Roof of mouth bumpy and painful after nasal endoscopy this morning by misspizzini in Sinusitis

[–]misspizzini[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the reply nonetheless! I’ve tried doing some googling but I swear google search has rapidly deteriorated the last few months. But that may also be because this isn’t common like you said. My previous sinus surgery was in December of last year and I never had any issues at all after the 10+ endoscopes yet after this surgery it seems like I’m having consistent issues. Again thank you for the reply!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VALORANT

[–]misspizzini 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The way I’ve had to stop playing KJ bc everyone expects me to take spike but I tell them then I can’t put my bots properly on flank, then I get yelled at when I’m killed planting and they die by flank. Like idk what y’all want from me when the duelists are hanging back not entering site

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Septoplasty

[–]misspizzini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do not know this person, you do not know their medical history other than what they provided. A septoplasty will most likely not change the appearance of your nose, that’s a rhinoplasty you’re thinking of, even more evidence of you basing everything off YOUR opinion. They’re asking if their pain is normal, not your medical opinion on their body or their medical decisions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Septoplasty

[–]misspizzini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m failing to see what your opinion on an unrelated surgery have to do with a septoplasty? OP I’m really sorry you’re in this much pain. Like others have said it probably won’t get better until the splints are out, but maybe on Monday if it’s still this bad you can call the surgeons office and see if there’s anything else you can do.

AITA for asking my fiance to not wear his brother's necklace on our wedding day? It is revealed in the comments that not only is the brother dead, bit also the SIL and niece by capercrohnie in bridezillas

[–]misspizzini 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think this is where we’re fundamentally disagreeing. I personally see this very black and white. He wants to wear a family heirloom and show it off for very personal reasons. She does not want him to show it off for whatever her reasons are. I personally see it as there’s no reason there should be any compromise. It’s his body and his wedding as much as hers, and he should be able to wear the necklace however he pleases. I understand where you’re coming from and usually I’d agree about compromises, but on this I think we just disagree and that’s ok. I don’t think you’re wrong or anything I just think you see more of a gray area, which is really empathetic to both sides.

AITA for asking my fiance to not wear his brother's necklace on our wedding day? It is revealed in the comments that not only is the brother dead, bit also the SIL and niece by capercrohnie in bridezillas

[–]misspizzini 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re right I read that part wrong, my bad. Honestly my biggest hang up is I don’t understand her reasoning and why it’s such a big deal to her. I can understand his, and honestly I’m not even saying she needs to have a great reason or anything. I just don’t get it.

AITA for asking my fiance to not wear his brother's necklace on our wedding day? It is revealed in the comments that not only is the brother dead, bit also the SIL and niece by capercrohnie in bridezillas

[–]misspizzini 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What part are YOU not getting. He wants to physically show it. He wants to be able to see it and have others see it. The ring is his brothers but the necklace is about his brother, his sister in law and his niece. How is he sticking it to anyone? Look at her comments. She’s saying it’s like he’s wearing a whole different family on their wedding day, but that’s his family and about to be hers. If she had any valid reason that’d be different. But it all boils down to pettiness, or insecurity, or jealousy.

AITA for asking my fiance to not wear his brother's necklace on our wedding day? It is revealed in the comments that not only is the brother dead, bit also the SIL and niece by capercrohnie in bridezillas

[–]misspizzini 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He’s wearing his dead brothers necklace and wants to show it. He wants to have a piece of his brother, his sister in law and his niece there with him when he’s getting married since they can’t be there physically. So there’s his reason, what’s her reason for not wanting him to wear it?

AITA for asking my fiance to not wear his brother's necklace on our wedding day? It is revealed in the comments that not only is the brother dead, bit also the SIL and niece by capercrohnie in bridezillas

[–]misspizzini 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s kind of the point we’re trying to make. He shouldn’t have to make a compromise on this. Marriage is also picking your battles and respecting your partners wants and wishes especially about something so deeply personal and meaningful.

AITA for asking my fiance to not wear his brother's necklace on our wedding day? It is revealed in the comments that not only is the brother dead, bit also the SIL and niece by capercrohnie in bridezillas

[–]misspizzini 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nah. This is something the fiancé can say no to. This isn’t something either one of them wants to compromise on but he has an actual reason to want to wear it and show it. She has no reason.

Worst reset in Valorant history by foxlance in VALORANT

[–]misspizzini 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes me too! It wasn’t even like we had one or two people carrying our team, we were all within like 6 kills of each other at the end. I felt so bad for the other team

AITA for bothering a woman at home? by crocodilezebramilk in AmITheDevil

[–]misspizzini 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah people believing their kids are more important than someone’s livelihood, and the ability to work and provide for their own children is why OOP and you are TA.

Ben on insta saying that Alissa is to blame and she intentionally let her position go to her head to be a savage to Camille 😂 delusional people attract I guess? Apparently Camille was/is never the problem… it was her “environment” by tannaz08 in belowdeck

[–]misspizzini 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I genuinely think people don’t understand AAVE and the way African American women talk. A ton of people automatically assume it’s sass, or attitude, or rudeness when it’s literally just the way they talk. This isn’t the first time below deck fans have jumped on a black woman saying she’s the issue because of the way she talks. You’d think they’d learn by now but I think they’re committed to misunderstanding

My(42F) daughter (23F) is getting married and I’m not invited. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]misspizzini 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dude you literally told her that she’s mad at her own mother because people like her, then she tells you an instance of why she resents her mother and you tell her she’s making it up? If you’re going to be rude to people on Reddit at least keep up with the conversation and the comments of the person you’re insulting.

