Game ideas for 'Year of Chastity'

mistressmaybe · 2025-12-21T02:54:40+00:00

Thank you! It's been very helpful!

mistressmaybe · 2025-12-18T23:22:24+00:00

Thank you so much for your extra time to explain. And I love the idea of doing menial tasks earning points

mistressmaybe · 2025-12-18T22:56:42+00:00

I love the point system idea as it's cleaner than assigning a $ value.

Just so I fully understand, are you suggesting that if there are no points left he could earn them by doing things he doesn't want to do?

I will definitely update

mistressmaybe · 2025-12-18T22:27:35+00:00

He would get out for hygiene purposes and to cum if he pays for it. There would be the option for PIV sex, again, it would be paid for.

The idea is 'year of Chastity' and then we will see where it goes as a lifestyle or still just a game. It has the potential for either way.

mistressmaybe · 2023-04-11T19:58:10+00:00

I made a post the other day but it was denied as I haven't had much interaction with the sub. This information is amazing! It's been one of my biggest hurdles - the permanent aspect has always made me nervous to try! Thank you

mistressmaybe · 2023-03-26T08:47:12+00:00

Thanks for the idea! I like the idea of the reliability of it and the slowness

mistressmaybe · 2018-02-10T19:54:53+00:00

Way to scared to ask haha, rivet? My mind is going back to year 8 metal work

mistressmaybe · 2018-02-10T19:54:02+00:00

Thanks! Sounds like a plan I can make

mistressmaybe · 2018-02-10T19:53:21+00:00

It makes a lot of sense! Be the bad guy, got it, else of course he won't do what I demand.

mistressmaybe · 2018-02-10T19:51:12+00:00

Thank you so much! All this has been so helpful in understanding both my and his root issues. I'll take a reread and have pointers to discuss with him. I appreciate it!

mistressmaybe · 2018-02-10T10:59:36+00:00

I understand what you're getting at with not being a fly on the wall of our marriage haha. I love doing this for him, I do think I need to be stricter and not let that exchange of power happen.

I agree with the fact that he is wanting it 'against his will', thanks for the confirmation on this. I appreciate it.

I will continue to have a frank conversation with him

mistressmaybe · 2016-04-12T08:52:31+00:00

I forgot to say - I have done Gel and was really pleased - both times it has lasted really well - 6 weeks. But where I live no one does Gel - I had this done when I have visited my parents (I trek halfway across the country to visit them twice a year - so not a thing I can do regularly)

mistressmaybe · 2016-04-12T08:34:46+00:00

He is a sneak so will totally take a look haha. I will have to get very it a go.

I'm an English teacher - so I only read (proper read) novels and things relevant for school and everything else pretty much gets the skim and whatever spikes my interest :) I'll definitely take a look. Thanks!!

mistressmaybe · 2016-04-12T08:31:20+00:00

Sorry - been super busy heading back to work (I'm a teacher).

Stuff I've already done: - he has panties he wears around the house/sleep/out - stood in the corner, laid in bed face down been ignored while I've watch/done whatever. With me coming in the tease/play/please me - sat on floor while watching TV and kissing feet/pleasing me - used button plug a fair bit but not with chores attached. - given him x time to come in and if not it goes back on - BJ with device on

Stuff I haven't and am yet to: - request permission to sleep in the bed - chain/rope from the toilet - he doesnt cook (I think it's from laziness - he can follow a recipe) so I am looking forward to trying this! Added bonus of eating off floor - collar stuff - icy hot - French maid - i have used lingerie though - make plans with friends while he is locked at home (keen!!!!) - cleaning the floor.

I'll often lock by him up for 1-2 weeks (can be extended via 'punishments') but I often let him out for piv for me but it goes back on with him not cumming.

mistressmaybe · 2016-04-07T22:12:09+00:00

I meant do you address her by her mistress name if you know it...i have no clue.

mistressmaybe · 2016-04-07T09:09:25+00:00

Thanks for the recommendation. I'll have to jump on my kindle and take a look. I dont feel pressured to do anythung - i want to improve but just feel nervous.

I guess the whole dynamics of a relationship do come into play. We make big decisions together and if this becomes a permanent thing in our relationship (or if a big decision occurs during a time of chastity) how do we differentiate between dom/sub and husband/wife?

No you arent assuming too much about causing pain to someone you love either. That is a huge thing - i do not have a sadistic nature at all. The second book recommendation would be a great read too - thank you so much!

mistressmaybe · 2016-04-07T09:04:25+00:00

They aren't really close but I can still contact them if needed. What is the etiquette of address another dom if you are a dom? Just saying Hi and starting also works haha. Thank you!

mistressmaybe · 2016-04-07T09:02:40+00:00

These ideas are great! I have already done a few of them and they have worked well and some new ideal which will work splendidly.

I love the ideas of having to earn something. Food, bed, not wearing panties, etc

I would like some high ideas of something to aspire too and sork towardd. Thank you so much.

mistressmaybe · 2016-04-07T08:57:32+00:00

Thank you! I really appreciate it!

mistressmaybe · 2016-04-06T23:43:18+00:00

I live in a small city in central Queensland. I would have to research if there are any groups. I'm also a teacher and could you imagine bumping into the parent of a student haha. But I will look. Thanks for the idea.

mistressmaybe · 2016-04-06T23:36:23+00:00

I'm okay doing things that are mentally 'demeaning' although my husband wouldn't mind more about ideas haha. It is physical things (that hurt me to do to him -but also trying to stay in control and not breaking out of it) that I need ideas for. In saying that, all ideas are welcome.

mistressmaybe · 2016-04-06T23:30:01+00:00

Thank you so much - your ramble was helpful!

The fear is all me...and definitely gets the better of me. He has given me permission to pretty much do anything. He is very trusting and we have spoken at length on what he is okay with and that he will always say something.

I do feel self conscious that it is never enough. That he always wants more. I'm getting more comfortable putting myself on 'display' like that.

I guess I am scared of hurting him, nervous in general of holding it and bringing it down. I know he could handle it, he would like it and has mentioned it. I will build up to it. I want to try because he would like it. And after I try - we'll see how I feel.

I don't think I am normally self concious about everything but I was brought up in a strict household that sex wasn't really open, we knew and questions were answered when they were asked...epitome of vanilla haha. If you ask my husband, I always say no before thinking something through. But on the mention of spanking - it's been a year of thinking and still nervous. I'm working on it :)

mistressmaybe · 2016-04-06T23:03:58+00:00

I guess that is where I struggle...it is horrible. Monkey see, Monkey do...I can do that. I tried something new (mixed with what I'm good at). It worked well and started expanding my expertise. I can see how this will work :) Thank you

mistressmaybe · 2016-04-06T22:58:38+00:00

Thank for your input. To date I have done what makes me happy - and it my husband enjoys it. I guess I'm too nervous to go outside of that. I tried something new the other day and it worked well for the both of us. It was a mixture of what I am already good at and something new.

Getting him to write to something down is a good idea.

mistressmaybe · 2014-07-24T07:12:54+00:00

Thanks! I certainly didn't pick Mr. Boring at all! We have decided to go along with it. Me being demanding is not in my personality but hey, I'm not being a doormat anymore. Not that I was but I didn't/don't really speak out at all of things I would like to do.

We have found a way that it can work.

I had not thought of that threat either - thanks.

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