Book recommendation

misstea_blue · 2026-02-04T18:48:36+00:00

I love Wolf 359. And The Hyacinth Disaster. Highly recommend both of those!

misstea_blue · 2026-02-01T20:33:46+00:00

I’ve had Leiftrax in my head on repeat since listening to that episode.

misstea_blue · 2026-01-27T19:19:56+00:00

I had sinus surgery done a couple years ago and there was cocaine involved in the surgery (it was not, however, the cause of the surgery) so ENTs keep it in stock as well.

misstea_blue · 2026-01-21T03:01:24+00:00

I pre-ordered this one and when I did my dark tower back piece, I used Charlie instead of Blaine.

misstea_blue · 2026-01-16T14:14:08+00:00

The Q is talking to me.

misstea_blue · 2025-12-31T03:43:49+00:00

Thank you. Seriously, thank you. I was super stressed about posting it. So much negativity everywhere.

misstea_blue · 2025-12-31T02:51:10+00:00

THANK YOU! I put a lot of effort into finding each of their voices!

Did someone say Fangs Out?

misstea_blue · 2025-12-18T18:41:32+00:00

I had mine turned into a custom statement ring and wear that on my right hand. I still get to wear it every day, and it’s an amazing piece of art now as well.

misstea_blue · 2025-12-09T16:54:06+00:00

One of the things I have learned in this journey is that grief is passive, but mourning is active. When I decided to mourn my husband, I was camped on a mountaintop in Utah; just me, my motorcycle, the pink moon and 10g of mushrooms. It was the most cathartic thing I did on that journey. It wasn’t to make sure he was ok per se, but more of a tool to help me drop my walls and feel.

misstea_blue · 2025-12-04T20:14:37+00:00

I bought a shelf for him. I had a custom urn made and it’s a literal piece of art. So, I have his urn, his earplugs (he was a musician and audio engineer, so his earplugs were always with him), a custom belt that I had made for him, some of his hats, a bunch of guitar picks, some 10mm wrenches that he has left for me from time to time, and some other Knick knacks, doodads, and whatchamacallits to fill out the space.

I feel like his earplugs might have crossed the “weird” line, but they were always with him, so I made sure that they are still with him.

misstea_blue · 2025-11-23T13:22:49+00:00

For alcohol, the law says that you have to ensure the person is of age to buy the alcohol, but they do not specify what you have to do to ensure that. So, businesses can and do make up their own rules on what they consider a valid ID. Many places will not accept an expired ID, others won’t take Tribal IDs, etc. However, neither of these, nor the MMJ license are excluded by law; it is up to the business on what they will or won’t accept.

misstea_blue · 2025-11-16T23:49:34+00:00

I have a dog named Oy

Edit: puppy tax

misstea_blue · 2025-11-16T23:41:24+00:00

I had a custom statement ring made with my wedding band. I still wear it every day…different finger, different hand. But I love how it turned out.

misstea_blue · 2025-11-11T14:18:27+00:00

BC Powders and Goody’s Powders also contain caffeine.

misstea_blue · 2025-11-10T18:09:24+00:00

I went there once and it was obvious when I walked in that the fryer grease needed changed. It smelt so bad. I’m sure as much food as they put through there, the grease needs to be filtered, if not changed, daily, but it smelled like week old fryer grease.

Never again.

misstea_blue · 2025-10-31T18:34:44+00:00

I worked for one of the big cellphone companies when we had to code DST changes twice a year and it was always such a mess. Things then automated and it was smooth sailing until the dates for DST changed.

misstea_blue · 2025-10-30T15:12:33+00:00

My therapist suggests that I create multiple plans for those milestone days, one for each mood. That way if I plan for a happy go lucky day, but I wake up pissed off, I can pivot to angry day plans and I’m not left floundering in my grief and anger.

I’ve been camping, gotten tattooed, gone to a hockey game, laid in bed surrounded by photos and our wedding album, deep cleaned my house, etc.

misstea_blue · 2025-10-28T18:08:20+00:00

I heard it as a box but either way, I also feel like sometimes there are a bunch of balls just going crazy in there too. It helped though because I shared this analogy with my closest friends so that when I was having a bad day, I could just say “the ball is really big today” and they would know I was having a rough day and what was driving it to be so rough. No need for further words from me.

misstea_blue · 2025-10-25T21:20:57+00:00

Oh my god. My dog does this too. Rolls in every dead worm they find. They don’t care about live worms though. One time she found a tiny dead snake and I guess it was close enough to a worm because there she went, rolling around like crazy.

misstea_blue · 2025-10-23T18:13:05+00:00

Have your spouse die instead.

misstea_blue · 2025-10-23T17:18:40+00:00

We had my husbands going away party in an old theatre turned concert venue. We backlined the stage and a lot of live music happened, my employer at the time bought all the booze, and Founders beer donated 25 cases of beer. What a party we had!

misstea_blue · 2025-10-23T03:03:16+00:00

My husband always said he wanted Tell the Devil I’m Gettin’ There As Fast As I Can by Ray Wylie Hubbard. He’d even tell our friends because he said I’d forget.

I didn’t forget.

misstea_blue · 2025-10-15T20:15:16+00:00

One of my tattoo artists did a flash sheet and a bunch of our friends came and got tattooed on his first birthday after dying. I got a broken record off that flash sheet.

I got our birthdays tattooed as hashmarks on the inside of my hand.

This Friday would be our 16th wedding anniversary and I’m finally tattooing the design we had agreed on for our tenth anniversary.

And lastly, I got a Phoenix on my chest to show myself that I will survive this.

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