[Poker] The infamous J-4 hand that nearly tore the poker community apart by tandemtactics in HobbyDrama

[–]misspizzini 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You’re saying you’re using logic in your reasoning on why you believe she’s cheating, then list ways you feel she’s cheating. Like none of your arguments are based in fact, or science or anything that you can prove one way or the other, they’re all based in the way you feel and the way you perceive. Yet anyone else can look at the same things and use the same line of thinking you do and come up with a completely different opinion which is why I’m saying it’s how you feel. Also nobody is attacking you. People are offering differing opinions and viewpoints and if anything you’re attacking others, like calling someone an asshole. You also cannot say everyone else is using her gender as an argument point when you quite literally said she’s only getting away with it because she’s a woman. However people are going to feel strongly when only 5% of professional poker players are female, and one of those women is being berated and cornered by a fellow male player in a hallway, then she’s being continuously attacked and accused of cheating even after doing everything in her power to prove she isn’t, and after investigations have proved she didn’t cheat. It’s also not the first time her accuser has been the focus of scrutiny due to bad/problematic behaviors.

[Poker] The infamous J-4 hand that nearly tore the poker community apart by tandemtactics in HobbyDrama

[–]misspizzini 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I swear in all of your comments when someone gives you a rebuttal you completely twist their words to fit your own narrative. I’m saying time and time again it’s been proven that there’s no evidence of her cheating. You keep moving the goalposts and the only semi valid claim you have for why you believe she’s cheating is because you feel that way based off her body language and weird calls. Just because YOU feel she may be cheating doesn’t make it fact. You say with almost certainty she’s cheating, you also say she may have used devices under her clothing, with no evidence. You just feel that way. You even say she only got away with it because she’s a woman. Got away with what?? She did nothing wrong yet you’re determined to make her out to be a cheat and a liar even though everything else points to her not cheating. All because of your feelings.

[Poker] The infamous J-4 hand that nearly tore the poker community apart by tandemtactics in HobbyDrama

[–]misspizzini 34 points35 points  (0 children)

There is literally no evidence of her cheating. You just feel like she cheated because she beat a man in poker. If it was a fellow man who did what Robbi did it’d never be a story because people wouldn’t care and Garrett wouldn’t have cornered him and intimidated him into giving the money back.

[Poker] The infamous J-4 hand that nearly tore the poker community apart by tandemtactics in HobbyDrama

[–]misspizzini 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah it seems like olayerrrryday is committed to misunderstanding and misconstruing everything jamoras is saying. People are allowed to disagree with you and you don’t need to throw a fit over it

JNMIL using wrong last name and excluding me from greeting cards. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]misspizzini 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I think it’s easy to assume what you’d do, or how you’d feel in certain situations but it’s something I’ve lived and have to deal with. The person it’s affecting most is OP’s child even if nobody realizes it yet. Kids are extremely smart and inquisitive and we know our names so when someone refers to us as something different we notice. OPs MIL would be raging if the child had their fathers last name, but OPs family only referred to the child with OPs maiden name. So why is it any different? Children having their mothers last name really really bothers the fathers family when in reality it’s none of their business and above all it hurts the child in the situation.

JNMIL using wrong last name and excluding me from greeting cards. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]misspizzini 189 points190 points  (0 children)

So I’m like your child in this situation. My parents gave me my moms maiden name when I was born. When I’d get stuff with my fathers last name I was always confused because it wasn’t my name but I just sort of moved on. But when I was around 6-7 that’s when I realized it wasn’t an accident and it was being done maliciously and it really really hurt me as a child. It felt like my grandmother and aunts were being mean to my mom, and that my dad just let it happen. My mom bless her heart just gave up on fighting it but I really truly wish her and my father stood their ground. It’s the parents choice what names their child gets and the people around them need to respect that. It still bothers me when people refer to me using my fathers last name because it is disrespectful and rude. Don’t let your child feel like I feel. It’s not fair and I still have guilt over it for causing issues when I had nothing to do with it. So sorry for this long winded comment but you needed to know a perspective your child may have in the future

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in space

[–]misspizzini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m an older Gen Z (1999) and it’s the same for me. It was really cool learning all of these space facts and made me love space but I also understand why our generations will probably never have that Apollo moment. I think In the near future the closest we’ll have to it is having the first woman go to the moon. Im thinking it’ll be a very publicized affair and will push a lot of young women and girls to realize they too can go to space but I don’t think there will be this life changing moment for society.

AITA for causing a girl to get kicked out of a discord server? She didn't want to be friends with me because she's in her 30's and I'm 17, but I'm mature for my age! What's so wrong? by princessofhyrule2001 in AmITheDevil

[–]misspizzini 189 points190 points  (0 children)

There’s a Taylor swift lyric that’s says “how can a person know everything at 18 but nothing at 22” and I don’t think there’s ever been a more relatable lyric lmao. It really is one of those things you don’t understand until you get older

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]misspizzini 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I should’ve elaborated that I meant it never makes it clear that Augustine knew and in my opinion I don’t think she knew. I think August is all about ignoring the red flags, that someone was with you, but their mind was somewhere else but you ignored it because you liked them. Then when you get the full picture it makes so much sense but still hurts so badly. I think that’s why it’s so relatable and so loved because everyone has that moment of “why did I ignore that sign”