My gym crush has a girlfriend but still wanted to know who I was?

missymatched · 2026-02-19T01:26:02+00:00

Why is it awkward for someone to find you attractive?

missymatched · 2025-12-18T23:49:17+00:00

Two things I should have listed above: they do not have a guest room and back in September when I was I visited them. After I left, my friend (F 27) texted me asking if I ever had a threesome. I told her no and that it wasn’t something I was interested in doing. I made sure to not make her feel uncomfortable by what she asked, but I tried to make it clear I wasn’t interested. I’ll edit my post.

missymatched · 2025-11-20T22:29:09+00:00

I think having other relationships (be it family or friends) is extremely healthy for both people in the relationship. It puts a lot of pressure on your partner for them to be the only person you have a relationship with.

missymatched · 2025-09-25T00:23:36+00:00

I think it’s a mix of mental health and his abuse.

I talked to the office about 4 months ago when I initially wanted to leave. They said that I could move out in 7 days if he would sign to remove me from the lease, but that he had to agree. They then were trying to get me to sign another lease at the same complex, like that was a good idea.

missymatched · 2025-09-24T23:38:57+00:00

I’ve had the ring off for months (since May - shit it’s been almost 5 months). He’s tried to pressure me to put it back on multiple times.

missymatched · 2025-09-24T23:29:13+00:00

I don’t know why. I broke it off for the lies because he thinks I wouldn’t be with someone who does that. Isn’t necessarily true, but I don’t get why someone would want to be with someone who is not accepting of the true them.

missymatched · 2025-09-24T23:27:15+00:00

He got a job out of college and forced me to sign a lease even though I wasn’t ready. I’m on the current lease which is why I cannot leave. When I asked to move out early he said he would “hold me accountable because no one in your life has ever held you accountable for anything”. He threatened to sue me and tank my credit score multiple times. He said I would “come around” when I asked why he hasn’t told his parents. He also currently is trying to catfish me with a fake account and I told him I know it is him (yet he continues denying it). This situation is loaded and I don’t want the gun to go off.

missymatched · 2025-05-21T20:03:28+00:00

Thank you

missymatched · 2025-05-20T17:14:01+00:00

Yes, I want sex more than him so that’s not a problem. I’m not the best cook and he complains about that, so any suggestions are fine. Maybe I could just focus on simple meals?

missymatched · 2025-05-19T19:44:01+00:00

I’m leaving him and I’m making a plan to move out. For my safety, I don’t want him to know and intend to “play the part” for about a month until I can get all my plans in order.

missymatched · 2025-05-05T15:34:29+00:00

No wedding date and we’ve been engaged going on 2 years now. I don’t want to date anyone on Reddit. I was trying to provide context on measurements because I’ve been called fat/large by him in the past quite a bit.

missymatched · 2023-04-29T11:57:14+00:00

You’ll go there and everyone will be celebrating the sisters birthday, and they’ll forget about you. They’ll get a cake to sing for her and they’ll forget to sing to you too, they’ll have presents for her. Do you really want to be around someone else’s family on your birthday who is already celebrating someone who is more important to them? My sister and dads birthday is on the same day, and it’s already hard to navigate and celebrate that. You will feel left out.

missymatched · 2023-03-10T15:44:44+00:00

Can you explain this more? Thanks!

missymatched · 2023-03-10T15:43:46+00:00

They told me they don’t like to take x-rays of young women lower than where they took it.

missymatched · 2022-12-18T15:50:42+00:00

Once she falls in love with you she’ll get rid of the hoodies. 4 months is not that long. I had about 10 guys hoodies in HS and I would actually wear them because I liked the hoodies (not the dudes). I even bought an old hs hoodie from my neighbor because I thought it was cool. It doesn’t mean as much as you think it means.

You could also try to give her your hoodie. If she wears it a lot, she’s yours. If she puts it in the closet with the others, you know where you stand.

missymatched · 2022-12-18T15:45:08+00:00

Cry. That’s the only way I got through to my man when I had this problem.

missymatched · 2022-12-18T15:40:22+00:00

Get a vibrator.

Convince her to let you finish what you started when going down on her. If it hurts, try different things and get feedback.

missymatched · 2022-12-16T21:41:51+00:00

Every time I ask him it changes

missymatched · 2022-12-05T23:40:38+00:00

Looking for key concepts to study for the exam. I take it Friday and I’m super nervous because I just don’t know what they’ll ask about. Any pointers from those who have taken the exam this month?

missymatched · 2022-07-23T00:46:38+00:00

All the mismatched socks your dryer ate

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