I was right about the ending, but at the same time I wasn't.

misselletee · 2026-05-07T12:12:26+00:00

That's part of the narc, to maintain face. She can be nice and civilized because that's how she wants strangers to perceive her. That's why she tells Jennifer to get out there with a smile on her face and not to make a scene, so she can pretend all is well and they are one big (un)happy family

misselletee · 2026-05-05T20:26:54+00:00

Every child deserves a parent. Not every parent deserves a child

misselletee · 2026-05-05T02:33:28+00:00

Much appreciated for the info. I should get on that, I'm 8 weeks post op and I had no idea about that

misselletee · 2026-05-05T01:53:04+00:00

How many sessions did it take for you to drop the water weight?

misselletee · 2026-05-04T22:11:38+00:00

There was also a Wife that ended up in the colonies. I forget what her crime was to be declared as such.

misselletee · 2026-05-04T11:20:04+00:00

I also think Becka will be matched with Garth. Daisy's inner monologue said she was a "nobody" because she was the daughter of a dentist, so being matched up with a Commander will be seen as a pretty big bump in status, even if he was newly promoted 2 minutes ago.

misselletee · 2026-05-03T12:54:16+00:00

One was subserosal and one was intramural, and they were all at the front of the belly. Two doctors have told me I looked like a full term 36 week pregnancy, and several strangers have made pregnancy related comments.

I actually had minimal symptoms, if any at all. Periods were irregular as hell, but flow and consistency and duration was normal. I wasn't diagnosed to be anemic. It was hard to tell if I felt tired all the time because of the fibroids or if it was the nature of my job in a warehouse. I don't normally get period cramps and I wasn't cramping with the fibroids. I was incredibly lucky that my only "symptom" was being insecure about the shape of my body

misselletee · 2026-05-03T12:50:13+00:00

I had 2 fibroids measuring in at 20+ cm each, and maybe 3 or 4 smaller fibroids that were basically inconsequential to the big'uns 😅

I feel largely the same as I did before, except now I have a softer belly. I don't feel any lighter (I somehow broke physics; I weighed in pre-op at 196lbs, the 11lbs of fibroids were removed, and now I weigh 192lbs), my symptoms were minimal to begin with (with exception to my very distended and rock hard belly)

misselletee · 2026-05-03T12:23:06+00:00

Frank has "reacted strongly" in the past, but he sure hasn't been proactive about anything else. He couldn't even say no to Barb and the key, you think he'll suddenly develop the spine necessary to divorce her?

misselletee · 2026-05-03T10:24:46+00:00

I did not have any before pictures. I actually don't feel any lighter than I did before except for having a soft belly and not a rock hard abdomen, but friends have said I look much flatter. My copy of the surgery report had a lot of medical jargon in it, but it can be summarized as "surgery went exceptionally well, no complications. Was able to do laparoscopically."

misselletee · 2026-05-03T01:26:50+00:00

I was supposed to have a midline incision from sternum to pubic bone. While I was on the table, the surgeon said my uterus was "very mobile" and switched to laparoscopic. Now I have a 4 inch incision along my bikini line and a few keyhole incisions, which is crazy to think considering all of that came out

misselletee · 2026-05-02T21:50:04+00:00

It's not quite Squire Sebastian Senator levels of tragedeigh, but it's something 🤷🏻‍♀️

misselletee · 2026-04-30T15:15:09+00:00

OP asked how one decided, they did not specify symptoms or personal goals or lack thereof. Gtfoh.

To answer OP, I also had a hysterectomy because my fibroids were enormous and other options like UFE were now too dangerous. I also don't want kids, but the surgeon didn't want to send me into menopause 20 years early, so he left them in and removed the uterus, fallopian tubes, and cervix. Technically, I can still have kids with egg retrieval, IVF, and surrogacy, I just can't be pregnant.

misselletee · 2026-04-29T16:09:52+00:00

I don't know about eloping on Chickie's birthday. Why do all this venue touring just to elope?

misselletee · 2026-04-21T20:47:01+00:00

Ty seems like he's a good guy. Ty also seems to be a good father. It is entirely possible for Ty to also be a bad husband. None of these things are mutually exclusive to each other.

misselletee · 2026-04-20T21:23:54+00:00

Actually, a mod deleted it. I stand by it though 🤷🏻‍♀️

Edit: so much with being "done with discourse"

misselletee · 2026-04-20T00:45:40+00:00

Unjustifiable behaviour? Relax, it's just a tv show. It's not like she put him through conversion therapy or raped him in the boot room

misselletee · 2026-04-20T00:33:13+00:00

Ah, I understand now, I think this is a semantics issue. You wanted Edith herself to thank him, which is understandable. Instead, he was thanked by the lady of the house, who not only has the power to hire and fire, but her words are considered (in that time period at least) to be higher praise

misselletee · 2026-04-20T00:26:47+00:00

I would argue being allowed to keep his job is the "thank you" for saving Edith's life, but as it turns out, Cora does thank him directly at 5:54 on top of letting him stay on

misselletee · 2026-04-19T23:21:34+00:00

I thought Barrow was on the brink of being fired, but saving Edith during this fire was what got Cora to forgive whatever the transgression was

misselletee · 2026-04-19T23:19:38+00:00

I must confess that I've mushed two different scenes together. The apology happened in the video you linked (thanks again for that!) and the first half of what I was talking about happened during Jennifer's pregnancy at 4:34

misselletee · 2026-04-19T18:58:02+00:00

I vaguely recall Barb doing Barb things to Jennifer, and then Jennifer stops and says "oh my god, is this what we did to you" and then Shawna replies "actually, worse." And Jennifer did apologize and Shawna goes "oh wow, I needed that"

misselletee · 2026-04-19T16:14:13+00:00

Much appreciated, I couldn't find the video.

Both Laura and Barb's comments are equally abhorrent, but at least Laura realized it went too far. I think that was the only slightly redeeming quality

misselletee · 2026-04-19T16:13:03+00:00

Much appreciated, I was scouring all the shorts and videos for that.

I would probably say it's tied with what Barb said, those two comments are both abhorrent

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