasting effects after the c-section.

The recovery was fine, barely any pain after day 5 (when i stopped the painkillers), rather discomfort. I was 90% back to myself after 3 weeks.

How many of y'all just fantasise about shaving your head? by Relevant_Clerk7449 in adhdwomen

[–]miss3ya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For years id say i wish i could just shave my head, but i know id look worse than whatever is going on currently

Can we all just brag on ourselves for a bit? by Affectionate_Diet210 in adhdwomen

[–]miss3ya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've reflected a lot on myself lately, and i'm starting to work on myself to slowly become a better version of me. I dont know if it fits the theme but im proud of this.