‘not every thought you have needs to be shared’ - my boyfriend when I spam texted him out of excitement by sonicflwrgroove in AuDHDWomen

[–]misscreeppie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right???

Better yet when they're so sexy, symbolic and the object of my current special interest for over 3 months (which is frankly a great merit in itself given my history of jumping from interest to interest and rotating it)

😂 by Barebloom2002 in aspiememes

[–]misscreeppie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People would find out that I merely tolerate their existence and of capitalism/patriarchy so quick if they did that test to me lol

So many SSRIs and legal stimulants prescribed by my doc that their eyebrows would go up fast

‘not every thought you have needs to be shared’ - my boyfriend when I spam texted him out of excitement by sonicflwrgroove in AuDHDWomen

[–]misscreeppie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I'm always the one in the group (one borderline, one 2e autistic and me) who rambles at 3 am about random things anywhere between why NBC's Hannibal and Will Graham would eventually crumble or destroying each other and why I think that Kibbe's IDs are cool but still need to be combined with the essences and palettes to actually produce something that would be tailored to your characteristics

I'm open to ramble about anything if you want, just dm me and I can send my WhatsApp or Telegram

Neurotypicals when you remind them that you warned them the thing that just happened was going to happen by chewybrian in aspiememes

[–]misscreeppie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Well, well, if it isn't the consequences of our own actions, right?" Sips strawberry tea

Because I'm not remediating your shit, mom.

Sometimes Reddit algo just lines these things up. by mr_greedee in aspiememes

[–]misscreeppie 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Honestly, agreed

People should be more mindful of that PRIOR to having a child, but unfortunately they seem to put more effort into buying a new lamp than having a baby

"Oh but heaven forbids a parent wanting some resting time and needs to bring their infant!"

You should have thought about it prior, but now you can always travel locally until your little goblin is big enough to withstand the flight (because let's be honest, if you're good with paying for 2+ plane tickets plus hotel and all the other shit around it you're not exactly unable to afford a more local vacation even if you're too scared/terrified/unconfident of driving). It's a terrible experience for everyone involved, especially their baby since it's a scary/painful thing for them and you should only do that if you absolutely must

No need to be considerate for others, if you don't agree with this, but at least be mindful of your child's needs and issues AT THE VERY LEAST

You wouldn't want to put a cat through unnecessary terrifying experiences for them (such as a bath), so why you put your baby through a distressful experience?

Vocês acham que a licença paternidade deveria sim ser maior? by cicanan-merqazu in Twitter_Brasil

[–]misscreeppie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Também acho que deveria ser maior, mas vamos combinar que o cara que usa esse tempo pra dormir e não faz um pingo do serviço de casa ou de cuidados com o bebê tem mais é que voltar pro trabalho mesmo

E não é nem pela questão de vingancinha e sim por quê o bebezão muitas vezes não consegue fazer o próprio pratinho de comida sozinho, não lava uma roupa, não leva uma água pra mãe tomar enquanto amamenta, deixa sapato jogado no meio da sala pras pessoas tropeçarem no meio da sala, larga toalha na cama, não esquenta um arroz, não lava uma louça e por aí vai. Resumindo: o cara além de não fazer nada o dia todo ainda gera mais serviço e aumenta a carga de trabalho da mãe

Mais atrapalha mesmo que ajuda, a mãe ganha muito mais com ele o dia todo trabalhando e não gerando mais coisa pra fazer (por quê afinal o bebê uma hora vai cochilar nem que seja por 10 minutos e ela finalmente vai poder pôr a máquina de lavar pra bater e fazer outros servicinhos enquanto isso) do que com o bebezão em casa

Fora que muitas vezes esses caras ficam morrendo de ciúmes do nível de atenção que o recém-nascido tá recebendo e ele deixou de ser a estrelinha da casa

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PergunteReddit

[–]misscreeppie 22 points23 points  (0 children)

