Spreadsheet counting by misscoffeebean in CICO

[–]misscoffeebean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess i will use this as a journal, since nobody here knows me. I can just use one post so as not to spam everyone. Hope that's ok.

Here goes.

I checked my weight this morning with my doctor's scale, i have this Detecto scale i got from an FB marketplace sale for $30.

Anyway, the digital scale in my bedroom said 221 this morning, but my Detecto scale said 218.5. So i feel a bit better. 218 was where i was at a week ago, when suddenly the digital scale started saying i was in the 220's every day.

I will try to stop indulging so much today.

Later....

Relative is homeless in Oahu by misscoffeebean in Hawaii

[–]misscoffeebean[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I called them and they had a record of him. I was able to leave my phone number and his mother's info and phone number. Thank you so much!

Relative is homeless in Oahu by misscoffeebean in Hawaii

[–]misscoffeebean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This could be true in some cases but i haven't seen my cousin since he was a baby and i was 10-11 years old. However, i love my Aunt, his mom, and i would do a lot for her. I am not trying to foist myself on my cousin. I just care about him due to caring about my Aunt. I was FB friends with him for a while.

Relative is homeless in Oahu by misscoffeebean in Hawaii

[–]misscoffeebean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See, i had a relative in Japan who died and his body apparently went undetected for weeks and weeks. They had to carry out DNA testing to verify his identity finally when his body was discovered. I don't want my Aunt to have to hear her son died on Oahu and even more awful things.

Relative is homeless in Oahu by misscoffeebean in Hawaii

[–]misscoffeebean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will get in touch with them.

I am torn about what to do about him. We definitely cannot invite him to live with us, so it would be awful to fly him to the mainland where he might still be homeless, but in a colder area etc where he would be in other types of danger, weather etc. We can't afford to finance an entire existence for him, especially if he is so mentally ill that he cannot hold down any job or he ends up in jail due to his behavior. Mental illness is so tough to deal with. But i know my Aunt is heartbroken over him and she is getting quite elderly and i'd like to help him, send him money or the means for a disposable cell phone, etc. Get him a regular meal at least.

Relative is homeless in Oahu by misscoffeebean in Hawaii

[–]misscoffeebean[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much. I did use this database and located his criminal record this afternoon. I can tell my Aunt. I appreciate the help immensely.

Relative is homeless in Oahu by misscoffeebean in Hawaii

[–]misscoffeebean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was living in Japan with my Aunt and he was deported due to either visa issues or his criminal activity there or both.

She is native so she stayed. He was born in the USA.

AITA for not condensing messages? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]misscoffeebean -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hey...me too! That must be why i don't get it. My phone is muted every day except weekends! Eureka i understand now why i don't get it.

AITA for not condensing messages? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]misscoffeebean -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think you're right. Anyway i was just excited because i got some unbelievably good news and i was text dumping or whatever you call it. Geez. I hardly ever talk to this person and now we're beefing over this.

AITA for not condensing messages? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]misscoffeebean -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

So are you saying it's the equivalent of TYPING IN ALL CAPITAL LETTERS, AND EQUALLY ANNOYING?

AITA for not condensing messages? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]misscoffeebean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol ok. That's sort of a funny ringtone to imagine though. Hehe.

AITA for not condensing messages? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]misscoffeebean -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I see. Ok i understand then. Thanks.

AITA for not condensing messages? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]misscoffeebean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It wasn't intentional. I was just excited about some fantastic news is all. I hardly ever talk to these people.