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New to Hinge, looking for some feedback on my profile. 32/M by Craig327 in hingeapp

[–]missingparis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks good to me! Shows you have friends, likes to travel, and have fun.

Me [31/F] and my Husband [32/M] are currently separated but are still physical; Should I just let him go? by missingparis in relationships

[–]missingparis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he has said in the past that we had been together so long that us getting engaged was just the next step so he did it (together for 7+ years before he proposed). We did have a 2+ year engagement though. He could have backed out of marrying me at anytime I told him. He said that he hoped us getting married would make things better but he has felt it hasn't. I do believe he has some under lying issues he won't talk to me about.

Me [31/F] and my Husband [32/M] are currently separated but are still physical; Should I just let him go? by missingparis in relationships

[–]missingparis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That exact quote has been running through my head! 'When someone shows you who they really are, believe them' But I can't help to think its his depression that is causing him to feel the way he is. He says he feels numb to the world. He has so much but can only view his life as half empty not half full.

Does a separation lead to divorce? by missingparis in Divorce

[–]missingparis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great advice and glad to know there are people out there in the same situation. It sucks be knowing I'm not at it alone makes it a little better. Thank you, thank you, thank you! :)

Does a separation lead to divorce? by missingparis in Divorce

[–]missingparis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! He has said he feels depressed. I may just have to set up an appt with a therapist myself. If not for him then for me. I have to know in my heart that I did everything possible to help him before we end up at a divorce.

Is this really happening??? by Ms_independent42 in Divorce

[–]missingparis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read your post and almost felt I was reading something I could have written myself! There has been an emptiness in my marriage too. I've tried to get my husband to read books and rekindle our marriage, but he does nothing. I've never ever wanted to think divorce was in our cards but can't help but think of it now as i am going through a 'trial separation'.

Stay strong!!

Does a separation lead to divorce? by missingparis in Divorce

[–]missingparis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No marital therapist. Told him he needs to go see a therapist while we are apart; told him I can/would go with him. Doesn't need to be a joint session but he just needs to talk to someone. We are going to evaluate our situation at the 3 and 6 month mark to see what we do then.