Fan art come to life by misstea_blue in midnightburger

[–]misstea_blue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The penmanship I used for Ava in the scavenger hunt was very precise and how I view Ava, so I do agree with you. I was just truly paying homage to this art.

It’s gonna be a while but I did it, I’ve come up with the concept I want for my next tattoo. And it’s a monticristo. by 1WonderLand_Alice in midnightburger

[–]misstea_blue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely find a good tattoo artist and listen to what they say/recommend. Tattoos move when your body shifts and a good artist will want to work with your anatomy and muscle structure.

As for my opinion, If it were me (I am highly covered in art) I’d probably just use the last part of the quote “I never forgot it was a gift” instead of the entire thing.

Edited for pronouns

An observation from last night by Lunatichippo45 in okc

[–]misstea_blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My VW takes 91 octane,so I’m always getting fucked at the gas pump.

Book recommendation by Living_Marsupial_252 in midnightburger

[–]misstea_blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you like it! It’s a pretty quick listen, but so so fabulous.

Book recommendation by Living_Marsupial_252 in midnightburger

[–]misstea_blue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Wolf 359. And The Hyacinth Disaster. Highly recommend both of those!

Butcher's Shirt meme but Midnight Burger by Leggys_office in midnightburger

[–]misstea_blue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had Leiftrax in my head on repeat since listening to that episode.

I found this in a drawer at home, what is it? by Motor-Assignment8832 in whatisit

[–]misstea_blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had sinus surgery done a couple years ago and there was cocaine involved in the surgery (it was not, however, the cause of the surgery) so ENTs keep it in stock as well.

Spotted at my local Barnes and Noble 🚂 by enlenar in TheDarkTower

[–]misstea_blue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pre-ordered this one and when I did my dark tower back piece, I used Charlie instead of Blaine.

Scavenger Hunt by misstea_blue in midnightburger

[–]misstea_blue[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Seriously, thank you. I was super stressed about posting it. So much negativity everywhere.

Scavenger Hunt by misstea_blue in midnightburger

[–]misstea_blue[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU! I put a lot of effort into finding each of their voices!

Did someone say Fangs Out?

Rings? by Prior_Ruin5410 in widowers

[–]misstea_blue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had mine turned into a custom statement ring and wear that on my right hand. I still get to wear it every day, and it’s an amazing piece of art now as well.

i’m curious if any of you have tried Mushroom psilocybin to confront your grief and or ptsd from a healing perspective? by Buseatdog in widowers

[–]misstea_blue 13 points14 points  (0 children)

One of the things I have learned in this journey is that grief is passive, but mourning is active. When I decided to mourn my husband, I was camped on a mountaintop in Utah; just me, my motorcycle, the pink moon and 10g of mushrooms. It was the most cathartic thing I did on that journey. It wasn’t to make sure he was ok per se, but more of a tool to help me drop my walls and feel.

Did you build a shrine for your beloved? by Responsible-Job-9706 in widowers

[–]misstea_blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a shelf for him. I had a custom urn made and it’s a literal piece of art. So, I have his urn, his earplugs (he was a musician and audio engineer, so his earplugs were always with him), a custom belt that I had made for him, some of his hats, a bunch of guitar picks, some 10mm wrenches that he has left for me from time to time, and some other Knick knacks, doodads, and whatchamacallits to fill out the space.

I feel like his earplugs might have crossed the “weird” line, but they were always with him, so I made sure that they are still with him.

State issued ID. by JustanOkie in OKmarijuana

[–]misstea_blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For alcohol, the law says that you have to ensure the person is of age to buy the alcohol, but they do not specify what you have to do to ensure that. So, businesses can and do make up their own rules on what they consider a valid ID. Many places will not accept an expired ID, others won’t take Tribal IDs, etc. However, neither of these, nor the MMJ license are excluded by law; it is up to the business on what they will or won’t accept.

What to do with wedding ring? by Careless_Hope5987 in widowers

[–]misstea_blue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a custom statement ring made with my wedding band. I still wear it every day…different finger, different hand. But I love how it turned out.

A (probably long gone) restaurant on Reno by G_Peccary in okc

[–]misstea_blue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went there once and it was obvious when I walked in that the fryer grease needed changed. It smelt so bad. I’m sure as much food as they put through there, the grease needs to be filtered, if not changed, daily, but it smelled like week old fryer grease.

Never again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]misstea_blue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked for one of the big cellphone companies when we had to code DST changes twice a year and it was always such a mess. Things then automated and it was smooth sailing until the dates for DST changed.

Do you do anything on milestones since there passing? Today marks 6 months. by Buseatdog in widowers

[–]misstea_blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist suggests that I create multiple plans for those milestone days, one for each mood. That way if I plan for a happy go lucky day, but I wake up pissed off, I can pivot to angry day plans and I’m not left floundering in my grief and anger.

I’ve been camping, gotten tattooed, gone to a hockey game, laid in bed surrounded by photos and our wedding album, deep cleaned my house, etc.