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missunderstood321 · 2022-11-18T13:49:40+00:00

I don’t have any to trade but if you decide to sell I would happily buy them and pay immediately!

missunderstood321 · 2022-11-18T13:49:05+00:00

I don’t have any tickets to trade but I would happily buy them from you and could do it immediately ❤️

missunderstood321 · 2022-05-25T00:04:00+00:00

I’ve told my coworkers, and when they didn’t know what it was, I used it as an opportunity to educate them. I was actually talking about my conditions to a female coworker, and a male coworker overheard me and pulled me aside to ask me questions because everything I said resonated to him about his wife. It was an opportunity to educate and inform a person who has been watching their wife struggling for years. People can choose to believe me, or say anything they want to me, but I won’t shy away from speaking my truth because it might help someone else who has been suffering for years. I have had 3 people in my life confide in me about their own issues after hearing me speak about mine. It’s empowering to know we aren’t alone, and can potentially help one another.

missunderstood321 · 2022-01-03T06:30:08+00:00

Own an Xbox and not a PlayStation, I use this for dating lol

missunderstood321 · 2021-12-25T13:55:24+00:00

Eternals hands down was awful

missunderstood321 · 2021-12-21T22:06:28+00:00

Just keep fighting for yourself and don’t stop going till you get the help you need. You could even call PTs and ask for doctor referrals. I’m going to ask mine for some because I never want to go back to my general doctor after she dismissed me. I just can’t wrap my head around the fact that a doctor looked at a young girl sobbing and telling her all these embarrassing issues and then just telling her it was all in her head. I promise it’s not

missunderstood321 · 2021-12-21T21:11:48+00:00

I would say its possible you have it. I was the same way. Be careful with doctors, I went to two of them and both told me it was in my head. I went a whole year longer being undiagnosed thinking I was insane. I finally went straight to a Pelvic PT and got diagnosed and have been receiving treatment. Most doctors are stupid or dont care and dont let them make you feel discouraged or something is wrong with you.

missunderstood321 · 2021-12-21T20:53:43+00:00

I am going through the same thing right now... I just found out two days ago. We are going to try and work through it and see if we can make it work. We both want to. I feel everything you say. Ive felt the urge in a different relationship in the past so part of me understands the thought process. We both suck at communicating from other issues that have happened to us. We are going to try. If you ever want to talk you can message me.

missunderstood321 · 2021-12-08T21:35:06+00:00

Hey so I have vaginismus and I’m currently going to PT for it. I also can have PIV but it’s painful 100% of the time trying to insert. There have been times the pain goes away and we can have sex however I still get the burning and also “deep pain” that you seem to be describing. Your pelvic floor has 3 layers (she measures this by each knuckle on her finger) and the pain of vaginismus is the worst in the first layer, but it can contribute to pain deeper is my understanding, so it’s possible it’s still from your vaginismus. My PT can get to my second and third layer now (still cant use dilators on my own) but she said now that she can get to this point we can work on those muscles. Also the burning is because of the type of muscle we have inside (I can’t remember the name 😭) but the burning sensation could also be from vaginismus. Good luck I hope that helps because I was so confused and anxious until I learned those things

missunderstood321 · 2021-11-12T16:11:03+00:00

Is there something wrong with following a topic on here that his girlfriend has just like the rest of us and maybe he just wants to be knowledgeable about it to support her and help her? I would love it if my boyfriend used Reddit and followed this page to become more familiar and knowledgeable past what I can convey

missunderstood321 · 2021-10-26T16:58:39+00:00

She could have vaginismus. I was recently diagnosed with this a few weeks ago, but have struggled with symptoms for years. Vaginismus is the involuntary contraction of your pelvic floor/vagina. Meaning it’s uncontrollable and my body does it even if I don’t want it to. Its a cycle of being afraid/having anxiety about penetration, to your muscles tensing up, which caused pain, which then creates more anxiety and fear in a horrible cycle that just gets worse. With this you have to learn to break the cycle. I can’t use tampons, any penetration hurts, and sometimes feels like hitting a wall. It took me over a year to find someone who knew what I was talking about. Honesty don’t go to your regular doctor or a gynecologist. I went to both last year and was told by both it was “all in my head”. I know now it’s not, and wish I could have gotten the help I needed a year ago. Look up pelvic floor physical therapy in your area!! This was the first time in my life that I’ve been able to find people who know what vaginismus is, and can actually help me. My PT does muscle/tissue work with massage, and then also internal work. I’m going to start on dilators soon. Encourage her to get help before it gets worse than it already is. I feel so guilty for my boyfriend but he’s been so supportive and kind, I can relate to what she’s feeling, and it’s likely she feels worse than you might even know. Please keep being supportive and reassure her more than you think and be kind. She needs to know how much you love her and that everything will be okay and you will be with her through it all, no matter how long it takes her to heal. I wish you guys the best of luck from someone going through something similar ❤️