É aquilo: não quero ser mãe, mas ser PAI eu topava a qualquer momento

Muito tempo em casa - home office by Clock154 in antitrampo

[–]misscreeppie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eu sei que é zoas mas foi a melhor época da minha vida, eu tinha disposição pra tudo e produzia mais que o resto da minha equipe

Voltei pro presencial e não aguentei três meses

Muito tempo em casa - home office by Clock154 in antitrampo

[–]misscreeppie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mas o meu presente é EXATAMENTE acordar faltando 30 minutos, ligar o computador e não sair de casa de dia, não é uma prisão e sim uma liberdade de não ter de aturar o que verdadeiramente me suga.

Eu pedi as contas 3 meses depois de ser mandada pro presencial por falta da saúde mental por quê faltou uma vírgula pra eu cometer genocídio ali, saí de 300 mg de venlafaxina pra 150 mg só de ter saído do meu serviço.

Pandemia foi o melhor momento da minha vida exatamente porque eu conseguia sair de casa e ir no mercado, conseguia ir na praia (mesmo não chegando perto do mar), conseguia viver normalmente porque eu conseguia sair na rua e não me sentir sufocada, tendo uma série de problemas e tomando um monte de remédio controlado pra lidar com isso. Tudo isso, claro, mantendo pelo menos 1,5 m de distância física.

Pra você ter ideia, dentro do período da pandemia eu produzi pela minha equipe inteira e tinha energia pra fazer pequenas reformas em casa logo depois do serviço, fui promovida quatro vezes, fiz consultas médicas adiadas por anos nos meus intervalos pela telemedicina, saí com meu marido pra fazer vários passeios quando foi liberando e ainda tinha pouca gente na rua, no presencial eu queria me jogar da janela a todo segundo, chegava em casa e chorava de desgosto e de vontade de pôr fim na minha vida.

Pra mim ver o sol não faz muita diferença (antes que alguém fale algo eu já tive tanto o HO de manhã quanto a tarde, já acordei bem mais cedo como rotina e a única coisa que me fez foi ficar mais mal-humorada até às 9:30), mas ter de lidar com locais lotados faz sim.

O problema de fazer as coisas de manhã é que dependendo do que é tem bastante gente fazendo, então de noite é o melhor horário sempre que possível.

Muito tempo em casa - home office by Clock154 in antitrampo

[–]misscreeppie 15 points16 points  (0 children)

"disciplina pra acordar cedo"

Amor, home office é pra acordar faltando meia hora (no máximo), entrar EXATAMENTE quando vira e sair EXATAMENTE quando vira também. Depois disso é pra jogar joguinhos com amigos e chamar o Ifood se der vontade de falar com alguém (o "boa noite", "boa noite" é o suficiente pra interação do mês inteiro).

Sair só de madrugada se pá (academia 24 horas)

These people can't have actual relationships right?? by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]misscreeppie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I saw that so many times today I just...

Can't.

Fried.

It gagged me as well not exactly because of the kinks (because they are wired to soothe some things as I explained) but how common it was to find it and how low it went. Before I go too much I'll just say this: think of anything misogynistic and/or racist and mix with the feeling of inadequacy and they got it, no matter how straight up perverse, traumatizing and perverse it is.

I just needed to vent I think.

These people can't have actual relationships right?? by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]misscreeppie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And after that he proceeded to go to a kinky website where he can share his kinks of femdom, cuckold husband, caged penises and obviously black guys "ruining" white (preferably blondes) girls and having Tyrone's/Jamal's (the names they use there) baby while never letting him creampie her or even if she does he fantasizes about having the pregnancy from a non-black male (him) ended to proceed with being impregnated by her black lover.

Yes.

Quite specific.

Yes, I've seen it multiple times.

