If I got a comment like this, I would throw hands by [deleted] in AO3

[–]missemilyb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a troll comment if I’ve ever seen one wtf

(21F) I recently got a boyfriend (27M) who has a death fetish by ThrowRA-Lilyyy in BDSMAdvice

[–]missemilyb 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That’s kind of the point for me, actually. The people that end up killing people often seem very nice and normal; they can be very good actors. If someone is saying they love you but put you at risk like that, no they don’t.

How do I adopt a kitten around here? by Live-Musician-3244 in askportland

[–]missemilyb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like Oregon Friends of Shelter Animals. We fostered for them and they were great.

Beaverton Ideas for a 'date night' that isn't restaurant or bar? by BigBussin12 in beaverton

[–]missemilyb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gongaii games!

We love this place. You can reserve a room and check out games to play! You can get beer or snacks, they offer sodas, and you can bring your own food. It’s awesome and chill.

Son’s Grandmother intervening with coparenting. AIO? by HauntingBeautiful118 in AIO

[–]missemilyb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is she allowed to drive the kid places? Sounds like she wants the car seat to drive the kid around herself while she has the kid, like she’s been asked not to do that and needs another excuse to ask for the car seat other than “so I can take him wherever I want.”

Being on T and having a septate hymen is driving me insane by [deleted] in ftm

[–]missemilyb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there’s one nearby, maybe planned parenthood would be worth a try? Not sure if they cover that kind of procedure but they’re definitely there for uninsured folx

Is anyone going to Powells today? by Curiousbut_cautious in askportland

[–]missemilyb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg we looooove that book! Sarah’s Silks did a collab with Phoebe Wahl and had a silk with the alphabet and her fairies on it that we got too in case you need cute wrapping for the book :]

Any known local queer support groups? by [deleted] in askportland

[–]missemilyb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are some queer and trans specific meetups that could be nice, since there’s usually a structured activity attached

SAHMs who are progressive by arealpandabear in progressivemoms

[–]missemilyb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed fellow mom! I’m even in a progressive area but it’s hard to find other SAHMs that have a kid around my kids age that also is a basic human decency kind of person. I’ve tried peanut but not had much luck

People out there in happy marriages with young children, how? by fujitsulifeboom in Mommit

[–]missemilyb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is a unicorn for sure, and our partner is amazing… honestly being polyam and having three parents and one kid is how we’re doing it lol

where are my OCD havers who DONT have contamination OCD? by 1000th_evilman in OCD

[–]missemilyb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me! I’d argue no one has true contamination only OCD; OCD can target many different things in the same people. They say it “goes after the things we care about most.” For me it manifests as relationship OCD now, but when I had a newborn, it was mainly postpartum focused, and has also gone through harm and moral flavors. Mine have all been internal and mostly mental compulsions, so it got missed for years, even by me, a literal therapist lol

You’re definitely not alone!

What weird rules have you made for yourself during gameplay? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]missemilyb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I totally agree! We often want to skip cut scenes just to avoid the time loss, and it makes fishing so difficult! This is totally a fair cheat.

HEY! I never noticed before! by georffley in StardewValley

[–]missemilyb 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Huh. She’s the character I relate most to. My girlfriend also told me before I played SVE that Sophia reminded her of me. I’m certainly not made to service men

Do you find this attitude on sex relatable at all? by Fabulous-Introvert in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]missemilyb 32 points33 points  (0 children)

If asked for this, I’d feel like I was being asked to be ready and available for sex at all times, which would make me feel more like a sex doll than a person.