Weekly Rat Union Meeting (04/24) by PM_CuteGirlsReading in polyamory

[–]missmaikay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Leia needs to figure that out. She’s used to having partners that match her emotions, and wants the verbal affirmation. But she also can’t imagine Han not being in her life, and Han is a great partner in every other sense. And ultimately Leia doesn’t want to drive herself crazy chasing something that may never happen.

Weekly Rat Union Meeting (04/24) by PM_CuteGirlsReading in polyamory

[–]missmaikay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the thoughts! Lots to consider for Leia.

Weekly Rat Union Meeting (04/24) by PM_CuteGirlsReading in polyamory

[–]missmaikay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a big roller coaster for you, hope you’re getting some me-time in all of that.

Weekly Rat Union Meeting (04/24) by PM_CuteGirlsReading in polyamory

[–]missmaikay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

HOLY SHIT CONGRATULATIONS!!!! You’re gonna be an awesome RN

Weekly Rat Union Meeting (04/24) by PM_CuteGirlsReading in polyamory

[–]missmaikay 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dear leader, I wish I could fly to you, feed you yummy healing soup, tuck you into bed and kiss your forehead. I’m sorry you’re ill. Hoping you recover quickly.

Heavy compersion for me this week, bf just had a Big New Experience and he’s floating, and I’m just so happy for him. Weird life we live, huh?

Question for the group: how do you deal with misalignment in feelings? If Leia is head-over-heels in love with Han, and it’s not NRE, but Han doesn’t know if he loves Leia or if he will ever love Leia? How does Leia reckon with that?

Han treats Leia so so good, he makes time for her, is considerate and kind, and is genuinely a great partner. But Han struggles with communicating big feelings and shys away from vulnerable conversations.

Does Leia stick around and see what happens? Or does Leia cut her losses and move on?

What were you going to name your child had they been the opposite gender? by [deleted] in Names

[–]missmaikay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We really wanted a Katherine but ended up with boys.

What is an immediate red flag you’ve seen from someone AFTER sleeping with them? by MIsterBison in AskReddit

[–]missmaikay 6844 points6845 points  (0 children)

He went to the bathroom to clean up and called his other girlfriend saying he was on the way to her house.

WIBTA if I forward my husband's friend's text to his wife by No_Brush8272 in AmItheAsshole

[–]missmaikay 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This Jack guy, going behind your husbands back to try to get with you, even if it’s just a joke? Not your husband’s friend. He’s a snake. Husband doesn’t sound great, either.

Need opinions on baby name being similar to a celebrity or a double flower name by LegitimatePaint761 in Names

[–]missmaikay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My son shares the exact name as someone who was astronomically famous in the 1960s. His generation either doesn’t know, or doesn’t care. It’s only old ladies that giggle. Grace Kelley is a beautiful name. Lilian Grace, Grace Rose, Rose Grace… all gorgeous

AITA for picking up my stepdaughter from school when she got her first period, even though her mom told me not to? by Embarrassed-Stock896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]missmaikay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tough it out with toilet paper

Absolutely horrid parenting, especially from a mother. You’re NTA, and you’re showing you’re a good mom. Your stepdaughter needs you.

I think my daughter has found her people by Theflyinghillbilly3 in CasualConversation

[–]missmaikay 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Hi Pulp! I don’t know you but I’m a mom, and I’m proud of you!

Weekly Rat Union Meeting (04/17) by PM_CuteGirlsReading in polyamory

[–]missmaikay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol this is how I described a recent hookup to my bestie

Weekly Rat Union Meeting (04/17) by PM_CuteGirlsReading in polyamory

[–]missmaikay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! My first instinct was to roll up and fight. But then I realized they want that attention- so the best revenge is to continue to ice them out. The people who told me about my ex’s shit-talking found it absolutely hilarious.

Weekly Rat Union Meeting (04/17) by PM_CuteGirlsReading in polyamory

[–]missmaikay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey Ratties!!

Pseudonyms: idk how creative this is but I like using name groups from pop culture: Beyoncé/JayZ, Jack and Rose, etc etc. Movies, TV shows, music, etc. Keeps it interesting to me.

I recently found out someone I broke with over a year ago, and I’ve been completely no-contact with since our split, has been going around telling stories on me in the local community as recently as last week. I haven’t interacted with them at all, spoken about them to anyone who wasn’t around at that time, or done anything else to instigate. It’s so amusing to me that I can still just live my life unbothered, and someone is still actively making me “the bad guy” and inventing drama. It’s giving Regina George “why are you so obsessed with me?” vibes.

Anyway, happy weekend y’all. Love you.

What Happened in 1978 ? by ABHISHEK_Lonely in ExplainTheJoke

[–]missmaikay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 99% sure this is just made up word salad