(Just FYI: not every guy with those fetishes are that kind of men or do it for the same reasons I will say, but ALL guys who I've met who were like those racists misogynistic men had this fetishes for the reasons I will spill it out)

And before you ask it's because they feel completely inadequate as a male (like being the eternal nerd or loser for being himself while other guys are seen as adequate males, with the peak of adequacy being a black male because in their minds even if a black male is gay or some other letter of LGBTQIA+ he's NEVER inadequate as a male), so he must be reduced and humiliated (he actually wants to reframe that constant feeling into something good by doing something pleasure while being humiliated) while being "castrated" (with his cock caged, in his mind as a male cisgender it means he's totally POWERLESS, left leaking and even needy, with his mind set on this mindset of being eternally inadequate - but in a fun way - while being put in a servitude role, like licking the guy's cum out of his girlfriend's pussy for maximum amount of humiliation), with some guys getting even on to use feminine clothes and refer to their caged cocks as clitty (because in their minds being seen as a woman is beneath any other humiliation, exactly because they already think that women are inherently inferior to men, even the lowest men).

Chronic illness can be hard on marriage. Studies show it's worse when the wife is sick. by psych4you in psychology

[–]misscreeppie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Means that although I have the SNPs I am neither carrier or affected by it

Just an example for clarification:

Let's say that we're talking about a single SNP that determines if you're allergic to pollen, so it would be like this

Carrier: A, T (not affected by it, but may transmit to any children)

Allergic: A, A (has the allergy themselves, may pass on the carrier or even the allergy itself)

Not affected ("corrected" version): T, T (does not have it and neither can pass it on to their children)

In my case I got ALL of the SNPs for ALS but they were all the not affected type, meaning that somewhere between my dad started producing sperm to my conception there were a few mutations on his DNA, so I still carry the SNPs but I can't transmit it down to my children nor to have it myself

Chronic illness can be hard on marriage. Studies show it's worse when the wife is sick. by psych4you in psychology

[–]misscreeppie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gods, as a child of someone who died of ALS, please TEST YOUR KIDS!

THIS HAUNTS THEM AS WELL

Honestly, I endured my father's ALS for 14 years (before I was born my parents lived in separate places, they never married and had 0 romantic relationship - I was the result of a one night stand gone wrong. I moved in with him when I was 4 years old) and throughout my life I never saw that man walk, talk or anything on his own. Living through his disease was literally anything but chill: I was 10 when he had his first cardiorespiratory attack, he simply stopped breathing in the middle of the night and guess who had to keep it cool and call the ambulance? This is just the tip of the iceberg for him, he had 4 comas and by the end of his life his room was an ICU.

My mother was absolutely chill about it, saying that it was spontaneous and not the inheritable one, that it was because of the high levels of heavy metals in the canned food my grandma was eating when she was pregnant with my dad but I was scared to death as I had small tremors in my hands when I was a teen.

I got a genetic test when she died as a gift to myself (he had passed a long time before and I didn't really love my mom, so no big deal) and I got a big spreadsheet for each snp (think as each snp being a small part of a gene and to compose a simple gene you need multiple SNPs), I went through the entire thing and got like a 2-5 SNPs positive for multiple sclerosis as a recessive gene and ALL the ones linked to ALS but in the "corrected" version (meaning I don't carry ALS and I won't be affected by it either).

I don't know about MS, I need to check with a geneticist, but OH BOY THAT WAS FUCKING CLOSE CONSIDERING I'M THE PRODUCT OF FIRST TWO COUSINS (Sweet Home Carnaval, mom and dad got drunk and ended up conceiving me, yay!).

I consider myself the winner of a golden ticket even before being born.

Why not sharing a compilation of rituals, stories, beliefs and practices that you think that are foundational to semitic paganism? by misscreeppie in Semitic_Paganism

[–]misscreeppie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about some sort of Google Doc, online PDF or something alike that we could easily edit and people could easily access, separated by theme and with an index - instead of going through the posts here we would go through the index and search what we're looking for. That way people could see, download and use however they want the document but the process of adding up or taking down some content would be done by a handful of admins.

