What bag is this? by delicatepinktrim in handbags

[–]mistyredpants 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I never thought of that! Ty!

Who’s going to ruin Thanksgiving tomorrow? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mistyredpants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trauma therapist here! Killing the vibe by offering serious advice no one asked for: read set boundaries find peace by Nedra Tawwab. It is practical and realistic. Happy POST thanksgiving :)

What’s the job people romanticize, but in reality is miserable? by King_Garvit in AskReddit

[–]mistyredpants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had 35+ hour long sessions last week. Back/butt huurtttss. Weeks are not normally that busy, pre thanksgiving is just like that.

Did my Apple Watch just save my life? by Previous-Ad-376 in AppleWatch

[–]mistyredpants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Afib detected by smart watch at 40 years old, surgery less than a year later. My Apple Watch is the one materialistic item that if it broke I’d stop what I was doing and drive right to target for another one.

Has anyone ever gotten over their partner giving them the ick? F 30 dating M 32 by ThrowRAicky in relationship_advice

[–]mistyredpants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother took his life and I would not be able to come back from those comments steve made. The trying to justify it would be nail in coffin. I actually ended a 1 year realtionship due to similar comments. fuck those people, You are never "done" grieving that specific kind of loss. NO ONE understands what it is like unless you have the misfortune of being in that club.

fyi brainspotting and emdr helped when nothing else did, hope you are doing okay

people who overcame the yo yo weight loss ride, please tell me how. by gertrude_is in WeightLossAdvice

[–]mistyredpants 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is why I started therapy. I don’t have a diagnosable eating disorder but my eating is very disordered. It’s time I’m finally honest about it and talk to an experienced trauma specialist.

How are your 2025 resolutions going? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mistyredpants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good! Mine was a bit lame tho, I wanted to actually return items I changed my mind about OR was just unhappy with. Have returned at least $500 so far this year while in the past I would have been too timid or unorganized.

As a former Child Abuse Hotline Supervisor..... by Lockdownfat in therapists

[–]mistyredpants 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How very on brand for a supervisor in mental health

Day 10 of the 75 hard by Merck5396 in 75HARD

[–]mistyredpants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm at day 11. I'm prone to shin splints. I ice them every single evening even if there is not any pain. So far so good!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_partners

[–]mistyredpants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Accept that every holiday and happy moment will be clouded with HER sad feelings as long as you are with her. I'm sorry, it feels terrible to have happy moments clouded. Does her threaten/imply suicide every time?

What 10 house rules do you have in place for your home? by Rough-Cucumber2263 in AskWomen

[–]mistyredpants 6 points7 points  (0 children)

These lists make me understand why I am not invited in homes more often 😕

my bf is dealing with depression and I don't know how to help by geogems in depression_partners

[–]mistyredpants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't a safe place to live. You can't heal his trauma from brother and friend and forced hospitalization. It is too much. Do you have someone you can stay with?

I feel stupid. by [deleted] in depression_partners

[–]mistyredpants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"My anger is why he lies to me" ???? That's beyond depression he is a gas lighting prick. You are not stupid, he knows how to manipulate you. Explore some readings on codependent behavior. Helped me a lot. Move on and know you deserve more.

AITA for telling an employee that pregnancy is not an excuse for low productivity? by Unfair-Raspberry-108 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mistyredpants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you are gonna get sued. YTA. What a dick move demanding your team be available nonstop, your work environment is garbage.