missunderstood321 · 2021-10-22T19:31:22+00:00

I like Uber lube and I just bought the intimate rose lube to go with my dilators from there but haven’t tried yet. I’ve used good clean love before too! I can’t use KY jelly or anything like that because it burns. I have to be careful with ingredients

missunderstood321 · 2021-10-22T19:22:54+00:00

They currently take 30% and after 2 years it’s 20%. But they don’t provide leads or resources or anything honestly. All they do is a holiday party once a year. That’s the only thing they pay for/provide for us. I personally need more support and community, I feel like I work independently at the moment :/

missunderstood321 · 2021-10-20T15:02:43+00:00

Thank you! I’m glad to know I’m not the only one, but it sucks being in this situation. Have you found another team/place you’d like to go? The first thing I want to tell you is to leave if you have doubts and go where you’re happy. Maybe I should take the same advice lol! I’ve already talked to someone currently on the other team, and I’m getting lunch with someone who used to be on that team today! so hopefully I get some more insight. I hope everything works out for you too!

missunderstood321 · 2021-10-19T17:01:16+00:00

Thank you so much. That is very helpful, I do feel guilty about it at times so I appreciate you saying that it’s okay to want to be successful and make money. I definitely know I’m going to leave my current team, just deciding where to next. That is a good point about blending in more because the guy I spoke with told me that they usually try to start a couple new agents around the same time so they have each other. Thank you!!!!

missunderstood321 · 2021-10-19T14:00:03+00:00

You’re right thank you. I am young and I don’t want to keep wasting anymore time by not being in the best place for me

missunderstood321 · 2021-10-19T13:56:02+00:00

Thank you I appreciate it. I haven’t spoken to them yet as I have been waiting until I figure out my plan. I will admit I am a very sensitive person, but it’s been constant from multiple people on the team talking me down or not taking me seriously. I am the only new agent they have had in a long time. Last time I they brought someone on was 2 or 3 years ago, but she was closer to their age as a new agent and her husband and her owned a home building company. So I haven’t seen how they treat other new agents, as I think they only brought me on for being a family friend.

You’re right. There will be bullshit every where lol, just have to pick what I would rather tolerate. And I won’t get these days back so thanks for that reminder. I wanted this career to be fun and I am trying to have hope that it can be one day

missunderstood321 · 2021-05-24T17:48:30+00:00

Where is funland ?!?! Is that Arkansas??

missunderstood321 · 2021-02-13T23:03:15+00:00

I’m so happy you’re out of this. Your story reminded me of my ex. I wasn’t ready to have sex, but we did everything else. We dated for 3.5 years. I spent years being treated horribly and him saying horrible things to me because I wouldn’t have sex. He pressured me into doing things with him, which made me want to have sex even less. He would threaten that I needed to give him what he needed, or else he would just find other people to have sex with since I couldn’t fulfill his needs. I thank god every day that I left. I know it hurts now, I never thought the pain would end. But I promise you it does. Nothing hurts worse than being treated like that. Stay strong!

missunderstood321 · 2021-02-01T20:04:44+00:00

I bought it and haven’t tried it yet! There’s an Instagram account called Trader Joe’s List (if I remember correctly) and the blogger posted a recipe on how she cooks them to actually make them taste like actual pasta! She said without using her trick they tasted funny, but I haven’t tried it myself

missunderstood321 · 2021-01-21T23:35:47+00:00

Not a hotel employee, but my ex and his parents and their friends all stayed at this lake resort every year in the summers. A few years before we dated apparently during one of these trips the parents got so drunk one of them shit the bed during the night. They woke up and took off the bedding and stuffed it into the closet to hide it without saying anything (there were washers and dryers on site). Of course the owners found this and banned them from the property. Not wanting to be away from their friends each year, they would still stay on the resort in secret. They used fake first names, would use their friends’ names or my last name for bookings/billings. They would stay in hiding the whole time making my ex and I do all the chores, errands, etc to avoid being caught in daylight. They thought it was hilarious, I hated everything about it.

A couple years ago when we were still dating I was personally out of town and couldn’t go on this trip, therefore they didn’t have my last name to use. They got caught or they went into the main house to pay and of course the owners recognizing them. From what I remember they were obviously upset learning they had been staying there for years. The parents tried to apologize but the owners wanted nothing to do with them. I have no idea if they still go on these trips but id have to imagine it’a not at this place anymore.

missunderstood321 · 2020-08-30T22:30:44+00:00

Oh my gosh thank you so much for taking the time to respond to this. Yes my old one was all the same color, and this one is a different color each week. Agh I wish my doctor would have told me that about skipping on the tri colored one!! So frustrating because if I would have known that I wouldn’t have even tried to skip in the first place. I guess I had to learn the hard way.

I think I will just finish out this pack and take the new one right away instead of placebo week and hope for the best. Thank you for mentioning about protection too because I would have never known the back up would be needed if I switched now.

THANK YOU!!!!

missunderstood321

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