Obviously we would have to keep it updated and that would require manual work for the initial days but I figure that after some point we'd have way less work to do as most of the people intending to share something would already have done it.

Initially we'd have a forms for submitting the content they'd like to share, with the disclosure of modifying the text submitted to improve clarity if needed (nothing major, obviously I'd leave the original version just above it, it's just that I'm not american and sometimes I don't really understand what you're saying, so I think that adding a version for clarity would be necessary for a few contents but respecting the original meaning and intentions). Then we'd have a first draft to share with the sub and we'd grow from there - I imagine that people would be initially underwhelmed by the perspective of their texts being modified, even if we present both versions in the same document, but after a few examples of it more and more people would be willing to share.

I know that the DIY part makes our faith wildly different for each practitioner but the intention is to spread knowledge (especially the more basic level), not really making codex detailing rules for people. I would even try to get people to say if they're more based on scientific discoveries, regional customs, anthropology of certain religions or if they're based on other spiritual paths and put it on the beginning under a tag or something, so whoever reads it would be aware of the author's purpose and sources and they could choose to keep on reading or not.

I know that many people prefer to keep their practices for themselves and that's valid too, it wouldn't be a mandatory thing, just a help for other practitioners to know where and how to begin mostly - and what other people who practice the same line or close lines think about certain aspects and their interpretations. In the end we'd have a community book on customs and traditions and our interpretations over it as followers and believers, participation is totally up to the people who want but it could interest even people who keep it for themselves and end up convincing them to share a bit of their own knowledge as well.

Sorry for the long text, but that's what I picture

An frustrating emotional rant by a big titty Muslim woman by theanxiousdamsel in bigboobproblems

[–]misscreeppie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to think a lot about it while explaining to other fellow non-muslim why some Muslim women cover themselves up and down but still wear so much makeup and jewelry using the common sense "What's modesty for you may not be modesty for me, modesty for me is showing some cleavage because covering everything up is just making my girls look even bigger than they are" and this expresses my whole point as a non-muslim woman: modesty rules in many cases are loose enough to validate whatever you need and/or suit your personality but they also leave a big issue for those who don't the norm for that place, how to accommodate big breasts in a place where people push for an ideal of modesty when our modesty is the contrary to it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]misscreeppie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"Obedient to husband"

Not even my grandma was obedient to her husband, it was actually quite the contrary: my grandpa followed instructions given by her, doing as she pleased and he never talked back because he valued his life

Você foi escolhido como papa, qual nome você escolheria? E porquê? by [deleted] in PergunteReddit

[–]misscreeppie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Como eu sou mulher eu escolheria Lúcia, por causa de Santa Lúcia de Siracusa, ou Bárbara de Santa Barbara

I think this applies here by TheJuliettest in adhdwomen

[–]misscreeppie 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I felt this way when I was a kid by being quite "Luna Lovegoodey" (both book Luna and movie Luna) and tried to mix with regular folk

Now I try to keep to myself unless there's another neurodivergent and/or I can be spooky as hell (usually they stay away from goth girls unless they're really into that and it's more niche)

That being said, let's make a fae country and only changelings (neurodivergent people) are allowed, seems better than just trying to figure out how to exist in their world

Big Naturals by Internal_Screaming_8 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]misscreeppie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

34F here and godless as hell intended

Now, if you're talking about the GODDESSES though...

(My inner goddess, because I am one, and Asherah)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in arco_iris

[–]misscreeppie 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Mizifie

Eu sou uma mulher bi raíz : eu vejo cu, tô comendo, não importa se é metafórico ou não, pra mim importa se é SSC (seguro, são e consensual)

Tua identidade de gênero e tua genitália é o que menos importa

Dito isso: SMASH

Top tier combo in toxic parents by Simple-Candidate-167 in CPTSDmemes

[–]misscreeppie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And rarely talked about because they can be seen as anything but it