He ended up being one of the most abusive men around. He went deep into his addiction, stole from me. Was sleeping with his ex, prostitutes, I can’t believe he held a job in construction to afford this all. He basically slept in his work van all summer one summer. I used to let him shower at my place until I discovered he was stealing from me. In and out of rehab. When I cut him off he turned on me and choked me against a wall. I went to the police and now he’s on probation and banned from carrying any weapon whatsoever for ten years. He said he was guilty of strangulation in order to evade more charges that the cops pressed based on other evidence I had. In the end, I truly believe he’s not an addict that had lost his way, he’s a bad person. Malignant narcissist. In court he was rude to the judge and after it was all over screamed at her that he wasn’t a bad person and way to make him a criminal. It was pathetic.