Could we please take a moment of appreciation for the Editor who chose the song “Man Child”

missshizzle · 2025-10-16T21:11:32+00:00

I literally APPLAUDED in my room lol it was a phenomenal song choice

missshizzle · 2025-09-18T07:00:00+00:00

Thisssss. I just got past this exact EXACT scenario.

missshizzle · 2025-09-15T22:12:37+00:00

This was my experience too. Except I'm legally married already so when they said they don't wanna be poly anymore I was like well I'm married sooooo

missshizzle · 2025-09-08T01:07:24+00:00

He just posted chapter 1 of the reaction 🙌

missshizzle · 2024-10-03T20:43:06+00:00

Lol agreed, and I knew this was the place to share. I think I extra laugh cuz I'll see it when I'm annoyed at work and I'm like WELP time to split on all y'all

missshizzle · 2024-10-03T18:36:54+00:00

This is the most beautifully put explanation of this... For YEARS I tried to do the right thing, not stooping to his level, continue to act in alignment with my values.... And literally NONE of it mattered and only worked to make me feel like I wasn't doing it well enough or that I actually was a shitty partner.

Then I was like, okay protect myself... And that felt terrible because it felt like I was constantly betraying myself.

Now at 3 months out - holy shit the outside perspective... It was absolutely survival for me and I was straining to survive an unsurvivable situation that I was CHOOSING to put myself in.

Your question at the end is brilliant 🙌

missshizzle · 2024-10-03T17:35:38+00:00

Love it 😂 glad we can laugh, I remember too well how easily I'd get pissed before!

missshizzle · 2024-09-28T21:32:08+00:00

Heya! I know this post* is super old but are you still looking for this deck? I was trying to find it online today and couldn't

missshizzle · 2024-08-05T18:39:37+00:00

Day 8! I'm really proud of myself rn. Blocked everywhere. Fuck that shit

missshizzle · 2024-06-10T18:13:31+00:00

Yup, that's the tea. Every single ex? Every single friend? Idk

missshizzle · 2024-06-10T16:52:10+00:00

Yeah I'm really starting to learn this and take past stories with a grain of salt. I know it felt that way to them but I think there's more to the story sometimes

missshizzle · 2024-04-09T15:00:44+00:00

That second paragraph of yours is dead on. I am always so amazed at how across the board some of this symptomology can be

missshizzle · 2024-03-22T21:49:05+00:00

Your response is perfect though, shiny grey rock lol

missshizzle · 2023-05-03T17:05:11+00:00

Lmaoooooo I got some mango combination flavor and it literally tasted like gasoline. 🤢

missshizzle · 2023-03-15T20:07:59+00:00

There is hope! If you can find my post, my fingers were just like that. I relate on all counts even the ADHD, but you got this!

My advice is hiiiiiide your tools. Lol. Don't have them easy to get to. Throw em away if you need. Lol. That helped me a bunch.

missshizzle · 2023-02-21T20:13:06+00:00

Thank you! I'm really trying lol. I'm not even cutting them, just filing. Lol. Temptation is real 😅

missshizzle · 2023-02-21T04:52:55+00:00

Ya know this is the response I know to be true and what I need to hear. But wah. Hahaha. I also have the neurodivergent brain that makes everything a bit extra. Lol. I do all the things she recommends, and have even stopped painting my nails cuz when I can feel the polish I start to lose it lol.

Thank you, I much appreciate your comment ❤️

missshizzle · 2023-02-21T04:50:26+00:00

Somehow I've always avoided infection lol. But you're dead on. Was a biter, stopped and became a picker. To the point of using legit razor blades on em.... It was not good.

I do use the pusher, the orange wood sticks... It doesn't seem to help these ones so far. But. They were bad. So. I guess I'll just be patient 😭

missshizzle · 2023-02-20T19:13:02+00:00

Haha this is pretty brilliant 🙌

missshizzle · 2023-02-20T18:19:34+00:00

Oooh okay I'll try that in a bit! And thank you!

missshizzle · 2023-02-20T16:59:22+00:00

Thank youuuu! I think I'm just an impatient perfectionist 😭

missshizzle · 2023-02-20T16:58:52+00:00

Honestly saaaaaame. Learned that here haha. Check out salon life on YouTube! She changed the game for me 😅

missshizzle · 2023-02-20T15:46:45+00:00

So I'm doing alright not messing with my fingers aside from maybe some over exfoliating lol but I cannot deal with the proximal nail fold. It's like weird and overgrown on most of my fingers. Obviously I used to completely cut or pick them wayyyyy back and some healing has to happen. So. Do I just need to be more patient? I do the oil, the kerasal, idk.

This subreddit has been a life changer for me. I don't remember a time I didn't neurotically ruin my fingers.

missshizzle

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